How to spot a bastard

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  1. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    Well, at least we know for next time.
     
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  3. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    Um... what?

    Are you telling us that you're trolling to see what sort of responses you'll get?
     
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    I can see where your coming from there, I was surprised by all the namby-pamby, kissy-wishy-washy agony aunts coming out the woodwork here. Get a grip on yourself chaps.

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  7. sweetpea Valued Senior Member

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    For those who like Birch's 'serious' posts, may I direct you to...
    And if you have a liking for these sorts of posts... Post by Magical Realist...
    Why have I posted these two posts here? Simple, Birch has said the thread is a'' troll thread'', so anything goes, birch won't mind.
     
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  8. Michael 345 New year. PRESENT is 72 years oldl Valued Senior Member

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    Magical Realist quote

    Ghosts exist in many forms. Some are emotive imprints on the spin networks of the quantum vacuum. Others are intelligent shells or emanations or tulpas of consciousness. Others are transconstructual presences, like your mom in the kitchen when you're playing video games. But their superpowers are limited. There are reports of heavy desks being turned over and objects being teleported across spacetime. But they can't do anything. For that you will have to wait for the one million AD collective egregore of the human race.


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  9. sweetpea Valued Senior Member

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    Stay tuned to Sciforums.
    Same place they have their heads.

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  10. Michael 345 New year. PRESENT is 72 years oldl Valued Senior Member

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    I looked in there

    I shone a torch in one ear and a beam of light came out the other ear

    When I did the same with the room darkened the eyes lit up and the nose glowed

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    https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/3ptvem/why_arent_women_as_creepy_or_perverted_as_men/

    Bingo. This person nailed the jist of it. It can't be a coincidence i've experienced this type of male so often with this type of mindset. Just recently, grandpa (70ish) fixed my car and when i took off my sneakers to clean motor oil off that got on, he jokingly asked if i was stripping. the other mutual friend and his son both looked at eachother like that was not appropriate. he would ask me questions unrelated to the job like if i was ever married but out of the blue never paying attention to the fact i never asked him any personal questions in return or before and i and his son helped him look for a part since he was always dropping tools and when finished his first comment was that if he had a wife like me, he would be rich by now? didn't make sense but anyways. then when i paid him for the work, he immediately asked if he could buy me dinner. it just makes you wonder why there are so many deluded men out there. they seem to think it doesn't matter what age or who or what is the other person as long as they are just female. but it is legitimate to wonder why there are men especially so narcissistic to think someone who is younger and doesn't even have the same interests would be interested in them. it is legitimate for women to feel contempt for such a mindset because those same men are not eager to hit on women in their own age group. i think that is a sign of immaturity but men do not want to admit that, they want a subordinate. they don't want to relate on an equal basis.

    https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/older-guys-lust-young-women

    also, it is very similar to pedophiliac tendency. it doesn't matter whether someone of 'legal' age. you can sense when it's not appropriate and men constantly attracted to women much younger and inappropriately, is a pretty nasty and selfish individual. that would be like when i'm 70ish and expecting a much younger man to be attracted to me. that is a very self-centered person who is disrespectful of the other and what is in their better interest. as if they should forfeit their life just to make me feel younger etc.

    it is offensive and that isn't understood by most males because they don't have to experience being in the other's shoes. they don't have most women who are grandmas who like men act with an almost obstinate, pushy and competitive streak against the victim on younger men as if they have a right to them. jealous, envious, even with some malice of their youth as if they have a right to be younger all their life and if by god, they can't then younger women are obligated to sacrifice themselves for them. if men did have to experience that, they would be disgusted or be offended too. no, they would be infuriated.
     
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  12. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    Good troll! And nice image; people dying just to make you feel younger.
     
  13. birch Valued Senior Member

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    heh. you don't like the real truth of that post, did ya? check yo-self.
     
  14. birch Valued Senior Member

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    heh. i saw all these pictures in the house of when he was younger, his ex-wife (same age group when younger) and three kids, many grand-kids etc. the man had a full life and yet these same types of men think they are entitled to re-live all that again with someone else, but this type still younger than them while they so disgustingly ignore the fact why should someone want their wrinkly old, slow, hearing impaired ass unless the other is similar? that is very selfish! it is offensive! like wtf?! there may be some using bitches out there who go for men just for money or material benefit but that makes it bad for the rest of us who are looked at as if it could be the same with us. what men like this don't consider is they aren't with them usually because they care or like the person. it's a co-dependent and false relation where both are using eachother, one as arm-candy or for sex and the other for money. i and many other women personally find that disgusting and i don't appreciate that type of projection as a possibility from other men just because women who are shit like that exist and they see examples of disparate relationships and so assume it's okay or is healthy. they are no different than prostitutes and in their case, even worse, they aren't forced into it.

    no, they should grow old gracefully like well-adjusted people who understand their is a time and place for everything and their are milestones in life. they should consider a companion who they have things in common with and can actually share and discuss, not be looking towards trying to get over on someone with stupid pipe dreams or delusions of being someone they aren't anymore. it's totally legitimate to feel contempt for people like that because it's stupid and it's greedy. i didn't even get that and i'm okay with it and accept life's lot for me. i don't expect others to love or like me as if it's a personal right that another should be meeting. the only right i had was from my parents who it was their obligation to at least take care of the essentials and not be abusive.

    he kept telling me about the mechanics of cars as if i was interested and i listened patiently as that was his interest, then he was telling me what type of music he listened to, that he was part of a band when he was younger and asked me questions regarding my interests which were none like his. that still didn't matter as long as he was getting the attention he wanted. narcissistic men never ask the pertinent question: why the fuck should the other person be 'personally' interested or attracted to you? but instead flatter themselves.

    there is quite a correlation with the same type of mindset of the stepfather who believed he could mold me into what he wanted and that i was a gift from god and that i belonged to him and when i didn't want to have his child, be his lover and all that, starting from the grooming of seven years old!!!, he turned that into spite towards me because i was NOT who he wanted me to be and i was NOT going to be and I did NOT like him or attracted in anyway, shape or form!!! that piece of shit devilish men like this don't want to admit that women like men are PEOPLE AND INDIVIDUALS JUST LIKE THEM!!

    i have had so many males who turned spiteful just from simple uninterest romantically/sexually. that's fuking disgusting and i say in all honestly, they should get their goddamn dick and balls chopped off and not spread their nasty genes anymore in this world!!!
     
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    look at the third finger on mother's left hand
     
  16. birch Valued Senior Member

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    there are many men who use technicalities like you. children don't wear wedding bands either, so they are a free for all, ain't they? nor is anyone over the legal age limit but from what i've known and witnessed, men who go after, even knowingly, where there is nothing in common, much younger women are pedophiliac/rapist inclination/character in nature. they are just using the excuse it's legal. but it's contemptible, even laughable considering that most people with 20ish or more age difference will not have as much or nothing in common with them but depraved men consistently try to ignore their own age and women of their own age group and that's detestable. they are not respectable men. like it's totally appropriate for a 35 year old to be attracted to a 13 year old in the case of the stepfather and he was married to my mother and was more interested in me. his primary motive in getting with her was because she had a daughter. then when i became of age, he hoped again as if that would change things. fuking delusional fool. the worst punishment is not enough for such lowlives. it's really detestable. not really different than over 40ish males lusting after 20 somethings. they don't realize they should be embarassed, really ashamed as they are their daughters age, if they had any sense of decency but they are too degenerate/depraved to realize it and use any excuse they can conjure up to justify it. if the 'legal' age limit was even lower, there are men who would justify that too.

    what this indicates is there is a difference between the spirit of the law and letter of the law. good people are honest about what's appropriate, decent or not, no matter what the law says. immoral people use laws as an excuse to justify just like any wrong or unethical mores in the past.

    and every single one of them look for when there is nothing in common (which if was really honest/legitimate should have stopped the interest/pursuit there as it's not mutual) an angle or avenue of need, vulnerability or desperation. that's how you know and that's why you end up with legitimate contempt for these types of men. as if that's a good reason for a relationship. no, that is called looking for a reason to exploit or even use some form of blackmail. even my stepfather thought if he could keep in a down and out desperate situation, that i would go to him. those are sick, demented and even malicious motives, not to mention unhealthy.
     
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    and the lengths of air-headed delusional grasping bullshit excuses some men will go to justify magical compatibility somehow after the 'legal' age, as if decades gap just goes away just because someone is over 18 so magically a 20 year old is compatible and has things in common with a 40 year old, or a 30 with a 60 etc. total bullshit! any excuse to go lower in age.

    why i take a stand on this strongly now is from much experience and it is disrepectable and detestable for men to find disgust with women their own age for aging while they are the same while expecting younger women to accept them though. that actually pisses me off. you have the nerve to look down on a female for wrinkles and aging while your ass is the same but you think you should have different? you just assume it's innocent that you are entitled to someone younger and they are supposed to swallow disgust while you rut your wrinkly old, viagra taking ass and she is supposed to accept that just because you are a male? you are disgusted with females your own age but you don't think other women younger than you shouldn't be disgusted by your advances?

    it's hypocrisy to the extreme and is indicative of a very, even malignantly selfish character. any male who doesn't question themselves when pursuing women precisely because they look younger, fresh etc is scum and is i think true in the motive like a parasite. they want to feed on it which drains the other. what makes it detestable is they had their young years and time yet are heteronomous types who do not consider ethics, appropriate, what is best for others etc or how it may affect others/society. they just want what they want, regardless and it's all about them.
     
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    https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/aug/20/sexual-harassment-women-curfew

    what pisses me off is that i'm on a different continent and i understand what she is saying and where she is coming from. that i consciously even planned on keeping in earphones at bus stops/stations etc so that i wouldn't be approached or pretend i can't hear them not by women but by males. i just wonder who raised these pieces of shit. what the fuk is there problem? like there is some notice out there that it is a duty to approach every single goddamn female they possibly can. that would be like me approaching every seemingly single male i see at every opportunity. it's stupid and annoying.

    there was this guy who literally was playing with himself while talking to me, in broad daylight and in front of everyone. the first thing he said to me after bringing me mail from his sister who was my ex-roommate was 'are you looking for a partner or other half?' never had a conversation before ever except me thanking him for bringing my mail. the most moronic part was that i knew that if i said yes, he would assume that would be anyone, including him. that's how these morons think. they see people as a commodity, like picking up the same bottle of tide in a store. they assume anyone would do because they are that simple themselves. they care nothing about compatibility, who you are, who they are, nothing! all they see is a single female and that is all that's required. i am seriously not joking when i say that koko the gorilla is probably more intelligent than that so-called human. why are these people breeding? why are these lowlife bitches breeding shit males where their brains are lower than my pet dog or cat? his sister is the same one who liked the guy who asked me for a massage which i had to report to the landlord.

    it was a barbecue and then when everyone went back in the house, he pathetically made a comment that he needed a massage and i said have your friend give you one and then he said he needs a female to do it and then i said then go pay for a masseuse. as if that is going to make someone interested. telling a total stranger and hardly an acquaintance who happens to be a female. like his lust is supposed to make me feel guilty. like the fact i am female makes me guilty. he would slam his door like an idiot everytime he came home from work just to let me know he was there and to force me out. that's how stupid he was. then i couldn't walk around without being stared at from the beady eyed creep what's even bizarre is i never flirted with this person. you can tell if you have a single brain cell if someone is remotely interested. but these types don't care if you are, they seem to think they can trick, harass, or somehow entitled to something simply because you are single and female!! as if just being single is a crime for a female!! and you are just open territory for anyone who decides to claim you! it's fuking weird. it's like you have to repeat over and over and then get very hostile for them to stop. i was working somewhat with someone at the time of his business and i referred him and i told him to say that he was a roommate that i was referring for a discount and was on a three-way setting up the appointment and he tells the guy that i am his friend. after the conversation, i gave him the address and he comes back and tells me he told him that i was his 'friend' that he's known for awhile. i told him that he already knows you are a roommate as he knows when i moved in here and i'm new in town and didn't know anyone yet. then he stands close to me invading my personal space and mumbles something about you should consider men who can do things for you! what a creep! there are females who breed with shit like that and produce more of them. that stupid bitch lent him 1300 dollars which he never paid back and then her and her friend had the audacity to tell me that i was too critical and that i should give people a second chance? everytime i even barely looked his way, that creeper got ideas, let alone say anything. people infuriate me because there are so many with low standards or with no inkling or care about ethics or other's rights.

    it's amazing the amount of human scum that exists in the world and the level of stupidity. the problem is everyone is given esteem they don't fuking deserve like christians saying god doesn't create shit but it certainly does because that outnumbers non-shit in the world. fact!

    i am no humanitarian anymore. i detest humanity. you would think everyone has a sense of decency but calling all people human is laughable. most don't even deserve that much credit. most are annoying, stupid, lame, cowardly and shit characters etc. people don't consider that the average iq is actually really atrociously dumb and coupled with even shitty character which is usual, you have a lot of sneaky degenerates who try to evade the law or have no respect at all or only when others are watching.

    there should be a great culling of the human race just like the proverbial flood, even all of humanity, honestly is no great loss to the planet.
     
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    what i find funny is how often people who do not have to deal with the average person actually do not know how they really are. they use people, for instance, like me or the middle class as buffers/shields. they can sit in their ivory towers and have idealism about humanity that is unrelated to the truth and scold others for being too harsh on others. yet they are not the ones who actually have to deal with them. if they had to be locked in a room to get to know them, their sense of humanity, patience and all that pie in the sky humanity would go out the fuking window!! it's much different when you actually experience the ugliness of humanity and people. it wears at you and does tarnish you, eventually even degrading you. it's just inevitable.

    it's like that man who was about to be homeless which i helped with his resume. i know it seems i can't write coherently or with correct grammar but i can when i apply myself or serious and it was astute way i advertised him which made him sound excellent. i knew EXACTLY what to write and how to present it to get these types of prospect's attention. he was hired by an extremely wealthy family in a very prestigious neighborhood with room and board included with great pay as a live-in hospice worker for their older family member. even better, he had to do very little and still get substantial pay and time off, even chauffeured when he needs to go for his own errands. he's had similar work before but not with these types of people. but that still wasn't enough and he had very short-lived appreciation. even worse, when show you can do something for these types of people, they see you as a meal ticket and want to further use you. they become spiteful and demanding. then they become obsessive because they can see what you can do for them but they know they don't have to have respect for you because you are on the bottom. it's like both a contempt because they can't do it themselves on their own yet a juicy steak that landed in their shitty vicinity to take advantage of which is rare. never in a million years would he have gotten that job by his own efforts or the kind of resume he would write. i even told him how to act during the interview and especially in his case, what not to say. lmfao

    it's like even all the scum family members who rose to the top, the top can pretend they are shielded from the worst of humanity but they aren't. they are moving on right up there. have fun in your delusions of rubbing elbows with the 'right' type of people, because it's an illusion. but why should only some have to deal with the shit of humanity? that's only fair others get a fair share to experience what a headache it is. let's see how loving toward humanity they can remain if it was actually in their house , at their side or even worse, face to face and living with them! lmfao!
     
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    there are quite a lot of men with the mindset that they are entitled to someone's affections based soley on their own standards and judgements they apply to the other. for instance, there are several who have been embittered that i had no right to reject their advances because of 'i was not better than them' or along that line of reasoning. but the odd twist to this is they project this most on women that are less like them than more like them so it's contradictory.

    this is the problem. this is very dangerous and men are not called out on it. there is nothing innocent about this mentality. it denotes a lack of respect of another's right to choose, another's personal tastes and preferences, their own standards and needs and is peculiarly non-personal in nature. there are people within the same socioeconomic status or even single co-workers, for example, who you will not be personally attracted to or romantically interested.

    there are a lot of sociopathic tendencied type of males who blame the other person if they are not interested in them. what's even worse is, if you were decent to them in any way, the level of spite and sense of entitlement is even worse if they are rejected. it means that just by showing your kindness or that you can be nice is to them meaning that you are OBLIGATED since you have that ability to do so toward them. that you even associated with them at all means you are one of them or that you have lowered yourself and now they believe they are above you in social strata because they are the male in the scenario and you have less rights or no personal rights.

    the most insulting part is that part of this mentality, whether true or not, they believe comes from the upper strata, that people lower on the social ladder don't deserve the same rights and priviledges as those on the upper. that anyone who seemingly fell from an upper strata to a lower one has less rights in society than those who already belonged there. they see women, especially, in these situatons as the first ones to whore out or use because it's like manna or a reject from society, even if they are actually scummier.

    they feel you actually have less rights than even them, that they have a right to plunder you, use you all the while with contempt for the actual good qualities you may have still left and want to use that too! there seems to be an unspoken sentiment that just because you fell, whether it's justified or not, that you owe them or are obligated. that literally, you deserve to be used completely and totally unlike them for their benefit. the same rights they extend to themselves and those they identify as being similar, they don't extend to you. it doesn't matter if you are better or worse than them, they will see you as something to use like you are have no rights. SERIOUSLY! it's very scary, ugly, perverted and it's atrocious. i've had many males throughout life treat me like i had no rights starting from my uncle who molested me at 4 years old. they are serious, they actually believe this and it's the 21st century. if they see genuine kindness in you, they see you as having ZERO rights. DO YOU KNOW WHY? because they know most people are not like that!!!! you are a juicy morsel. that's pretty scary!

    but if this sentiment is true and not just something they delusionally believe, what does this say about the evil, gratuituous, perverted and dirty spite of the upper echelon? not so good look, more like not so noble at all.
     
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    somehow, i'm supposed to sacrifice myself to placate the needs and desires of others, regardless of what i want or need, because what others see in me or want from me is more important. oh, the very fact i may be in the same socioeconomic status or level as another also obligates me too. NEVERMIND, whether i'm attracted or desire the other, that just doesn't matter.

    also, another insulting aspect with scum is if i have any inkling of my own standards, then i am a "snob", if it excludes another, and somehow, they are always in the moral right. that i need to be taught a lesson, that i need to be brought down a further peg. how much more should i be brought down? that i'm in the wrong if i am even remotely as selfish as they are or have my own wishes and desires. because they are extremely selfish and no one does that to them. most women don't do that shit to men or have that attitude. i don't know, if someone rejects me, i'm not furious or think self-righteously i belonged in their life or had a right to be in their life. i figure that's their choice and their right. maybe i'm crazy for that.

    of course, what they don't see or even goddamn fuking care is if i accepted the advances of every tom, dick and harry that believed we "belonged' together, i would be a dead, used up whore. unfortunately, for them, that's not who i a really am.

    human? hardly. scum in a human meat suit? hell yeah.
     
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    oh yeah, my uncle who molested me at 4 years old. that's right, at four. he had the same type of attitude: male chauvinist, forceful, vengeful, domineering, entitled, nasty. what he wanted was what he deserved, right? it could be anything. he would take off me with him when he was supposed to babysit and then take off my underwear and spread my legs. isn't that great? of course i was too young to realize what was going on but when i turned around 5, i knew something wasn't right. oh, he would also unzip his pants so that i could play with his penis and tell me it was a hotdog and to suck on it. too real, graphic and UGLY FOR YA??! face it! face life's ugliness and all the shit people do and hide!
    people are nasty, disgusting and shameful creatures but are shameless. evil people aren't just the ones in prison but also all around you. they are motivated by all sorts of lame, filthy and petty motives. even one of the problems with my ex from the getgo was that other women were trying to poison his mind against me because of jealousy and they didn't even know me. but i don't even care about those things anymore as i don't want anything to do with the shit that society has to offer. i don't consider this my world. it belongs, mostly i think, for people like that. nasty creatures win here and they can have it.

    as long as i can be left alone, have a roof over my head and food enough to eat, i don't care about any of the rest anymore. as for people like that uncle, i just used to laugh inside myself when i would see his wife knowing she sleeps with a perv and doesn't know it. he has a normal life and married with kids and a business. that scum is successful too but any decent person would be able to tell he's a piece of human shit but obviously most are not that decent. that's the reason why, they are as scummy as he is. lmao. well, she deserves him because they are very much alike but still, that is my consolation.

    this world is a farce, fake, full of lies and deceit, impostors and a joke all stroking eachothers ill-gained and false ego. lol
     
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    i seriously don't understand this type of mentality. even in that fiasco where i was renting a room in the interim and i was harassed by that male, the other older man there derisively asked me me 'so you think you are better than him?' when i mentioned i didn't want to be bothered by him with his advances.

    it is bizarre to me. if a female or even a male said to me they don't care for or are not interested in someone and feel uncomfortable or harassed by their advances, i wouldn't ask them if they think they are better than them, so what's the problem or if they aren't better than them, as if that makes some difference. why i don't understand is even that man has a girlfriend and also been married before and also has two daughters of his own. he even told me that he had to tell them about men.

    i think most of society has no idea just how people on the lower rung think. they see anybody even slightly different from them as an affront or a challenge to their ego or their ego is easily bruised.

    but it was telling that when i was getting ready to move, he was way too interested in where i was going and wanted to keep in touch. i was only there a couple months. it had nothing to do with friendship. he was always simultaneously trying to insult and put me down me while at the same time wanting my company. it's pretty gross when people's motives are so utterly shallow and they don't even have any real respect, care or interest for you. they just see you as some type of competition to keep up with or something different that they usually don't interact with. same thing with his girlfriend, no real interest in me, feigning friendship just out of nosiness and accusing me again of being a snob because i didn't want to interact with her after i moved. why should i? all they did was drink and they were not a good influence and there was no basis for a friendship anyways.

    lowlives always think that anyone who doesn't do what they do or rejects them is being a snob and they are wrong. nevermind, what's in the best interest of the other. same thing with her brother who bizarrely asked me to buy him duct-tape, played with himself in front of me, feigned friendliness just with only one thing on his mind etc and then complained i was talking badly about him and that i was a 'bitch' or a bad and snobby person. they never consider what they did wrong and anyone with any standards differing from them or especially actually having any standards is automatically a snob. then snobbery is very good then and those who accuse those of having their standards are actually the evil ones, while they play the victim card .

    i like people with high standards and i hope people even raise their standards higher, whether they accept me too or whether or not i'm part of a certain circle!! it doesn't matter!! because i want a world of higher standards! good people want higher standards in life period!!! i like having higher standards to reach and improve, even if i can't reach them!! it doesn't make us snobs or bad!!!
     

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