View Full Version : the human as an emotional slave


thefountainhed
02-07-04, 08:43 AM
*disclaimer* generalities abound as a result of summarization*

The human is so violently emotionally unstable, it is almost sickening. While in control of our mental capacities, rational capabilities, we are totally absolved of any control over our emotions. Sure, we can limit to some extent, the effects our emotions have on us physically and mentally, but the emotions nevertheless, exist. In a situation where you feel saddened or insecure, control maybe exerted in the sense that no tears are shed, or physical outbursts thwarted, but we nevertheless merely escape the crisis stage; we still get stimulated, and the emotions run their course. In lieu of my increasing interest in the human emotional condition, I studied these scenarios:

1. A student in a class who answers the question the entire class cannot.

Teacher response:

A. wow. you are brilliant dave
B. well, that is one answer, it is not the correct answer, but it is certainly an answer. Good imagination, davie.
C. Incorrect. Please raise your hand only if you know the correct answer.

2. A guy in a bar/club/crowded area who approaches a girl

Her response:
A. ewwwww
B. sure, we can go on a date
C. how about I call you?

3. A classically beautiful girl who:

A. Has essentially, no female friends as a result of perhaps jealousy?
B. Rarely gets approached by men because they are intimidated?
C. Gets told everyday how beautiful she is.


Now, let’s assume that each scenario is the reflection of one individual, what assumptions can you as the reader, make of their current psychological state? Insecure, and why?, confident and why?, etc etc


One must realize that emotions precede a psychological state, and that the human, at least in the culture, is immensely, and pathetically, emotionally insecure.

cosmictraveler
02-07-04, 09:16 AM
Very egotistical girl that I see presented here. Not wanting to expose herself for fear she may get hurt so wraps herself up in herself. Must have mirrors everywhere.

ihavenoname083
02-09-04, 04:35 PM
3A
Girl with few ‘girl’ friends is very lonely. If other women are jealous just being around her, I am going to presume that they would not like it if their significant other was around this women either. (Stemming from their own separate insecurities) This leads to the only people that she can socialize with being single men (or at least the majority of the people she socializes with) Single men usually only have one thing in mind when talking to a beautiful women, and usually it’s not a good solid friendship. I see a women with few true friends and loads of bad relationships. Not having girl friends to talk with and find out what is normal in a relationship can only encourage her poor relationships. I think, on some level, this girl knows that she is beautiful, but has serious doubts. 3A’s fragile ego is no match for the men of this world; leaving her depressed, hurt and alone.

3B
Depends greatly on whether or not 3A also applies to her or not. If she has female friends then they will reinforce to her that she is beautiful (therefore that nothing is wrong with her- and that she too can be wanted and loved and BE HAPPY). As well, female friends are notorious for ‘setting people up’. If she is single long enough, her friends will play matchmaker surely.

If 3A DOES apply to her, then my heart goes out to this girl. Not having many female friends, she doesn't do lots of the normal 'girl' things- like shopping at the mall. I see a very sad girl that is terribly lonely and has no idea what is wrong with her. With only a limited number of men approaching her, I would guess that it is mostly one type of men that will approach her. If she is quite vulnerable then she may just get mixed up in many poor relationship choices leading to an even more emotionally wounded spirit. With no female friends around to ‘compare’ relationships with, she may even be stuck in destructive mode and not be aware of this.



3C
You did not say who it was that told the girl that she was beautiful. The girl will interpret this differently when it comes from different people. Does she get told every day by the same person or different people? If it is only family then she may not believe them. If it is everybody around her, then yes, I definitely see mirrors.