“ Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! :roflmao: Although, I have to say I'd love to have something like that done gently, would do my back wonders... I settle for functional, because I don't get that every day. I have felt at peace out in nature, alone. Bring people into it and it all goes pear-shaped. Peace or happiness? They aren't necessarily the same thing, you know.
i do know. i prefer peace, but i might be weird. happiness is temporary, as you know. peace comes from truth and healing, and is permanent. you can have peace whether you're happy or not. i can't help but want to fix everybody, you know? i didn't used to trust men, and it caused me a lot of pain, to make some really bad decisions, and it was ruining my life...wasting it. the origin of the mistrust was as you put it, legitimate, but it's future application was not. i was wrong.
Oh, no...the frustrating thing is I absolutely know my terror's misplaced. In most cases. Does not stop me from having it. I thought I was done healing. Not so much.
Meh, don't be that sorry. Feels...drippy.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! I feel silly enough for bringing my brain cooties with me everywhere I go these days. Including into Signal's thread...poor Signal, first the rack and now my brain cooties...Sig will never iron out per's religious issues at this rate.
Friends..hmmf. Mine is a closed system. Loads of warm bodies but none I can talk to. My life turned into something that is utterly non-relative to everyone I used to regard as friends. And I'm not at liberty to go forth and find new ones. But hey, If anyone would like to be my door mat just shoot me a PM. I'd be happy to throw off some baggage and wipe my feet on you.. Your (new) friend, (wink,wink) C-flux
LORI , Happiness is obtainable , Peace is not . There is a time for every thing . Consider this . When I brake someones arm when they are beating there wife I am Happy as a clam . Is it Peaceful ?
O.K> everybody else does so why not you too . Wipe away . I am the door and the Mat . Scape goats think everybody is like them . Were Gullible that way
is it peaceful, or are you peaceful? you can have peace in regards to defending someone, if you're ok with what you're doing and why.
no it's not. there's nothing wrong with wishing you could do something to help someone else or take their pain away. the fact that i may not be able to do that doesn't make me feel less valuable or worthy as a human being. i thought you had me on ignore.
Shame on you to think of the worst first! True friends stretching - Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! This one's for Dyw - Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
When you start calling people names because they don't comply with your regimen for their betterment, that is a sign of your codependence. I took you off, since you keep posting in my threads, and so I want to see what you're saying.
that's not why i called you names. lots of people don't comply with my "regimen" and we get along just fine, but those people aren't lying trolls who, as you're demonstrating once again here, won't accept accountability for anything they do. ha!
