http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/cr/0312284861/ref=mw_dp_cr This is part comic relief. 'How to spot a bastard by his star sign' by adele lang and susi rajah. Match.com, eharmony questionaires or any psychological attempts to determine compatibility do not have any better understanding. Science has not made any serious attempts at understanding relationships - which is very odd. They will look for cures for the most obscure of diseases but the plethora of failing interpersonal relationships just is not their concern possibly because it cant fit on a slide to be viewed under a microscope or grow in a petri dish. well, we're on our own or resort to the latest cosmo article 'what men want' or 'what makes women tick' written by people who also have failed relationships and basically - just guessing. Go to the self-help section of the library and peruse 'women are from venus, men are from mars' next to 'how to become a millionaire in thirty days or less' type of wisdom. Lang and rajah's premise is rather man-bashing. Its not just a few, their premise is that ALL men are bastards. There is a self-questionnaire at the end to help determine which bastard is right for you or you can stomach for life, at least. Do you agree with their premise that all or most men ( i guess past the innocence of childhood, 14-15?) are bastards underneath or it will come out eventually?