making love or just sex

You can have sex with someone you love, but you can't make love with a sex buddy.

 

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Sure you can. As long as one person is lying.

 

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You'd still know the truth; anything else does not matter.

 

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Different words, but same thing at the end of it. You cum!

 

This is how I see it.
I Decided I was in love when I first realized the girl that I had been going out with for the longest time was the one I would really like to have kids with, the girl who I realized I didn't suddenly gag at the thought of growing old with.
When your sex life becomes more about the pleasure of your partner, and an attempt to make them feel the absolute raging passion you have for them, when it becomes about giving them everything you can, then sex is probably more about love, when its for them, not just for you (of course, I'm a guy, so it's not exactly like its just for them either)

I'll be honest, I couldn't tell you if having sex with my future wife would make me more in love with her, I'm not sure if I could possibly be any more enamored by her. there's something special about her though, after all, she's making me wait for her till marriage, and I'm not bothered at all

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What a transcendental conversation this must be...

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I thought it was more like the extraction of ones gayest thoughts in order to have a girlie giggle at one.

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Theres nothing more erotic than making deep eye contact when having sex. Thats feeling the love.

 

It's possible to have sex while being upset with your partner (although I particularly don't like it at all). In my experience, "making love" only happens when both partners have been having a very good time and then decide to sleep together. There's a lot more emotional involvement and a lot more of eye contact.

If a guy is having sex with you and he's not looking at you in your eyes, chances are he is just "having sex" and not "making love". Just enjoying himself...

 

Given that you value eye contact, I assume you are a girl.

If you want a guy to have lots of eye contact with you, turn him on. It's hard to turn on a guy. I'm not talking about just strip tease. Talk a little bit about what you like on him and do something with him that he enjoys, before having sex. Guys like doing stuff, while girls like more talking. So do something with him before sex and then sloly draw him into it with lovely words. That should do the trick....

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Translation: women, make yourselves sexual objects.

 

Who are you translating?

 

Love is: tender touches, familiar kisses, a promise to grow old together.

Sex is: anal to stop the whining.

 

android lives to his/her/its name. Cold, metallic and rational. Logic! - not passion or emotions. Got to love android

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Maximum respect.

 

I'll explain what it's like for me and you can decide how it relates to the question. I'll refer to something called 'emotional satisfaction'... and at it's core this is bonding.

A) I experience the greatest emotional satisfaction when I am engaged in a competition of inflicting intense pleasure. In this scenario I am fully engaged and focused and I do find that it takes a little prep work (mental and / or otherwise) to make it happen.

B) I experience the least emotional satisfaction when I am just casually 'doing it'. In this scenario I visualize alot of errotic things during the act (kind of mentally checking out) and it's virtually effortless.

If I were to chart it out, it would looks like so:

EMOTIONAL SAT ---------- SEXUAL SAT (range)
High..................................High
Medium............................High
Low...................................Medium to High
None.................................Medium to High

For females, I have observed things are quite different. Specifically, emotional satisfaction determines the potential of sexual satisfaction. For example, a female whom experiences low emotional satisfaction cannot achieve anything above low sexual satisfaction. High emotional satisfaction; however, doesn't guarantee high sexual satisfaction (it just makes it possible).

It's my interpretation that females use the phrase "making love" in situations where they experience high emotional and high sexual satisfaction. The distinction isn't important to me (and I suspect most males) because there aren't any situations where I don't experience some kind of good satisfaction; whereas for females, this is not true.

 

Quoted because pathetic people are funny.

 

What is pathetic in knowing quite a bit about psychology?

You are the pathetic one...

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Go get a girlfriend!

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I don't need a girlfriend. Girls are easy.

 

guys are easier

 

very interesting