Experiences with opposite sex

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by darksidZz, Nov 16, 2008.

  1. draqon Banned Banned

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    yea well Asguard, you had to say "yes" the first time u met her...and thats when we all say "no"
     
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  3. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    Since I just wanna bang chicks I can't really say I should speak with any, I mean it just feels odd talking with a chick when all I want is her body. They think I'm shy and being cute but really it's just me imagining what they'd be like in a fuck.
     
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  5. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    darksidZz assuming your not a 300 kg baled tasmanian with two heads its probable to suggest that so are they

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  7. draqon Banned Banned

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    darksidZz, women know that you want to fu** them, they however want to see you as a manly personality to satisfy them in bed. In other words, if you approach them and like...show them how you are afraid and shy to talk to them, they will just forget about you and dont treat you seriously. You got to be pushy with women, you know, show her the power in you, play with her, like you are macho-person. Women like that sort of stuff.
     
  8. CheskiChips Banned Banned

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    A relationship with a woman isn't like a friendship with a man.

    In a friendship you're trying to arrive at a solution, an end-all conclusion. So there is "right" and "wrong" or "True" and "False"...you're working together to accomplish something and being correct is essential. So being argumentative with them is a good quality.

    But in a friendship or relationship with a woman it's not about being right or wrong. It's about being pleasant, and enjoyment. You don't argue with your wife, because you have to live with her for all time...no argument of right and wrong is worth damaging your relationship forever. A woman knows what her strengths and weaknesses are in a relationship it seems better and more often than a man does. So a man should recognize his weaknesses and put them on her shoulders as her strengths, and become one unified person working towards a common goal. I don't know everything no matter how hard I try, there will always be things women are more intuitive and knowledgeable in than I will be.
    When both the woman and the man can recognize their own weaknesses and strengths, they can search for the opposite of them in another person of the opposite sex. Then they become whole and unified as one unit working towards a common goal...arguments lack relevance in this context.

    Since women generally know themselves better than men do...the default position is 'If a woman believes she's right, and believes this field is her strength...the man nearly always should concede.'
     
  9. draqon Banned Banned

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    but dont listen to me, I dont know anything. I am just as lost in the virgin depression as you are, darksidZz...
     
  10. CheskiChips Banned Banned

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    By the way..draqon and DarkSidZz...

    Maybe you've reached the age where you need to start respecting women and not thinking of them as objects to have sex with. I know dark is 27 from his profile...most good women at age 27 are looking to get married, not have casual sex. If they think you're playing them as an object...they will spite you immediately.

    If you really want advice on how to do the wrong thing. Women make the rules, the rules are subject to change, as soon as you recognize the rules they will be changed. Be 3 steps ahead of the game, and convince them they're toying with you. Once they think they are toying with you, and you are never shocked by the change in the rules they feel you have confidence. They believe in this made up thing called "Romance"...
    Since they spend all of their time trying to 'put you out of your game'...after they've failed to do so numerous times...you 'put them out of their game' by doing something rash. Then they feel uneasy and lose confidence...at this point they're yours.
    I've noticed this is the general secular mating dance...
     
  11. G. F. Schleebenhorst England != UK Registered Senior Member

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    They wear too much perfume.
     
  12. phlogistician Banned Banned

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    Ah, the myth of female multi-tasking.

    If you mean leaving something on the stove to burn while talking to a friend on the phone, well, no, that's not multitasking.

    If women really were superior at this task, we's see more top female chefs. Running a busy kitchen is the epitome of multi-tasking (I cook a lot, I'm an excellent cook by I know my multi-tasking isn't good enough to be a chef .

    My partner probably thinks she can multi-task, but then I follow her around, picking up stuff she drops, turning stuff off/on she's forgotten about, and generally keeping the plates spinning that she's forgotten about.
     
  13. G. F. Schleebenhorst England != UK Registered Senior Member

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    ....and show me a woman who can do this:

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    That's real multitasking.
     
  14. thatbiogeek Registered Member

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    I cannot state this observation as a universal, having a limited sample size of observations to draw from. However, within my limited circle I have noticed the men I know seem to be more... single minded.

    For instance, I can listen to an audiobook, set up a PCR reaction and talk to my coworkers at the same time. The outcome however is that the PCR is successful, I don't remember all of the audiobook and may have to listen to it again, and I remember most of the conversation with my coworker. So I would probably do any one of these tasks better if I had focused on one of them alone. My male colleagues seem to be able to focus on one thing more, or rather they seem to be able to block out the conversation and audiobook and concentrate on the PCR. But I'm sure this isn't a universal. As I've said before, I think human behavior and capability is far too diverse to submit to such stereotyping :shrug:
     
  15. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Or actually what they might think about you, that your reallly fucked up!

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  16. thatbiogeek Registered Member

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    Hey, I second this. If my husband agreed with everything I said, I'd think he was a patronizing ass.

    We were friends before we started dating and one of the things I loved about him was the fact that we could have really heated debates, about the implications of genetic engineering for example, without agreeing or behaving like braying asses. We still disagree a lot, but we value each others opinions enough to be honest when critiquing them.

    Though I'm sure this might not work for everyone. Some people are so insecure they can't handle others disagreeing with them. But I don't think I'd want to be in a relationship with someone like that...
     
  17. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Then show me a man who can take care of these alone...

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  18. G. F. Schleebenhorst England != UK Registered Senior Member

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    We don't need to, that's what women are for!
     
  19. thatbiogeek Registered Member

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    :runaway: ^ Makes me glad I only have one!
     
  20. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    People make this so unnecessarily difficult.
    It's really pretty damned simple. Really.
    Be yourself or you will end up with someone you don't want to be with.

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  21. takethewarhome midnatt klarhet Registered Senior Member

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    Are people really THAT easy to generalize? Negative.
     
  22. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    What are you talking about?
    Have you never met a single dad? :bugeye:
     
  23. draqon Banned Banned

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    dude there are men with kids just as many
     

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