Substandard? I've never resorted to celibacy and yet I have never had an abortion. It seems that you continue to project the feelings you have for yourself on others. Most people are quite able to make these decisions for themselves and they don't need a neurotic such as yourself telling them how to live. You know all about having a child sucked out of your womb and continue to project those feelings unto others. I have known quite a few women who have had an abortion but they do not outweigh the number of women I know who have never needed an abortion while also never needing to be celibate. The ones who have had an abortion are exceptionally well adjusted and do not angst over their choices. Sorry you are not as fortunate.