pffft anal sex? LOL, no that wasn't it. I would have thought that was painful not vile. But if it had been, how many of you have asked if a person likes taking it up the ass before you ever have sex with them? I know that conversation never came up for me. Or how about "Are you into necrophilia?" "Are you a pedophile?" People may talk about kinky stuff, they don't talk about illegal perversions. And why am I getting lambasted for my innocence? I find it very telling. No "Sorry I jumped to conclusions. Sorry I judged you before knowing the whole story" But "Its your fault I was mean to you"