Another implied insult. What makes you think that I cannot tell if someone is tactile or not? Not all men are sexual predators. Why do you stroke a cat or a dog? Is that sexual, or just affection and showing that you want to be friends? Listen to this ; and if you want to hear musical lovemaking, listen to the next instrumental by Pat Metheney and Toots Thielemans, this is true emotional intimacy, but not sexual. Its the B&W picture..