Surveys in cases like this will never tell you the truth. I have already shown how. To undestand that you'll have to understand the deep rooted pressures that men face. That's how masculinity works. That is how it is manipulated by the society. Of course, what could be more direct proof of something when you experience that yourself. But when I have to prove it to others, it's not enough. And since survey have a serious drawback here, I'm proving this through indirect but sureshot ways. Because, there are more ways to get at the truth. Although I also know through my personal + work experience that most men deep within them know this to be true (that almost all men have a sexual feeling for other men!), but this is just a deep seated, unchecked, vague instinct that they have. Because there is no way men can discuss these things and even when a man knows this for sure, he is without a voice in such matters. Such again is the nature of his oppression through Social Masculinity .