Love is more powerful than you think...

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by TruthSeeker, May 11, 2002.

  1. TruthSeeker Fancy Virtual Reality Monkey Valued Senior Member

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    I received this in my e-mail...

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    "WHO I AM MAKES A DIFFERENCE
    A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her
    seniors in high school by telling them the difference
    they each made. She called each student to the front
    of the class, one at a time. First she told each of
    them how they had made a difference to her and the class.

    Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon
    imprinted with gold letters, which read, "Who I Am
    Makes a Difference."

    Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project
    to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a
    community. She gave each of the students three more
    ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this
    acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to follow up
    on the results, see who honored whom and report back
    to the class in about a week.

    One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive
    in a nearby company and honored him for helping him
    with his career planning. He gave him a blue
    ribbon and put it on his shirt. Then he gave him two
    extra ribbons and said, "We're doing a class project
    on recognition, and we'd like you to go out find
    somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give
    them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge a
    third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony
    going. Then please report back to me and
    tell me what happened."

    Later that day the junior executive went in
    to see his boss, who had been noted, by the way, as
    being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down
    and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a
    creative genius.

    The boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive
    asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue
    ribbon and would he give him permission to put it on
    him. His surprised boss said, "Well, sure." The junior
    executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on
    his boss's jacket above his heart.

    As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, "Would
    you do me a favor? Would you take this extra ribbon
    and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young
    boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing a project in
    school and we want to keep this recognition ceremony
    going and find out how it affects people."

    That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son
    and sat him down. He said, "The most incredible thing
    happened to me today. I was in my office and one of
    the junior executives came in and told me he admired me
    and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius.
    Imagine. He thinks I'm a creative genius. Then he put
    this blue ribbon that says: "Who I Am Makes a Difference,
    on my jacket above my heart. He gave me an extra
    ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to
    honor. As I was driving home tonight, I started
    thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon
    and I thought about you.

    I want to honor you. My days are really hectic and when
    I come home I don't pay a lot of attention to you.
    Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough
    grades in school and for your bedroom being a mess, but
    somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just
    let you know that you do make a difference to me.
    Besides your mother, you are the most important
    person in my life. You're a great kid and I love you!"

    The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he
    couldn't stop crying. His whole body shook. He looked
    up at his father and said through his tears, "Dad,
    earlier tonight I sat in my room and wrote a letter to
    you and Mom explaining why I had killed myself and
    asking you to forgive me. I was going to commit
    suicide tonight after you were asleep. I just didn't
    think that you cared at all. The letter is upstairs.
    I don't think I need it after all."

    His father walked upstairs and found a heartfelt letter
    full of anguish and pain. The envelope was addressed,
    "Mom and Dad."

    The boss went back to work a changed man. He was no
    longer a grouch but made sure to let all his employees
    know that they made a difference. The junior executive
    helped several other young people with career planning
    and never forgot to let them know that they made a
    difference in his life...one being the boss's son.

    And the young boy and his classmates learned a
    valuable lesson. Who you are DOES make difference.

    You are under no obligation to send this on to
    anyone...not to two people or to two hundred. As far
    as I am concerned, you can delete it and move on to
    the next message. But if, you have anyone who means a
    lot to you, I encourage you to send him or her this
    message and let them know. You never know what kind of
    difference a little encouragement can make to a person.

    Send it to all of the people who mean anything
    important to you, or send it to the one, two, or three
    people who mean the most. Or just smile and know that
    someone thinks that you are important, or you wouldn't
    have received this in the first place. Remember that!
    I give you a blue ribbon.

    WHO YOU ARE MAKES A DIFFERENCE,
    AND I WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT!!"

    Love,
    Nelson
     
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  3. *stRgrL* Kicks ass Valued Senior Member

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    Hey, I got the same email. I thought it was pretty cool.

    Take care

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  5. Pollux V Ra Bless America Registered Senior Member

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    Sounds like a great made-for-tv-movie is in the works. I'm thinking the skipper from Gilligan's Island should play the grouchy guy from work, and when he finds out that his son wants to commit suicide he should say 'Oh it's alright, little buddy.'
     
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  7. Porfiry Nomad Registered Senior Member

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    I feel nauseated.
     
  8. Xev Registered Senior Member

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    I wish somone would send depressing Catallus poems as spam. Like:

    My woman says to me that there is none
    With whom she'd rather spend her days than I,
    Should even Jove himself ask her to wed.
    So she says, but women often lie,
    And loving words they speak ought to be written
    In rapid winds and water flowing by.
     
  9. Pollux V Ra Bless America Registered Senior Member

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    That's strange porfiry, maybe a nice blue ribbon would cheer you up.

    I don't feel nauseated, in fact I was ready to cry my eyes out all over my keyboard and electrify myself, with glee I might add, stupid, happy glee, because gosh darnit now that I've read that I really do make a difference I feel like inducing a painful electric shock. I am horrified, in fact so much that I have just lost my monacle.
     
  10. Lykan Golden Sparkler Registered Senior Member

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    Tsk tsk tsk, Porfiry... You make SUCH a difference in our lives!

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    Group hug time!

    I've known the huge difference i make ever since i got laid by the tooth fairy when i was 16, and most of the children who'd put their just-pulled tooth under their pillow that night woke up with the tooth still there the next morning.

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  11. Pollux V Ra Bless America Registered Senior Member

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    Yeah I was wondering why I woke up this morning with several rashes on my genitals, I have no idea why, but just last night I had laid down one of my teeth but also thought to myself 'hmm I should buy more condoms, I just ran out, because I like to have a lot of fun with my eight or nine girlfriends.'

    Sarcasm here. Wow, lykan, we have really messed up this thread. Congratulations!
     
  12. Xev Registered Senior Member

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    Lykan:
    Was she good?
     
  13. Lykan Golden Sparkler Registered Senior Member

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    Was she good?

    Absolutely -- fairy dust was going everywhere. And i was glad when she didn't drag her teeth, as i wasn't too sure about that given her career and all.

    But alas, Santa was more of a nympho, when we took that weekend get-away down to the Bahamas last year. Ho ho ho...
     
  14. TruthSeeker Fancy Virtual Reality Monkey Valued Senior Member

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    Yeah... fantastic...

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    'Thanks' folks...

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    I used to think that the world can be fixed but now I start to doubt...

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    Love (as usual...),
    Nelson
     
  15. Xev Registered Senior Member

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    What, Nelson? We're just discussing whether the Tooth Fairy is good in bed! What's wrong with that? It's a nice way to unwind after a really bad week.

    Prude.

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  16. TruthSeeker Fancy Virtual Reality Monkey Valued Senior Member

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    I'm talking about some comments... like Porfiry's...
     
  17. Lykan Golden Sparkler Registered Senior Member

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    Thanks for sharing that email, TruthSeeker. It's a good one, i've received it before too, though it's been a while.

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  18. Shamoo Registered Member

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    its like that movie, "pay it forward"

    where the kid dies at the end

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  19. Lesion42 Deranged Hermit Registered Senior Member

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    I think Lykan is nuts. I really have to respect that. And wouldn't the tooth fairy have to be good in bed? All fairies are. I thought everyone knew that!

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    Hey, just kidding.

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  20. SonOfABitch Registered Member

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    Don't worry Porify you're not the only one that's nauseated....:bugeye:

    Sounds like a "pay it forward" wannabe thang....except the boys life is saved instead of the boy dieing...

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  21. daktaklakpak God is irrelevant! Registered Senior Member

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    Chain letter is just another form of spam.
     

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