22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by Dewayne2, Sep 27, 2007.

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Am I right to be angry?

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  2. No

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  1. draqon Banned Banned

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    Tolerate it? At 19 she/he should be their own individuals, free as birds.
     
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  3. francois Schwat? Registered Senior Member

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    Dude... what's better? A 16 year old mother, or a 25 year old old mother? 25 year old women give healthy babies, draqon. Not only that, but they're actually able to provide for them! We're getting away from the matter though.

    The matter is emotional and intellectual maturity, not sexual maturity. Sex and babies and all that shit doesn't even need to get into this argument.
     
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  5. francois Schwat? Registered Senior Member

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    Dude.. I'm talking about a 16 year old girl with a 22 year old guy. I'm not talking about 19 year olds. I just said I would tolerate my 16 year old girl with a 19 year old. That's it. Of course a 19 year old is free to do what he wants. He can date my daughter if he's a good guy, but that's about where I would cross the line.
     
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  7. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    I am lucky I have 2 boys..........but if my son was 22 and brought
    home a 16 yr old girl, I wouldn't be happy! I would tell him to find
    a girl closer to his own age.
     
  8. draqon Banned Banned

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    well obviously its USA. in USA its illegal.
     
  9. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    In mental and emotional age those two ages are about equall.
     
  10. s0meguy Worship me or suffer eternally Valued Senior Member

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    I feel sorry for your children
     
  11. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    This coming from the guy who made this statement earlier;

    I wouldn't even bat an eyelash if a 30 year old were to fuck a 16 year old given mutual consent.
     
  12. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    I mean I could give him my opinion at that age, if he listened
    would be a different story. I think at 16 and 22 though they would
    be in totally different spots in their life. Plus I have seen some of these
    little "bitches" running around my neighbourhood chasing anybody with a nice
    car and a bit of money. I hope my boys have more sense then to fall for that.
    I can only try and hope I put them in the right direction.

    I think I am going to be in big trouble.......They are both cute....
    But the younger one is gorgeous..and a great personality...He has girls chasing him now.
    Whenever we go out ppl comment on how cute he is all the time.
     
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  13. Oli Heute der Enteteich... Registered Senior Member

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    In which case he's going to grow up a psycho - calling a guy "cute" is guaranteed to do that

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  14. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    well maybe when he is older it will change to "handsome" neitche says looking at the 2 of us together is like seeing double lmao
     
  15. s0meguy Worship me or suffer eternally Valued Senior Member

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    I feel sorry for them having you as a mother.
     
  16. draqon Banned Banned

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    that definitely true.
     
  17. mikenostic Stop pretending you're smart! Registered Senior Member

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    Your son has long hair and boobies too?
     
  18. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    HAHAH no although he grew his hair out like a skateboarder now.
    No he has the same face, and same personality..... poor child
     
  19. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    Can you say anything else you are repeating yourself:bugeye:
     
  20. [a-5] Sex machine, coin operated. Registered Senior Member

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    Please don't try to preach your morals to us. I don't see why you should be angry, upset, perhaps, but angry? No. Besides, if it's consensual, then it's totally legal and therefore okay in the eyes of the law. The most you can do is give your daughter a sex talk at age 13 or 14 and pray she listens. And as she grows up, don't be a father figure, be more of a friend.
     
  21. Bells Staff Member

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    A parent is meant to guide and counsel their child. Not be a "friend". A father cannot not be a father figure in their child's life.

    I have to ask myself, why would a 22 year old want to date a 16 year old? While it is not a big age gap in terms of years, the difference in the maturity and emotional level is vast. Can he not find a woman in his age range to date?
     
  22. SoLiDUS OMGWTFBBQ Registered Senior Member

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    People in this thread act as if 16 year olds are complete retards. I don't know how it works elsewhere, but in Quebec, we're graduating high school at 16/17: if you're saying these adolescents are unable to think their actions through and have consensual sex, you might have set the bar higher than required...
     
  23. Puma C'mere you devil log! Registered Senior Member

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    Everything I've said involves [my thoughts on their] mental maturity and decision making (which I apprently disagree with) while disregarding sexual/physical maturity.


    Yeah I figured. Be glad you don't...hahah.


    And thank you for being civil, I appreciate that. I hope I didn't come off too strongly as if I was trying to shove my own beliefs down others throats as I was simply sharing my thoughts.

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    My beliefs probably stem from the fact that I myself am still a young female (18) and have had a handful of girlfriends from high school who've experienced teenage pregnancy.
     

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