Porn and your relationship

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by Syzygys, Nov 7, 2007.

  1. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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    Shorty, I happen to very good at reading between the lines.

    What should I glean from this last comment?

    You know I'll have my opinion...soon.

    C'mon, beat me to it.
     
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  3. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    :shrug: That he got to feel how it made her feel.

    HAHA you know what I am done with talking about the whole thing.
    It has now:zzz: bored me.....
     
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  5. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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    O.K but here's what I think.
    You are completely non-threatened by guys getting funky but if there are girls involved...you are concerned whether you are measuring up or not.

    Sorry Shorty but you really should see this shit coming.
     
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  7. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Oh! you pegged me you are so smart

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    You know what I wish i could turn around tomorrow and be the most confident, secure, ego ready to explode type of person. But I am not.

    So what are you going to do about it? I could have wayyyyyyyyy worse
    personality traits.
     
  8. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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  9. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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    And...(flirting the fine line between sick humour and a yellow card).. a round spud peg doesn't fit in an old hole ? !
     
  10. Letticia Registered Senior Member

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    I apologize. On the Internet it is often hard to tell whether someone is serious or not.
    I would phrase it somewhat differently -- "if looking at other naked women and porn in general is a MUST for a relationship to work, then this relationship was not meant to be".

    Yesterday I saw in Dear Abby column a letter from a woman about her fiancee's obssession with an old jug of milk. For some reason he did not throw it out when the milk went bad (wanted to see what will grow in it?), and ended up keeping that jug of milk for two years -- "through two moves, seven jobs, and three girlfriends". The woman who wrote the letter can not imagine living with a same jug of ancient milk in a fridge for years. Her fiancee will not part with it. Seems like it's the only constant in his life.

    Now that's fucked up IMO. If a gallon of rotten milk is a MUST for a relationship to work, then this relationship was not meant to be either.

    It's not the porn per se, it's obssession.
     
  11. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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  12. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    No problem....

    Yes that is exactly what I said.
     
  13. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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  14. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    No time...
     
  15. Spud Emperor solanaceous common tater Registered Senior Member

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    A poser..
    All that meat and no potatoes.
     
  16. Letticia Registered Senior Member

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    I just tried to imagine what would happen if I forbade my husband to look at porn. This make-believe is not as easy as it sounds, because it could never happen in isolation -- to make such demand I'd have to be a very different person than I actually am. So to make it easier, I pretended that he liked porn I find offensive (rape and torture kind) as much as he actually does the "normal" kind.

    He would be unhappy about it. He would sneak behind my back. Eventually I would find out. I'd go ballistic. We'd separate and divorce. Relationship which was not meant to be.

    But I would never have a relationship with, let alone marry, someone who was into rape and torture in the first place! And my husband (the real, not hypothetical one) would never marry the kind of woman who would prohibit him to look at porn! Some people simply should not be together. My husband would not be appropriate for Shorty_37. And it sounds like Madanthonywayne is with someone appropriate for him.

    And good luck for "rotten milk guy" finding someone appropriate for him...
     
  17. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Well, yeah, sure. But since we're all here to tell everyone else what to do, how to do it, what's good, what's bad, what's right n' what's wrong, then we should continue this long, long, involved, worthless thread so others can continue to tell everyone else what they should and shouldn't do.

    Damn, ya' can't take all the fun from us, can you?

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  18. Xev Registered Senior Member

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    Cute comeback.
    I still don't think it's sociopathic to reject the dictates of whiny, submissive, oversocialized twats who can't live their own lives without interfering with other people's.

    No. "Society" varies from culture to culture and epoch to epoch. The sort of culture where everybody is all up in everybody else's business works for small groups of people, but does it work for large cultures?

    Besides, the men and women who've been burned at the stake would probably dispute the notion that those cultures "worked."

    You've made this point several times. Since you're not going to be dating a guy with that attitude, why are you so upset about it?
     
  19. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    I have accidents now and then ....think nothing of it.

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    I think it must ...else it's not a "society", it's something else. Like, for example, I don't think New York City is a "society", I think it's just a helluva bunch of people living in the same general area ....and mostly who don't give a fuck about even their nearest neighbor. See? That's not a "society", it's something else.

    So are you saying that a "society" must "work" for everyone in it? There can be no dissenters, no protestors, etc? See, I don't think that ...but I do think that the needs of the greater majority must, MUST, out-weigh the needs of the few. So ....burn a few of 'em at the stake!

    Sorry for derailing this thread, but was the damned thing going anywhere anyway?

    Baron Max
     
  20. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Baron is getting cutesy on us?

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    I know I am nuts, I feel like this thread is turning into a skipping record.
    I have moved onto "leafing" now it is a much more relaxing thread lol.
     
  21. madanthonywayne Morning in America Staff Member

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    The really funny thing is that quote isn't even from this thread, yet she's quoted it several times here!
     
  22. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Does it matter, it is your view on porn and a relationship.
    This is a porn and your relationship thread.:shrug:
     
  23. madanthonywayne Morning in America Staff Member

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