There were several studies done on people and their mates. Most people end up in long term relationships (marriage) with people who are equally attractive to them. When I first heard that I thought that's not true, but I went through most of the married couples I know and they are equally attractive. So really hot people tend to marry other really hot people and ugly people tend to marry other ugly people. Circumstantial marriages aside, like marrying for someone's money or because you were forced into a shotgun wedding stuff like that, do most people end up with people who are as attractive as they are? Is your partner just about as attractive as you are?