Is a person's sexuality fixed or can it change? Can heterosexual person turn gay (or would it just be that they were gay all along but never knew it?) or vice versa. I realize that there is much debate about this and some will point to genetics, others to conditioning, others will simply shrug, but is (for example) the general view that a person's sexuality is beyond their control justifiable. As a child, I used to swear that I would never eat peas, but one day I changed my mind for no apparent reason and now I quite like them; I used to drink coffee with milk and two sugars, but now I drink it black and unsweetened; the list is endless. Now somebody will quickly jump in and exclaim that sexuality isn't like that, but it's the reason that it's different that I'm after. Peace.