How and what do women think?

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  1. Sci-Phenomena Reality is in the Minds Eye Registered Senior Member

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    I was wondering, what is the answer to the secret that has plagued man for so long? How do women think, and why? (lol, not why do they think, but why do they think what they do?) What kind of traits do women see as the most needed and wise for a man to have? I'm just curious as to the reaction to these questions.
     
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  3. valich Registered Senior Member

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    Women are just as diverse as men, but as I said on another thread, women seem to mature faster than men and look for more longterm relationships, such as marriage and a family, while many men are still just looking for one-nigthers or sexual relations.
     
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  5. Oniw17 ascetic, sage, diogenes, bum? Valued Senior Member

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    A good book on this subject would be Reviving Ophelia, it's about girls, but it will help you understand the why in your question. At least I think so, maybe not though. As far as what women find attractive, I'm fairly sure that just like anything else, there are no secrets or shortcuts. My philosophy is that confidence and discipline are the keys to being successful at almost anything. Then again, discipline doesn't really apply well all the time.
     
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  7. Zakariya04 and it was Valued Senior Member

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    Hi posters

    the [problem is even when you know what makes them tick, applying any plan is hard to excute as when you think you have them worked out, the playing field changes!!!
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    take care
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  8. SoLiDUS OMGWTFBBQ Registered Senior Member

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    They want the typical dumb alpha-male. It's all about power, control and lack of predictability...

    They like to say "we want the nice guy" but that's complete horseshit: they want the nice guy to be there to raise the alpha-male's child while they're fucking him, simultaneously making you provide them with financial security.
     
  9. Roman Banned Banned

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    No, they want a guy who will be nice to them while destroying his enemies.
     
  10. SoLiDUS OMGWTFBBQ Registered Senior Member

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    That's part of it to. You can't be willing to compromise: things have to go your way or you start bashing stuff.

    Ignore women and treat them like shit: they LOVE IT. For some twisted reason, you can't get the time of day from one of them unless you metaphorically spit on her.

    My personal experience, anyway.
     
  11. skippy Registered Member

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    Alpha Male?

    SoliDus is Correct:

    However, I think the term Alpha Male better fits us nice guys........
     
  12. sderenzi Banned Banned

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    "They want the typical dumb alpha-male. It's all about power, control and lack of predictability...

    They like to say "we want the nice guy" but that's complete horseshit: they want the nice guy to be there to raise the alpha-male's child while they're fucking him, simultaneously making you provide them with financial security."

    Represents precisely the feeling I got when around Carmen. I felt as if she wanted me to get to know her personally but was making very little attempt to do the same. It got me wondering, what if this girl doesn't care who I am, just that I am a nice guy she can get help from? I suspect this would've eventually occurred if I'd gotten together with her, she'd end up cheating with some gerk an then blaming me for it!
     
  13. SoLiDUS OMGWTFBBQ Registered Senior Member

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    Forget about faithfulness: unless you're the most unpredictable and exciting guy, "your" "girlfriend" (yes, those quotes are intentional) will likely cheat on you if she's even remotely attractive. It's a fucking fact of life...

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  14. tablariddim forexU2 Valued Senior Member

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    You guys have definitely been meeting the wrong type of women.

    Women and men fall under many different categories of type. It is fundamentally wrong to say that women are like this and men are like that, because although there are differences, they're not as clearcut and generalised as myths would have us believe.

    The biggest difference between the sexes is that women are more at the mercy of almost daily hormonal changes, which tend to affect the way they feel, think and act. Their monthly hormonal cycle is in action on a daily basis albeit in small incremental steps, this is why they may seem erratic in their behaviour. Women are also far more in tune with their emotional faculties than men, which may manifest as big dollops of anger, impatience, joy and grief and is liable to make men wary of them because most men can't handle or comprehend too much display of emotion.

    Many men may perceive their woman as being 'heavy', so they seek solace in escapism: drugs, drink, affairs, hanging with the lads, selfish hobbies etc etc. It shouldn't be a wonder then why their woman might react by simply copying their man and then to manipulate the situation in their favour. Many women are far more clever than men would like to give them credit for.

    EDIT: I almost forgot to mention the massive influence that emancipation has had on women over the past century and especially in the last 50 years. Women's magazines abound and they are full of pro female propaganda. The bottom line of the message? Women are superior to and will not take any more bullshit from men.

    Men have to grow and to change their attitudes.
     
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  15. sderenzi Banned Banned

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    Boring stuff, woman are stupid sluts that need banging, nuff said.
     
  16. SoLiDUS OMGWTFBBQ Registered Senior Member

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    Ah great... now the cheating sluts can say "the WHOREmoans" made me do it! Whatever.
     
  17. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Men have been doing that for decades already ....and as they changed, the divorce rate climbed steadily to where it's now over 50% within the first few years of marriage. Doesn't that tell you something?

    Baron Max
     
  18. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    I think that is probably due to the men not changing as much as the women have.
     
  19. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Are you sorta' implying that it's a never-ending cycle? The men try to change for the women, yet the women keep on changing and so stay steadily in front of the men? And this keeps going on and on? And so the rate of failure of marriages will just keep climbing until it's 100% failure?

    Baron Max
     
  20. iam Banned Banned

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    i think men who view or feel disrespect toward women are actually gay because they evidently love men but are too weak to admit it, and have to resort to angry, deviant, shallow and callous sexual behavior to have intercourse with women because evidently they don't understand them much as a stranger so blame them for it and affirm they are men by god! Heterosexual gays are the weakest, homosexual gays respect women because they don't have a problem with their sexuality. haha

    a lot of the complaints are misplaced. the blindspot is its not women or men but the type of person. there are good people and bad and for the most part their are a lot more bad or immature people. those who keep going after those who mistreat them that goes for men as well are being hypocritical because though they won't admit it to themself or out of ignorance, their ARE other types of people out there that are not like this, they also probably have been rejecting the nice girl or boy as well. Its about maturity. It may take learning to judge people better not just for their character but what actually fits with and is right for you but still it can be done and it just doesn't happen by repeatedly throwing yourself against the same brick wall. Blindly dating anyone and expecting even moderate good results is just stupid even if the majority clueless society does it. Cigarette advertisements look great but are they? If you're real, then you will seek out real people or patiently wait. If you can't or won't thats your fault and no one elses.
     
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  21. SoLiDUS OMGWTFBBQ Registered Senior Member

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    I love the way you try to pin women's age-old habits on our supposed latent homosexuality. Seriously, we don't want to generalize, but women do all of these things on at least a subconscious level. It's not about maturity, but animal instincts and evolution: women fuck around with alpha males and hang around beta males to get the security they need for themselves and when the time comes, their children. Sorry to break it to ya...
     
  22. ancient satori Registered Member

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    Women want complete love, compassion and good sex. If she can get all three,.. (and she's a pretty level headed gal).. she ain't goin' no where else.
    Being patient and finding that person may seem impossible but she is not going to 'do' other alpha males, if shes found it.
     
  23. ancient satori Registered Member

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    That's a pretty accurate explanation, i must say...
     

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