They're not the ones wishing death on people. People judge atheists and religious alike based on their actions. And based on your actions here in this forum, people will have a more negative view of religious types. They will see them as bitter, angry, hateful people who prefer violence to reason. Are you sure that's how you want to present yourself? You could say the same of drug dealers. They're not molesting children, they're not marching armies in the crusades, they're not killing innocent people trying to suppress freedom; instead they are just making a lot of money selling products to people to make them happy. Why is that wrong?