I am just wondering do you folks think it is too old to change your behavior after reaching a certain age? Personally I lack discipline. I am not sure if discipline is the right word and I am not sure if I can make improvement. For example at work I waste a lot of time chatting, typing email, typing messages, and flirting with coworkers. I am not as productive as I am capable of. If I have to get things done, I end up working over time. Since I am on salary I don't get paid over time. At night I have classes to study. After maybe 15 minutes of study, I start grabbing something to eat, turn on the radio, turn on TV, posting messages, and etc... A lot of people said I am a very intelligent person (which I agree Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!), but I lack discipline to be successful. Since I have been acting this way my entire life, I don't think I can change. Even though I am not that old (20's), I have given up. Also in my performance review, my boss wants me to be less confrontational and more diplomatic during difficult conversations or debate with coworkers. I think he has a good point. People raise their walls and become defensive and less receptive to criticisms when you are confrontational. That is the way I have always been. I think I am too old to change. So are we too old to change?