...How did they exchange gluons? Are gluons particles themselves? For a gluon to travel from one quark to another quark - how do they find the correct path to travel from one quark to another quark if both quarks move in a randomly probabilistic fashion?
They aren't particles in the way that people usually think. See the Wikipedia
gluon article and note this:
"There are also conjectures about other exotic hadrons in which real gluons (as opposed to virtual ones found in ordinary hadrons) would be primary constituents". Gluons are
virtual particles. They're "field quanta". It's like you take a field and divide it up into little chunks, and say each one is a virtual particle. See
Matt Strassler's article on virtual particles for more:
"Physicists often say, and laypersons’ books repeat, that the two electrons exchange virtual photons. But those are just words, and they lead to many confusions if you start imagining this word 'exchange' as meaning that the electrons are tossing photons back and forth as two children might toss a ball..."
Virtual photons aren't short-lived real photons. Hydrogen atoms don't twinkle, magnets don't shine. And the proton is not some little bag containing three quark-cannonballs with little gluon-bullets rattling back and forth. The "picture" of the bag model like
this one at hyperphysics is not a good one. Matt Strassler
tried to give a better picture, but I don't think he did too well, because he ended up treating virtual particles like real particles (!) and talking about
a seething cauldron of particles rushing around at speeds approaching the speed of light. Instead I think a better picture is available from topological quantum field theory. You know how rpenner mentioned a "knot of quantum field configurations"? Take a look at the
Topological Quantum Field Theory Club webpage. See those blue trefoil knots at the top? Pick one, start at the bottom left, and trace around it anticlockwise calling out the crossing-over directions:
up down up. The proton
is a quantum bound state like a knot of quantum field configurations. Imagine the knot is elastic like the bag model. When you pull so hard that you break it, you don't get a mess of quarks and gluons spilling out like beans from a bag. It's like the quarks are the loops, and the gluons are the "tube" with its tensile strength, all divided up into little squares, as field quanta or "chunks of field". (For the multiple fields rpenner referred to, think in terms of dividing the knot up into little squares in different ways). But note that even this picture isn't ideal. Tubes are used in TQFT to depict field topology, but there aren't any actual tubes there, just as the Earth's gravitational field isn't actually a sphere.