if you could be beautiful or strong, but not both...

Seriously?

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You're shitting me? From Mr. Orly?

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You don't withhold it in the context of relationships when you love someone. (I mean, if you're cramping like mad, I'm not saying you're obligated to put out, or if you're really tired, etc.) It's not a bargaining chip. Any asshole who tries to buy my affection I don't really mind exploiting after I tell them that I'm not looking for a relationship. I had a man who once did not understand I cannot be bought. Then he got mad when I wouldn't so much as kiss him after he said, "Oh, I just want to do this as a friend."

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No, not him.
I withheld from my first love because we had to be married before I could have intercourse with him. A bit before the wedding I finally put out.

 

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To make them beg for it and love you even more.

 

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Oh I so disagree. Beauty magazines are largely run by women, high powered women like Helen Gurley Brown who ran Cosmopolitan was a feminist and yet she still believes beauty matters, and of course there is the notorious Anna Wintour. You can't tell me these women are not concerned with beauty. I think you underestimate vanity in the lives of women especially single women. This world where straight women rule would still have men who are attracted to women based on how they look its a biological hardwiring.

 

VI,

Yes you do, it's beauty. When your dealing with men, beauty is like having mutant strength. This is what I am trying to impress on you.

Use it wisely.

 

I think beauty matters too, it just shouldn't be the only thing a woman is judged and defined by.

I would like to be seen as nice looking. It would only bother me if I were valued only for my looks and not for my actual abilities.

 

Bollocks.

Sure, beauty means men will like you and look after you, unless you're extremely antisocial.

But it's hardly a superpower.

 

I feel better for Mr. Orly then.

Someone who truly loves me, not the idealized gooey romantic version of me, loves me for giving my love freely to those I love. Right or wrong, it's who I am. Anyone I love is denied nothing. Until I love you, I will step over you if you stand between me and something I desire.

 

Your not a man. Trust me. It's a superpower.

 

Of course and any reasonably intelligent man will not judge you solely on your looks. But it is as Lucy pointed out, biological hardwiring. It is reality.

Nobody here is saying whether it's fair or not, it just is.

I am with Orly, T&J and Lucy. Embrace it and use it and have fun.

There are drawbacks to being a woman, beauty is not one of them.

 

Eternal damnation awaits.

 

Aye.. ok then

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By the way, Well Hung Stableboy, would you pick beauty or strength?

 

I haven't decided yet, because my question hasn't been answered..

 

What was your question?

 

Oh. I see. Say you get to keep your looks or strength and the other's enhanced.

 

Strength.

 

What on Earth do you need with that strength? BTW, super sexual powers are not part of the strength package.

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I don't know. But I'm comfortable with the way I look and great strength could come in handy some time.

 

That's fair. Why do I think you'd be tearing neo-conservatives and anti-environmentalists in half like tissues?

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