Final Update

Discussion in 'About the Members' started by Thoreau, Aug 19, 2009.

  1. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    My mother passed away this morning at 8:00AM CST from Liver Disease at the age of 49.

    The loss is incredibly hard to deal with. Luckily I have my father here and together we are getting through it one second at a time.



    I love you, Mom. Always and forever.
     
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  3. Mrs.Lucysnow Valued Senior Member

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    I'm sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself right now even though it be difficult.
     
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  5. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    im very sorry to hear that. Did you make it down there in time?
     
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  7. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    No. My flight landed at about 10:30. My father told me the news when he greeted me at the airport. I spent about an hour or two with her before the funeral home took her.

    But that was what she wanted. She didn't want me to be here at the moment of her passing, even though I wanted to be there. She's always had a way of getting what she wanted.

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  8. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    This is probably not appropriate and you can tell me to go to hell, ok?

    Your mom drank a lot and died young of cirrhosis. Did she apologize before she died?
     
  9. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    Yes many times.
     
  10. Thoreau Valued Senior Member

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    And no, that was not appropriate.
     
  11. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    that would make me feel better. I wish my Dad had before he died. Crappy of me to think "lucky you" at a time when its so sad.
     
  12. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Yeah, I haven't had much experience with death, so I never know how to act or what to say.
     
  13. Challenger78 Valued Senior Member

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    Plus, you know, It's an internet forum, and it's not like it really means anything.

    But, for what it's worth, We humans have a need to empathize.
    Good luck, Mz. I wish you didn't have to suffer this, and you'd probably ask why?, a million times. Time will tell how you fare.
     
  14. Varda The Bug Lady Valued Senior Member

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    Moms should never die.
    I can't even think about my mom dying. It's making me cry just to marginally consider the situation.

    I'm sorry that this had to happen to you, specially now while you're going through so much with your mortgage and all.

    Maybe you just have to go through all the shit fucking times now, and then everything will get better.

    I'm having a beer for you.
     
  15. Medicine*Woman Jesus: Mythstory--Not History! Valued Senior Member

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    M*W: Sincerest condolences on the passing of your mother. Each day will hurt a little less. I say that seven years after I lost my own mother. We never want to see our loved ones suffer. Hang in there. time heals all wounds.

    Regards,

    M*W
     
  16. Plazma Inferno! Ding Ding Ding Ding Administrator

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    My sincere condolences MZ3Boy.
     
  17. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    I'm so sorry to hear that, MZ3Boy84.
     
  18. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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    sorry to hear about your loss, if you ever need a shoulder just yell my way!
     
  19. Sciencelovah Registered Senior Member

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    My sincere condolence, MZ. May your mum rest in peace and you stay strong.

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  20. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    My sincere condolences to you and your dad, MZ.
     
  21. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    My condolances to you and your family. Always remember that she is still alive within you through her memories you will have within your heart as long as you keep remembering her. Her suffering is through life is ahead of you so carry on and make her proud of what you can do.
     
  22. breeze Registered Member

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    I`m sorry to hear that. My sincere condolences to you.
     
  23. S.A.M. uniquely dreadful Valued Senior Member

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish I could say it will get better, but it will be three years since I lost my mother and it doesn't really feel better. Varda is right, mums should never die.

    Stay strong and be with friends. It helps me to talk about her with people who knew her and to remember all the good times. She was 64 and it was too young, I cannot imagine how you feel.
     

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