How many people die as virgins?

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  1. KilljoyKlown Whatever Valued Senior Member

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    You could have said no, but now you want to blame someone else for being a sucker. By the way is there a favorite bar we could meet at, drinks are on me.

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    Yes, places of business that sell alcohol have to bear some responsibility for their customers driving away drunk. But the drunk driver isn't cut any slack either. But what about the guy sitting next to you that's been paying for your drinks? He was hoping to drive you home and he would say as much in court.

    Well if the man can't afford a better lawyer than the woman, he had no business getting involved with her in the first place. IMO in most cases that is a very weak case for the woman.
     
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  3. jacob622 Registered Member

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    yes there so many people from all over the world dia without sexual imagination !!!!
     
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  5. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    But I can't?!

    PS Aww ur cute *hug*
     
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  7. Skooby Registered Senior Member

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    I hope I don't but it doesn't look too good right now.

    I’m a walking movie title…The 36 year old virgin. Never had a girlfriend, been on a date or even kissed a woman. No, I’m not a Christian saving myself. I’m actually an atheist. I never intended to be a 36 year old virgin.

    All throughout school I was a socially awkward and an ugly kid (picked on a lot). I had a terrible stuttering problem growing up all way up until my early 20’s (I had to take speech therapy classes). I don’t know, maybe that hampered my ability to start talking to people and developed some sort of social anxiety. As a result, when I reached adulthood I didn’t have any friends. Although I don’t stutter nearly as much as I use to, I don’t think much has changed since I was kid. I’m still an ugly guy, probably about 3 or 4 out of 10. How do I know this? Well, every time I try to approach a woman they either ignore me or suddenly start doing something (look away, get up and leave, text or talk on the phone, etc). They give no sign that they are at all interested. I have absolutely no experience in speaking to women. Even if I did approach, what would I do? What would I say? Science, science-fiction, computers, video games and classical music are my topics of interest. I’m guessing that doesn’t get too many women excited.

    On the few occasions that I did muster up enough courage to say hello, I was quickly rejected. It’s pretty clear to me that women just do not view me as a viable option. I tried to change that once. I started exercising, eating healthier and lost some weight (50 lbs to be exact). I bought new clothes, stopped playing video games and starting going to a few different local events. Nothing changed. Still ignored, still rejected. I now have gone back to playing video games most of the time. It helps the days and nights go by.

    I have never considered paying for it…but I don’t want to die a virgin either. But I’m starting accept, that’s just how my life is going to play out. It’s just who I am. I wish I had someone that I could relate to around me.

    I have joined dating sites before. I send messages but rarely get any responses. When I do get a response, I would try to start a conversation, but they would never respond again.

    Only one person knows I’m a virgin. A female friend of mine, we was co-workers. I didn’t tell her, she just figured it out somehow and just asked me if I was. I didn’t answer but she said, “that’s good”. She has tried to give me advice but she wouldn’t ever try to set me up with one of her friends. This is when my other issue comes in. The reason why is she’s a christian. And she just wouldn’t set an atheist guy up with any of her friends. She insists that I’m a good guy and not bad looking. I think she just says those things to be nice and to keep my confidence up. Not that it should matter but I’m a black guy. And I don’t know any other black atheists. It’s just something else that makes me different from everyone.
     
  8. andy1033 Truth Seeker Valued Senior Member

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    If your a male your more likely to find it easier to stay a virgin all your life. Once your past early twenties, your energy has peaked and your on the downward spiral as energy goes.

    Go and listen to a real celibate priest explain it.

    I seriously doubt many in west are virgins when they die, as your supposed to be sex mad and driven that way. Every commercial taps into your libido, and thats one of the reasons i am sure when people have puberty younger today in west, as your being awakened early by watching that sort of thing playing to your subconscious.

    But if your worried about this as a male, once your past early twenties your energy has peaked. I seriously doubt there are that many female virgins, or females willing to stay virgins. But i can see how there may be a minority of males out there that are.

    Your really not missing out on much really if you do stay a virgin, other than peer pressures to change, just be yourself. Everyone thinks everyone is sex mad like they are, but i am glad i was never interested in females or indeed males either, and never had any intention to change, even though people think that everyone is as sex mad as they are, just ignore them. Being celibate all your life is not hard, but peer pressures and people are annoying as people think everyone is as sex mad as they are. If your not, they think there is something wrong with you. Morons, cannot seem to work out that not everyone is sex mad like they are, or panting for them.

    Being a virgin all your life is not that hard, its interaction with people, and the way they think or want everyone to act like them. You will notice that for some reason, because people are sex mad, they think everyone has those urges. Thats one think that annoys me, and its the only thing about staying a virgin that is bad, that people constantly want you to become them, and you are not.

    What sums up people is all our religions are based on sex and satanism.
    That shows you why sex and those energies are so important to all of us, but some of us never want a partner in our lifes, and are not panting for others, like most of you seem to be.

    I am 38 and staying a virgin all my life, even though you people may be sex mad, thats not me, and never will be. Never even came close once to changing my mind, and proud of that.
     
  9. KilljoyKlown Whatever Valued Senior Member

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    Skooby

    Welcome to the forum where nobody cares what you look like or how much you might stutter. But then your not likely to get a date here either. If being a virgin is a problem for you do a little research and hire a prostitute. Yes I find that a bit distasteful too, but it could help get you over the confidence hump and you wouldn't have to worry about dying a virgin.

    You didn't say what other qualities you have, like maybe a good steady job. Or how picky you might be in your own requirements for a woman you might like. Also, regardless of who you are, you have to work at meeting the right woman. They aren't going to hunt you down for a date. It might also be a good idea if you didn't mention you are an atheist until you both like each other. Just a thought.

    If your going to spend some time on this forum, find a nice avatar. If you use a .jpg the forum software will resize it for you. It doesn't have to be square but being close to square will make it as large as it can be. If you want an animated .gif it will have to be as small as the avatar will appear. Animations don't work when resized.
     
  10. KilljoyKlown Whatever Valued Senior Member

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    Andy

    You sound like a virgin with a chip on your shoulder. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, but I wouldn't be putting myself in a position where I felt compelled to defend my virginity. Then I wouldn't have to suffer the ridicule of all the people stuck and suffering in bad relationships. Remember misery loves company, and they want you to suffer as much as them.

    Take my word for it no matter how good the sex might be, it can never make up for being in a bad relationship.
     
  11. andy1033 Truth Seeker Valued Senior Member

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    Glad after what was done to my life, i was never involved really in adult life.

    So i doubt i missed out on much, and i mean what ever you people see as adult life.

    I am just saying in this thread, i have no problem staying a virgin, but i found others had a problem with it, as they think everyone needs someone, and should be feeling and wanting what they want. I am also saying that after early 20's your energies as a male has peaked, so it does not matter as much after that.

    If you have no interest in sexual relations with anyone, that should be upto you.

    I am glad i missed out on that part of life, and especially after what was done to my life, and where i am today.

    But if your a virgin and others make you feel uncomfortable, thats there problem. You should just do what you want. Plus your really not missing out on much, and i am sure i did not, no matter which female may of liked me in my life, i was always of the opinion she would be better with someone else. I always had the attitude if someone liked me in my life, she would be better of with anyone but me.

    That altruistic attitude is best for me, and i am glad i missed out what others call normal, or what others think everyone wants. I never wanted it and never will, but i understand others are, and thats there bag.
     
  12. KilljoyKlown Whatever Valued Senior Member

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    Sex can be pretty good and you can find friends with benefits to be quite rewarding. In other words you don't need a relationship to have a sex life. Again try a prostitute, it only cost you some money and then you are not a virgin anymore and you now have some experience with sex.

    After that you never have to do it again if you don't want to.

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  13. Oniw17 ascetic, sage, diogenes, bum? Valued Senior Member

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    Sex is a skill. I enjoy developing it; seeing that I've made progress, that I did better than the last time. It's a source of pride for me. Not to mention the possibility of children.

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    However, what I truly desire from another person in life is affection and companionship... and favoritism. My dream in life is to find someone who favors me over everyone else, always and unconditionally. Sex, I think, is a necessary part of the formula. That's all I have to contribute on the subject.
     
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  14. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    Speak for yourself!
     
  15. KilljoyKlown Whatever Valued Senior Member

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    The best sex happens in the mind, and foreplay should start early and set the stage for a great time. Personally I don't think humans ever love unconditionally unless it's between children and parents. But they can achieve a close approximation and fake it the rest of the way. What they say about absence makes the heart grow fonder. It really means you are looking forward to some great sex that you've been missing out on.

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  16. KilljoyKlown Whatever Valued Senior Member

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    I'll second that. I think my 30's were the best sex I remember.
     
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    While technically speaking I'm not a virgin (had sex with many a hookers) I could be considered a virgin in the sense that I have never had sex with anyone who would have loved me or would have felt attraction towards me.

    So I think I belong to the minority group we are talking about.

    I don't personally know anyone who's in a similar situation so there must not be many people like me (percentage-wise) but our numbers can be high numerically speaking.

    Reasons can be different. If it's a personal decision then it's probably fine to refrain from forming relationships. In my case, it's not a choice. Some people are meant to be losers. Natural selection.

    This is not something that one can come to terms with. If one can, then one should strive to experience sharing intimate momets with the right people. Even after decades of loneliness it's still a pain.
     
  18. KilljoyKlown Whatever Valued Senior Member

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    Welcome to the forum. Interesting first post. The only thing that matters one whit about being virgin or celibate is how you personally feel about it as it relates to your life. Are you having regrets?
     
  19. arauca Banned Banned

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    If you masturbate are you considered as a virgin ?
     
  20. Fraggle Rocker Staff Member

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    "Virginity" means that you have never had intercourse with another human. Some people define "intercourse" differently than others, but they all agree that it has to involve a human partner.

    The word was initially applied only to females, and could generally be identified by an intact hymen. Today it is also applied to males, for whom there is no reliable test.
     
  21. andy1033 Truth Seeker Valued Senior Member

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    Of course you are, and i am staying a virgin all my life.

    People masturbate for all different reasons. I see it only as releasing energy that would be unhealthy to hold onto.

    Even if your staying a virgin as a male, masturbating helps you as its bad for your health to hold onto that energy. Thats my only reason for it, and i do not ever use it as any way sexual, as i do not ever think about anyone in real world, so its got nothing to do with anything sexual for me.

    I see masturbating as just releasing energy that we all make. Its unhealthy to keep this energy and it probably will have ill effects on your health not to masturbate if your even staying a virgin, or you are celebrate.

    I do not have one image in my brain of anyone, but can still masturbate, but i do not see it as something sexual, as i do not ever think about anyone and never will, as i am staying a virgin all my life.

    To have sex you actually have to think about people in that way and i never do, or did. I am sure others whom stay virgins also see it that way, like monks or priests. Some may choose to never release that energy but i believe its bad for your health.

    There is health benefits to sex obviously but i have no interest in others.

    But i would suggest if your staying a virgin and male to release your energy occasionally anyway as its bad for you to keep that energy. Energy needs to forever be keep changing and moving.

    When i was young i knew i would not be interested in females or others, and i was right. My life also shows you can masturbate without it being sexual, as i do not think about anyone, and am not interested in others. I see it as releasing energy that would be unhealthy to hold on to.
     
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    What do you think about, your favorite golden retriever?
     
  23. pluto2 Registered Senior Member

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    Dude this thread is already almost 7 months old. Why did you guys have to bump it?
     
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