It's strange, because the other day I was reading an account by some heterosexual men who talked about how they liked their female partners to probe their anus! Or are you saying that being so-called 'heterosexual' deadens the nerve endings in your anus. By the way.....what you're saying is nothing more than a 'power' statement --- that is usually used in the society to denigrate and thus suppress same-sex desires (often by people who have strong such desires). And it is for this reason that I doubt what you've claimed in your post. This denigration process that makes men hate their same sex attraction (it is used on oneself and on others): femininity = extremely lowly male, an outcast from the male society receptive anal sex = femininity (thus receptive anal sex has the worst denigrative value) In a heterosexual society: any sexual need for males = a desire to be fucked anally So it is easy to see how the process of denigration and marginalisation of same-sex needs works in a heterosexual society. In what I have observed, only about 30% of gay men go for anal intercourse......and almost none of the straight men care for anal sex with men --- they often go for things like mutual masturbation and stuff.