Experiences with opposite sex

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  1. darksidZz Valued Senior Member

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    I want to hear your experiences with the opposite sex. Are they reasonable? How are they different? What have you learned? Let us know not just sexually but over-all. Do they behave very differently than yours?
     
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  3. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    I have had wonderful experiences with the opposite sex.
     
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  5. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    actually PB and i are very similar. We have similar opinions and we complement eachother quite well. We also fight like cats and dogs and are compleatly oposite each other (in the good sence) in bed.

    On the non sexual side of bed, i litterally cant sleep in our bed when she isnt here. I sleep on the couch because with out her the bed feels wrong without her here. Not to mention the fact that i hate being around people and i panic when im here by myself but i feel perfectly comfertable with her around
     
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  7. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    I want to hear your experiences with the opposite sex.

    I don't have enough time to give you every detail but I've encountered many various forms of them and attitudes that are ever changing. I've had exciting as well as sinister types of relationships.


    Are they reasonable?

    Define reasonable please.

    How are they different?

    Just like snowflakes , you will encounter many different types everywhere you travel.


    What have you learned? Let us know not just sexually but over-all.

    Always watch out for yourself, be honest but careful with them. Although many women are very considerate some are very clever and will use you up and spit you out.


    Do they behave very differently than yours?

    What does that mean?
     
  8. Killjoy Propelling The Farce!! Valued Senior Member

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    I think Kenny Rogers said it best, when he opined...

    You got to know when to hold 'em
    Know when to fold 'em.
    Know when to walk away
    Know when to run...
     
  9. Steve100 O͓͍̯̬̯̙͈̟̥̳̩͒̆̿ͬ̑̀̓̿͋ͬ ̙̳ͅ ̫̪̳͔O Valued Senior Member

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    They are not content with accepting something without an explanation.
     
  10. CarpetDiem Burnin' hours, season days Registered Senior Member

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    I always found that when a woman is right, grin and bare it. When you're right, you apologise. That generally goes down well

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  11. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    HELL no, either way always stand up for yourself

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    the make up sex is SO much better than sucking up
     
  12. thatbiogeek Registered Member

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    I don't know... men are so diverse. I don't think I could generalize like that.

    The only general observation I could make is that they seem less able to multitask. Even this 'rule' has it's exceptions, I'm sure.

    I do think men are just as self-conscious as women, maybe more so. At least, all the men I've ever dated were. But I think that's cute. For me, at least, overconfidence is a big turn off.

    Jessica
     
  13. Mr. Hamtastic whackawhackado! Registered Senior Member

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    Women are a divers lot, but they come in a few categories:

    1. Pretty Bitch that knows she's pretty-The one's you look at longingly, who see you and laugh and point. Yes, those girls.

    2. Ugly Bitch who thinks she's pretty-Just like the first, except this one will get offended that you aren't looking at her.

    3. Pretty Girl who knows she's pretty-Hard to find, they are usually free spirits, hard to hold onto

    4. Ugly girl who thinks she's pretty-Lots of these. They put out quick, but go away with effort. Tend to stalk

    5. Pretty girl who thinks she's less than pretty: They are the pretty girls that date ass holes because that's all they believe they deserve. Nice to have if you're an ass hole. If not-no chance.

    6. Ugly girl that knows she's ugly-There are few of these. They tend to focus on talents, and when desiring a relationship, they will give it up quickly, and then make you dinner, and possibly go down on you while you're eating it.

    For some reason girls don't realise that the penis has no eyes.

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  14. superstring01 Moderator

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    I'm gay. But I have a lot of female friends. I also had several girlfriends in high school. With some of the later ones it was carnal (and disastrous). Nothing but platonic relationships since then.

    ~String
     
  15. Mr. Hamtastic whackawhackado! Registered Senior Member

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    I'm bisexual myself. It's good to know all the tools involved.
     
  16. laladopi time for change. Registered Senior Member

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    like, asguard my "big strong baare" i cant stand being away from him.
    he's at work right now and i have nothing else better to do then surf the webz
    i lost all of my friends because of our obsession with eachother. but i really dont give a shit
    we are too the point were we understand each other 99% of the time. plus we are perfect counterparts.
     
  17. laladopi time for change. Registered Senior Member

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    and my man knows how to treat me, every other guy that hits on me i know he only wants one thing...pussssy. its disgusting.
     
  18. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    well by definition "hitting on" has only 1 real purpose, reproduction either through short term sex or courtship and before you say "that might be true of men" its just as true of women. Sociaty may sexually repress women but the biological drive is no less and women can be just as "crude as men"

    Case in point from TV, episode of NCIS where Tony and Kate are going to interview the photographer for GSM

    On the way kate says
    "i wonder what his mother thinks about his job, those photo's objectify women"
    Tony "the human body is a beautiful thing"

    At this point they walk through the door and there is the photographer getting pitures of the mens water polo team (oiled up and with about 4 socks stuffed down there speedos i might add) and kate says

    "your right tony, the human body is a beautiful thing"

    yes its fiction but personal experiance suggests its acurate and that women are just as crude as men are. I grew up with two sisters, one of whom until recently i thought was asexual, the other however would go to football games ect just to look at the guys ass's

    basically im suspicious of female atitudes like what you said, its quite easy (and most probably correct) to translate that into "they are UGLY and they only want one thing"

    I mean seriously why else would mens underwear models put socks down there pants? you dont think its because men looking at them would go "wow this pair of y-fronts would make my dick look bigger" do you? I can tell you from personal experiance i dont even LOOK at the underwear i buy, i just find a pack and buy it

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  19. laladopi time for change. Registered Senior Member

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    oh i know, girls are slut. they are just as bad.
    running around the city dressed in mini skirts and like no shirts with like 10 inch heels along with nicely done hair and wayyyy to much makeup. they stupid bitches.

    oh belief me i know how judgement woman can be, i was talking from my point of view.
    and every guy that hits on me or looks at me like i have the tits of a god make me feel very vulnerable and bleh. this happens like 5 times a day.
    im just sayinnnnn
     
  20. draqon Banned Banned

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    My experiences with opposite sex. Well hmm, its no secret that I am a guy...21 year old...soon to be 22 and my experiences can be summed up in one equation = 0. No experiences at all. In fact on average I get to talk to a woman per week for about 1 minute or less, thats total sum of time I spend while shopping and talking to a woman who hands me the receipt to sign. School, no girls talk at all...they tend to socialize amongst other girls, and isolate lonely men.

    My experiences with women are as follows:

    1) women have the same preferences they like in men and go for those types they like, for example if you are born with an un-cute face no woman will go your way, unless you show some other characteristics.

    2) women isolate lonely men and do not facilitate any talk with men, meaning they purposely form groups with other girls and men they picked and purposely leave the men they dont like alone, for the rest of the time you are unfortunate to be with them

    3) women...like to be looked at, at least thats what I seem to feel.

    4) women never walk alone, always with another girl...and if you do see a woman alone, she is generally old.

    5) It is extremely hard to talk to women, because they make you feel like **** that happened to come their way. (well thats how I feel)

    6) At times you get these stares(blank look)....I get these alot from women, I have no idea what they mean...they have no emotions in their eyes, nothing...just a stare...I dont get that from men.

    7) Important aspect: if you are fat, a woman who is fatter than you are will be attracted to you, but only if she is much more fatter...meaning that when you are lean, the lean ladies will not be attracted to you, but the fat ones will be...and if you are average, much fatter ladies will be attracted to you.

    8) some women are evil

    9) some women are not evil

    10) American women tend to be much more immoral than any other nation of women I ever seen...been with...

    11) women cause me my hands to shake and loose focus, so every time I see a woman/girl I cannot look/talk to her too long, as I begun to mumble, my heart starts racing, my thoughts become wild...and so on...this is the main reason why I have no girlfriend, too much anxiety, so much that I cant stand it.

    12) women always expect something from men, even though they try not to show it...I can feel it.

    13) well thats all I learned about women, so far.

    14) oh and...a woman can always say a man raped her, and you can go to jail even if you never touched and seen her, just because she said you raped her...so always be in public when there are women to have witness counteract her statements.
     
  21. CheskiChips Banned Banned

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    I feel sorry for you guys.

    I have no girl-friends (Not Girlfriends) who behave like this, or dress like this...or treat me like some of the ways they apparently treat you guys.

    First off; I don't date because I am not ready to get married, so I haven't started dating. I'll be ready to marry maybe in 2 or 3 years when I am 24/25. Thus I don't have any physical relations with the girls I know, in fact I usually don't make any physical contact at all...and don't plan to until I am married. It generally only takes a year of looking to find a girl to marry, when there are girls looking to start a life.

    All girls are slightly different, but they have a lot in common. They influence their surroundings with a gentle touch opposed to guys, who influence life often overbearingly. Commonly they know how to diffuse situations using simply emotions, irrespective of the logical situation at hand. This is in my opinion their most beautiful qualities. I've also noticed one thing that should be the rule to life for all men "The woman is always right"...it doesn't matter if she's wrong. If you want to keep the peace, you make them happy and they'll discover for themselves when they're wrong. (This is true in most non-severe instances).

    Girls I generally like are very feminine, I don't like women who try to control you or act possessive. I also don't like girls who make flamboyant attempts to either flaunt their physical assets or strengths. Most likely because I don't do these things myself. I also like girls who dress with a sense of self-respect...the girls I know where dress' down to their shins and usually cover to their elbows, but I know nice girls who don't. I don't believe in altruism or chastity, because I expect them to want to desire to break out. But self-control is highly admirable.
    In general, a woman should have as much self control with her clothing as a man does with his lips. If a woman can learn to respect herself, a man should learn to speak to her with only kind words.

    Although I admit...these standards of living are uncommon and most likely seem sexist to members of this board.


    In terms of geographical preference (These are great generalizations)...I dislike nearly all European women. I think their sexual behavior and standards are disgusting. I think their fashion sense is awkward and transparent, and their statements tactless and brutish. I generally like women from either smaller towns, or from more moral backgrounds. I guess in general I like the middle-eastern philosophy to men-woman relations (That includes Muslims, although I doubt I would date one)...so much more respectable than mostly the entire world.
     
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  22. draqon Banned Banned

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    yeah Cheski...the moral values in women of western society has fell down to 0, they got no moral values, they just procreate.
     
  23. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    god you people are dumb, if i said "yes dear, yes dear" to everything PB said she would rightly know i was being condecending.

    If you cant trust your partner enough to express and opion to who the fuck will you?

    Seriously people GROW SOME BALLS, yes NO ONE likes to be wrong, and there is a time and a place to point that out but its your life too. If you dont like the god dam furniture ect SAY so for christ sake.
     

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