Discussion in 'Human Science' started by Sci-Phenomena, Oct 24, 2006.
I have never met one before either but YES he does
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yep, i thought he must be an illusionist!!!!!!!
haha, no he's genuine, I have been waiting for the initiative to wear off, but it's been a year now and still going strong Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
My exes could all cook and clean too, bit of prompting required though (you would call this 'nagging' ) re other tasks that arise impromptu, but routine things already on the agenda were fine.
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Exes?? How many of 'em? And just the fact that they're "exes" doesn't tell you anything about yourself and your needs?? Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
After 64 years of trying to amiably relate to women, I presently am perplexed. I have never, not even one time, tried to fool a woman in any important way. Yet, many times, after I have tried to be honest and friendly and as much of a benefactor as I could figure out how to be, a woman has tried her best to imitate a nutjob whose ( adverse ) response could not be anticipated.
A famous pop rock star once sang " sometimes I think you're the devil's daughter."
What needs to happen is men need to evolve so that we can reproduce asexually. Since women would no longer make us horny they would be of no use for us . They would no longer be able to seduce and take advantage of men. What's more is their constant bitching, moaning, and nagging would put them at the bottom of our hierarchy. Women's only purpose would be to piss off men. I wonder how long the female race would last if this were to happen...
I am 36 Baron, and there are 3 ex relationships.
I ended all the relationships Baron, I have never been 'dumped' but never say never. I am not arrogant about that. It's just a fact is all.
I am very giving in my relationships, they had no complaints, except that
I am perhaps not 'needy' enough.
Men like to be men afterall. But I was raised by women and taught that women can do and do do everything. So decorating, carpet laying, gardening, all on my dating resume. I looked after my males don't you worry about that. I am very traditional.
Oh, I don't think it matters a bit who ended the relationships ...just that they ended has to say something about you, and your opinions about relationships and men.
Personally, I've never been able to understand women, and I've never been able to put up with their bullshit ways and nagging and using sex as a weapon. But I've been the first to admit that breaking up was at least half my fault, if not all my fault. But, see, I think that says something about me, and about my harsh opinions about women and relationships.
To me, women are good for only one thing ...and a man shouldn't have to put up with all the crap just to get that one thing! But I also don't expect anyone to listen to those opinions, you seem to expect people to listen to yours. Why? With three exes, your opinions just might be a bit tainted, don't ya' think?
There are all kinds of men, and all kinds of attitudes towards women and marriage. I don't think anyone has enough experience to talk about "all" of men OR women. ...and expect anyone to take it seriously.
I'm happy and content ....and without any women around to bother me. When I was younger, I hired "escorts" when needed or wanted. Now, at 62, I find that I don't even want sex anymore.
Actually it's the exact opposite. According to statistics, women initiate most divorces, most breakups, and men are usually the ones being dumped.
Women are not the devil. It's really simple, there are good and bad women, and it's all based on individuals, and having a good sense of discrimination.
Despite what you think, discrimination is neccessary. It's up to you to recognize the good from the bad, otherwise you get what you deserve.
i hope you are well.
I dont dispute that he is agenuine illusionist but may i be so bold as to ask you to ask your BF where and how he learnt his illusionist tricks!!
How ever much i try i still cant seem to crack it.... Ie whatever i do my wife is never fully content with my application around the house.
It's just in his nature. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! No training required. I have never asked him to do anything, but then I have needed to. He's a gentleman.
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the only thing having 'exes says about me baron, is that I recognise a lifetime is a long time , that people and situations change and that life is not as we were taught in the fairy tales of our youth.
I would not endure a lifetime of misery because a cultural sterotype dictates it. We only have one life afterall.
You have chosen to be single for the very same reasons.
Sometimes I think men and women are not meant to be in a relationship at all, and like you that men are only good for one thing.
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Thank you for your response, this i find puzzling!!
he is lucky, my wife nags quite a bit... I do loads of things to help my wife, like bath the kids and put one of them to sleep, Wash the baby bottles, or pots and pans, maybe sweep up the kitchen, that sort of thing all when i come home from work, after a 12 hour dayish....
Granted, my wife does appreciate this, but when i come home and dont do anythinh cos i am menatlly exhausted, she goes into one... another thing which is anoyiong, is when she has had a hard day with the kids, she bloody takes it out on me and says i dont do enough to help her abnd why do i spend too much time at work.. when i have had a crap day at work, i dont come home and take it out on her!!!
Now TOR this is grossly unfair, why do you say i have a mistress, of course i dont have a mistress, one nagging woman is more than enough for me to handle on top of everything else i have to do, inclduign rujnning my business etc...
therefore i would not know how to do this as i dont have a mistress..
With regards to pleasing my wife, i do try but i am naturally not very good at domestic things, and i do need time to myself to clear my brain of the shite which ahs happened at work etc....
What do you think TOR??
oh and by the way what you ahve just said cements my belief that he is indeed an illusionist.
I wasn't suggesting you had a mistress I was saying treat her like one. Men tend to treat thier mistress'es as follows:
gifts, compliments, meals out, theatre, flowers, sexy undies, saucy texts, you know all the good stuff. The wives get the 'silent treatment' the 'dirty pants on the bathroom floor' the extra gigantic kid to look after basically.
If you are knackered and don't want to run round after the wife & kids I reccomend the following:
On way home, stop off and buy flowers and choccies anda card, write in the card how great she is and you don't tell her often enough. When you get in, hand her these gifts, and ask her how her day was. Make her a cuppa.
Then (hopefully she'll ask u about your day at some point?) tell her you are exhausted etc, but you'll try find the energy to give her a massage later. Give her one. Run her a bath etc.
she may accept all this fabulousness
she may tell you you are the best hub ever and to sit down, relax while she runs around after you
she'll accuse you of having an affair
Manwhile, I think if you did this for your wife at least once a week, she'd let you off the rest of the week.
You know my guy works from here some days as he is flash programmer so works from home, and he see's what I do all day and this is why he runs after me. He knows I never get to sit down. As I post here, I am standing hovering, skim reading, just squishing in bit of me time in midst of all the organised caos. Take a week off work and perhaps take over from your wife, you'll see that its not daytime tv and coffee mornings so much as crowd control and constant cleaning/clearing/recycling/entertaining/humouring/rebuilding etc.
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thank you for your suggestions
Or she will say
"why have you given me these flowers? i'd rather you work from 9-5pm, us have loads of holidays and you still earn the money you do"
I know my wife has loads to do with the kids as i do quite a bit at the weekend like give which ever one wakes up first their breakfast, get them washed, dressed teethed etc,, play with them, take them out to the park etc... bring them back give them lunch (or we have lunch in the park) then send them to sleep for a nap ( at least one of them anyway)
now about the cleaning, i have told my wife to get a cleaner, she did have one for a while but she doesnot think the cleaning is up to scratch.. i have told her to get a nany to help her.. she did not like this either? i then suggested an au-pair but this was not taken with any entusiasm either. our oldest (who is 2 and a half) as in my avatar does go to nursery buit this is only 2 mornigns a week, i have suggested she increase his time. I know its best to balance nursery, but my wife knows i have a demanduing job. Its not like i control her in anyway, she does not have to worry about anything financially, she can have what she wants ferrari's asiode that is!!!
As for a week off, if i am running around after the children and doing her work, how is that a week off. Anyway its very hard to get a week off when you run your own business......
i will try your plan tonight though, and tell you what happens tomorrow.
thank you for your suggestion...
their is one flaw in this plan... i would n't have a clue how to "pull" a girl nowadays!!!
Ok TOR heres how it went
on my way home last night, i stop off and got some flowers from the petrol station (gas station to you yanks) ... when i got home the wife was busy trying to put the children to sleep, i popped my head in and ask he quietly if she wanted a hand, she said she had it under control.
So i went back down and poped the flowers on the work bench in the kicthen and then washed up the bottles, pots and pans and sept the floor in the kitchen.. the wife comes down and sees the flowers and is very happy, then she goes why did you get them from the garage (gast station) when you know they dont last that long!
i doubt i will be able to put my feet up for the rest of the week as she would ahve forgotten about the flowers today...
this is stupid, women think like men. what the hell do you think.
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