Being insane I can not understand why you would ask other than to humour me...you are smart enough to know where you can improve if you need to..just because I say something, like everyone, does not mean you now have to rely upon them for guidance...anyways don't humour me..if you are serious first appologise for calling me insane and not making that comment to my face...just think if you were me..how would you feel...empathy something that is in short supp.y around here. It is not your place to judge..you should think about that...set an example but don't tell others what they should do... Do not put words into my mouth as it makes me angry... By real people you can read there the community at large..not only the "white males" not only the "old" people but across the board hopefully to form an appreciation that the community is diverse and to box it up like you attempt is just naive...I talk to every one..strangers, cleaners, folk who you know are frightened by a man with shoulder length hair and a beard...you should try it..you will find a diversity that you do not recognise..there are old folk who call you live, there are young folk who call you "bro" the are folk who call you mate, brother, pal, buddy, sunshine, boss, captain...love is but one call they fails to recognise that someone has a name and you can bet they like to hear it...you don't have experience with "real people" the general public... Well I can agree in the context..that those I say this too will become emotional and fail to see the fact that I point out... But I am insane remember, until you appologise I will remain insane, and being insane do not have to account for my statements do I? My deal is when you are calling someone out look first to what you do..decrying any racist or sexist term is rather lame when you happily use a clearly racist and sexist term ..more so because you just don't get even with the definition of racism in front of you...I speak the truth that's why what I say is so very confronting. Er I think that is about how much booze is added to the ingredients of a pudding..but I need to look it up... Yes maybe it will sit better with you now you know it is a reference to the community at large addressing the reality that there are many different folk... With the same vigour that is applied in the abusive and bullying manner applied to calling someone love. And I dont know that right? My beef is the refusal of all lined up and laying in the boot that his assesment of the feelings of the people he was before, none of you were there, were not correct. Further without testimony from those he was talking to you must have testimony that they were offended..now try this on..if you don't have their testimony you simply don't know and so to proceed on any assumption one way or the other is wrong and points to the fact you are judging Paddo with no evidence other than his account which sadly does not support the proposition you are pushing.. There is no problem with Paddo unless you can present evidence that those he interacted with were upset by his " banter". However given I have been more outspoken than anyone on the problem of sexism racism, booze, rape, domestic violence etc etc...I would like to think that I present as someone really concerned about all these issues..I guess I just in the future need to come out and say what I am thinking. When you ask a question like that do you really think it is at all clever...your drive is to undermine the truth I present..hiding the truth will take much more than what you think are clever questions..and know this they are just not clever.