I asked the manager of my apartment building, who is 28 years old, to go out with me to a jazz concert. I went out and had a great time. Then, a few days ago, I asked her to go to the movies. She said yes, but then something came up. She goes home alot on the weekends. Anyway, I love hanging out with her but I'm not romantically interested in her. I'm wondering if she considers it a date when I ask her to go out. I have had a couple female friends spend the night at my apartment when they were visiting my city. There was no sex or anything. Is that normal? I mean, can a guy ask a woman out and it is just on a friendship level or is that always considered a date when a guy ask a woman out. Is it normal to have a female friend spend a night at my house and just be friends, with no sex involved. What do you guys think. Can me and women be friends?