21 y/o virgin here

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by stateofmind, Mar 1, 2009.

  1. draqon Banned Banned

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    Anyways by age 24 I will no longer be a virgin.
     
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  3. Randwolf Ignorance killed the cat Valued Senior Member

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    One thing for sure, it is good to have goals...

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  5. John99 Banned Banned

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    that should not be the goal.
     
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  7. draqon Banned Banned

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    what is that supposed to mean?!!!!

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  8. Randwolf Ignorance killed the cat Valued Senior Member

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    Luv you Draq, just trying to stir things up...
     
  9. scorpius a realist Valued Senior Member

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    hypocrisy of the establishment imo,
    after all everyone sells themselves one way or another!

    still getting laid is as easy as calling massage or escort services,every big city yellow pages has tons of those..

    mind you fucking a hooker is seriously boring experience that only some people like,
    I for one need serious emotional involvement with someone you really care for...
     
  10. stateofmind seeker of lies Valued Senior Member

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    I just want to do it a couple of times so it's not such a nerve-wracking experience for me.
     
  11. Naturelles Future Scientist Registered Senior Member

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    Your highly mistaken

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    I haven't copulated, and don't really care about it

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  12. shorty_37 Go! Canada Go! Registered Senior Member

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    The more you guys keep harping and worrying about being a virgin the more terrified you are going to make yourselves and it will never happen.
     
  13. phlogistician Banned Banned

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    Surely not, you being a virgin. You mean, 'lack of sex', 'attempting sex', 'trying to solicit sex', not actually sex.

    Anyway, it's no biggie. It'll happen when you're ready, and if there's one piece of advice I can give you; Don't put the pussy on a pedestal.
     
  14. stateofmind seeker of lies Valued Senior Member

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    No, including those above, being a virgin causes me anxiety as well. I honestly don't feel like a man. It's like the rite of passage for manhood. When people talk about sex around me I get uncomfortable because if I get asked about it, most times I feel pressured to lie, and I really hate lying.

    Yah, I understand women are people just like men. I don't have any friends that are women really, maybe that's part of my problem. Anyway, thanks for the advice.
     
  15. phlogistician Banned Banned

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    You did however say;

    I guess you meant 'virginity'.

    btw, 'don't put the pussy on a pedestal' is a quote from 'The 40 year old virgin', .....
     
  16. orcot Valued Senior Member

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    again Try visiting a brothel get some overprised champagne get a lap dance. Pick up a talktive one over a dominant one and do whatever you want, I'm sure they get all sorts of men maybe she can give you some tips/funny anecdotes.

    If you can't get love try at least to make it fun
     
  17. EndLightEnd This too shall pass. Registered Senior Member

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    thinking have you been intimate with a girl without sex? (ie blowjob?)

    if so I would say dont worry about the virginity thing, like phlog said it will happen when your ready
    my aerospace engineer buddy is still a virgin because he "puts the pussy on a pedestal" like no other, he tries way to hard and scares girls off
    you have to act like you dont want/need it
     
  18. Search & Destroy Take one bite at a time Moderator

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    Your honesty and openness is actually very honorable. The only solution, that I personally don't have a problem with, is to just go for it.
     
  19. stateofmind seeker of lies Valued Senior Member

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    Lol grrreat.. that's like my favorite movie... :grumble:

    Yah I've had two blowjobs before. I think maybe the two girls were just really bad at it though because it wasn't that good at all.

    I realized yesterday that if and when I'm ready I probably won't have that hard of a time finding someone. When I'm a little drunk and in a crowded bar I'm actually a pretty social guy. I guess a lot of the anxiety comes from me being older and the way people perceive me as still being a virgin (I still can't bring myself to be honest about it to most people - and hell, I don't know if I even should.)

    Thank you all for the advice and encouragement!

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  20. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    ummm, maybe it wasn't their skill, but the fact that they weren't men. :shrug:
     
  21. Ganymede Valued Senior Member

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    Don't feel bad about being a virgin at 21. You don't know what pain is until someone you cared for and were intimate with puts your heart in a sling. It's worst then being cast into a lake of fire my friend.
     
  22. electrafixtion Registered Senior Member

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    I think your feelings of "pressure" go much deeper than what a prostitute can do for you. The act of sex itself is not what is troubling you.
     
  23. draqon Banned Banned

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    yeah but the act of sex might help him realize this.
     

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