Dude... what's better? A 16 year old mother, or a 25 year old old mother? 25 year old women give healthy babies, draqon. Not only that, but they're actually able to provide for them! We're getting away from the matter though. The matter is emotional and intellectual maturity, not sexual maturity. Sex and babies and all that shit doesn't even need to get into this argument.
Dude.. I'm talking about a 16 year old girl with a 22 year old guy. I'm not talking about 19 year olds. I just said I would tolerate my 16 year old girl with a 19 year old. That's it. Of course a 19 year old is free to do what he wants. He can date my daughter if he's a good guy, but that's about where I would cross the line.
I am lucky I have 2 boys..........but if my son was 22 and brought home a 16 yr old girl, I wouldn't be happy! I would tell him to find a girl closer to his own age.
This coming from the guy who made this statement earlier; I wouldn't even bat an eyelash if a 30 year old were to fuck a 16 year old given mutual consent.
I mean I could give him my opinion at that age, if he listened would be a different story. I think at 16 and 22 though they would be in totally different spots in their life. Plus I have seen some of these little "bitches" running around my neighbourhood chasing anybody with a nice car and a bit of money. I hope my boys have more sense then to fall for that. I can only try and hope I put them in the right direction. I think I am going to be in big trouble.......They are both cute.... But the younger one is gorgeous..and a great personality...He has girls chasing him now. Whenever we go out ppl comment on how cute he is all the time.
In which case he's going to grow up a psycho - calling a guy "cute" is guaranteed to do that Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
well maybe when he is older it will change to "handsome" neitche says looking at the 2 of us together is like seeing double lmao
HAHAH no although he grew his hair out like a skateboarder now. No he has the same face, and same personality..... poor child
Please don't try to preach your morals to us. I don't see why you should be angry, upset, perhaps, but angry? No. Besides, if it's consensual, then it's totally legal and therefore okay in the eyes of the law. The most you can do is give your daughter a sex talk at age 13 or 14 and pray she listens. And as she grows up, don't be a father figure, be more of a friend.
A parent is meant to guide and counsel their child. Not be a "friend". A father cannot not be a father figure in their child's life. I have to ask myself, why would a 22 year old want to date a 16 year old? While it is not a big age gap in terms of years, the difference in the maturity and emotional level is vast. Can he not find a woman in his age range to date?
People in this thread act as if 16 year olds are complete retards. I don't know how it works elsewhere, but in Quebec, we're graduating high school at 16/17: if you're saying these adolescents are unable to think their actions through and have consensual sex, you might have set the bar higher than required...
Everything I've said involves [my thoughts on their] mental maturity and decision making (which I apprently disagree with) while disregarding sexual/physical maturity. Yeah I figured. Be glad you don't...hahah. And thank you for being civil, I appreciate that. I hope I didn't come off too strongly as if I was trying to shove my own beliefs down others throats as I was simply sharing my thoughts. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! My beliefs probably stem from the fact that I myself am still a young female (18) and have had a handful of girlfriends from high school who've experienced teenage pregnancy.