ok can you get pregnant from having outercourse?? i did this with my boyfriend and he touched me but we had our clothes on the whole time. the next day i got my period, and i know i'm safe where that situation is. but that same day, 3 hours later, it happened again, only he didn't touch me but i touched him and we had all our clothes on. i know this sounds nasty but i nkow i didn't touch myself afterwards but i had to fix my pad and i touched a bit of hair on the side. i heard that you can get pregnant if come or pre-cum gets on the vulva or virgina even though it's less likely than intercourse. also, does a guy no it when he cums? i mean when you give hima handjob? i have these stomach problems leaving me to where i somtimes feel sik and have to go to the bathroom alot-aka bowel irritable syndrom- and i don't think these are signs of pregnancy but they get worse and i still have them but they are worse. is it possible to get pregnant on the first day of your period if you accidently touch a bit of hair(pub?) i know this is a rather yuky thread but it's buggin me tremoundsly and if any help i would appreciate it. Thank you sooo much!
You're only about 14 or 15 arent you? If you werent, and you were that worried, you'd just wait and buy a pregnancy test. If you don't want to get pregnant, don't do anything. You're too young anyway. -AntonK
the chances that you can get pregnant through clothing is minimal, though possible. the more layers of clothing and the tighter the weave of the cloth, the less the chance. It is possible to become impregnated through pre-cum. it is possible to become pregnant by giving a guy a handjob and then touching yourself, therefore transfering sperm to a place where is can swim to an egg. You specific case does not sould likely, the sprem needs a liquid channel to swim throguh, as long as you did not have alot of his cum on your hand when you touched pubic hair, you should be fine. I wouldn't recommend repeating the action w/o washing your hands in between, though. As for when during a menstral cycle pregnancy is most likely, I think it's one to two days after ovulation. anyone know if that is correct? it when the egg is travelling down the last half of the felopien tubes, headed towards the womb. however, you can get pregnant if sex occurs during ay time in that cycle, Y chromosome sperm swims faster, but lives only a few days, X chromosome sprem can live for up to a week, trying to find an egg to fertilize. that 1/4 of the cycle! I know at your age (I'm guessing your age based on when I was asking these same questions) it's difficult to control yourself, but having a kid by accident is much worse of a thing than stopping yourself from doing anything. If you decide to fool around anyway, do you best to minimise the risk of STD transmission, and pregnancy by using protection and washing everything that gets touched with soap. make sure you avoid touching him, and then accidentally transferring sperm to you. I had one friend who got pregnant, but never actually had sex. she gave his oral sex, they kissed, and he then gave her oral sex (that's the only thing they can think of that would have caused the pregnancy). while saliva will kill most sperm, it is still a method for transporting sperm while it remains alive. The best way to not get pregnant is to not have sex, or fondle each other, in any way. While it is possible to seperate ejaculation from orgasm in men, it most often the case that they always happen at the same time. so if he comes to orgasm, you *will* know. it will be very, very obvious. good luck, be safe, and don't forget that while it feels good, it could end up ruling your life. if you have a child now, your are responsible for that child. All those goal and dreams of what you want to do with *your* life may be forcefully replaced by what your child needs you to do for it. ask yourself if you want to risk that.
Yeah I'd say it's unlikely. The spermies can swim up you and make you preggers according to scientists, however I think ejaculation itself (the spurting) is a big aid to pregnancy.
I would say that "no" : the probability that you're pregnant is really small... The spermatozoas are not "super-heros" that can travel to find an egg during a long time. I think that Mucker is right about the ejaculation : it's important to send the spermatozoas to the right place. Moreover, you said it was one day after your period, so -but if you're really lucky/unlucky- there were no eggs waiting for a spermatozoa! Edit : I'm not a specialist...
Hi me2: Were there any match sticks around when you were doing this? The little sperms can pole vault.
Hi me2, First of all take a deep breath. If you're getting this stressed out over the physical side of your relationship, maybe you're not ready to go that far yet. As others have pointed out it could technically be possible to get pregnant from heavy petting and genital fondling if there was contact between his semen and the mucus membrane on your vulva. Given what you've stated, this is highly unlikely (you'd have a better chance at winning the next Superball lottery). Generally yes. However, as you're already aware, there are sperm present in the seminal fluid that is secreted before ejaculation or "precum." And it is possible for a male to ejaculate without experiencing an orgasm. No one can diagnose you based on what you say on an internet forum. This could be caused by an allergic reaction, a gastrointestinal infection, or even stress. Only a doctor can tell you why this is happening. Remember, it's best to make your decisions first about how comfortable you are with the degree of physical interaction in your relationship - before you get caught up in the moment.
Speak for yourself! SG-N Speak for yourself. Just the other day I was telling my little spermatazoa's just how much they were like superheroes and now you go and break these headlines. Sheesh! Not superheroes...........what ever! Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Hi me2: You gotta relax. It is extremely unlikely that you had just ovulated if you had just began your period. Even if, against incredible odds, incredible incredible INCREDIBLE odds, some of those sperm had made it clear to the oviduct to where that egg is. there still has to be a lot of them to digest the covering around the egg, the corona radiata. Count as day 1 the first day of your period. The most likely days to get pregnant are about 12-16 days later. If your timing is about the norm, day 14 is the most likely day. You were about two weeks from the most fertile period. Even if there had been an egg there on day 2, and it had gotten fertilized, there would be no likely future for it. The bloody discharge that you see is the shedding of the stratum functionalis, the layer of the uterus into which the embryo must burrow in order to develop any further. Without a healthy s. functionalis present, a placenta cannot form. If events actually occurred as you have related them, and you are indeed pregnant, then you may be experiencing possibly the most unorthodox fertilization event since the Immaculate Conception. IMO, you oughta relax.
Don't any of you Future Farmers or you guys from the 4-H club give me an argument about this. It don't work the same way in girls that it does in cows!
me2 you need to go to the doctor and explain your stomach problems some women experience servre problems from their periods and that can often be reduced dramaticly by taking a birth control pill as a normal daily routine to regulate their cycle and hormone levels i have personaly known and heard of many women with symptoms like you say about your stomach cramps but that may not be the only problem the more you stress the more irregular your period may become and the stomach muscles may get worse with worry on top of any medical reason if you are worried that a doctor will not respect your privacey then use a false name BUT if you GET ANY DRUGS off them it MAY be a CRIME so if they recomend any medication then go back to your regular doctor and advise them of your concerns and ask them if they are legaly obliged to respect your privacey. i think it is sad that your mother has not talked to you about this stuff already maybe you could explain that to your doctor and get some reading material while seeking advice for your stomach problem there are many traditional remedys to help women with their hormones and period problems a well studyed homeopath or herbal-ist or even some female-well read-intellegent gardeners should know anyone with extensive herbal knoledge should know but only after you have been to the doctor for your current problem you may need an intestine scan/barium meal or something like that while that is going on you should be able to get the contraceptive pill from the doctor at the same time to help regulate your period if that is a part of the problem you are most unlikely to be pregnent if you were to get pregnent then it could be topical and could kill you VERY RARE so its all very seriouse stuff you need to look at the contraceptive pill or do some very quick learning about what you should and should not be doing to avoid pregnancy if you are going to play with your Bf then make the "big act" ejaculation the last event and send him packing to the bathroom to clean up and make you a cup of tea while he is up Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! always have some tissues or hand towels in arms reach to collect everything before it hits the walls and stains the carpet the easyest way to start may be to get him to play with you first and set the ground rules for stopping anything that could transfer sperm from him to you where it could result in pregnancy find a good doctor and start learning about your body it will help in many aspects of your life aside from sex and reproduction and keep grooving Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
theyv given u the science and the bs. il give u nothin cuz there nuthin eles to give. shuddup sit down and ignore all im about to say. 1. i can tell when i cum every time, unless im asleep. 2. ur 14 yo and rly shouldnt be doing any of this yet. 3. ur daddy/gramma was probably verr *mean* to you as a child and this is causing problems. 4.damnit ur not pregnant! get over it! 5. just fucckin get a preg test and if ur positive, wich u wont be, get an abortion if it bother u so much! or just swallow copper pills i here that works too. 6. u were groping him, with all his clothes on, you had all your clothes on, and he cummed and ur worried.... he now has 1 very dirty pair of jeens!
Okay, you can fool some of the dirty old men on the forum or at least incite them to answer your cry for help, but you can't fool me, my dear. What cave have you been living in? You can't fool me that you are as ignorant as you pretend to be about sex. I think you made the whole thing up. Even ugly third graders have more sexual savvy than you. If you are a child, you need to keep your clothes on, your feet squarely on the floor, and your hands to yourself. There are much worse things you could get than pregnant which could be taken care of in about 5 minutes time. I think you're a phony. You're probably a dirty old man trying to 'tease' the simple-minded men on the forum pretending you're a young innocent girl. Or you're a slut with the same objective. If you were an aborigine living in the depths of a rainforest somewhere, I could be more sympathetic to your cry for help, but then you wouldn't have a computer hook-up, would ya? Since you are obviously a misguided fool, whomever you are, you need psychological help and sciforums.com is NOT the place to find it. Get a life and get lost.
