Should I Tell My Mom...?

On church, there is this little Japonese girl that I've been flirting with. Yesterday, we hugged and flirted enough to almost kiss each other. I tried to ask her to hang out with me so that I could ask her out, but she was going to have lunch with her friends... :/

Why they are so slow? We flirt for days and weeks and they just don't go on!

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So... we are almost going out, and I wonder if I should tell my mom that my girlfriend is 10 years older then me...

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She is 29 and I'm 19. Almost 20, but still 19. It's funny how Japanese girls always look so young. She looks and acts like a 17 year old...

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I've always been very open to my mom when it comes to girlfriends (eventhought I've never really had any!), but I don't know if I should tell my mom that my girlfriend is 29. It might be scary for her? I don't know.

Any moms here? How would you feel if your 19 year old would go out with a 29 year old?

 

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Hahaha.
All you've done is hug and you're already calling her your girlfriend. Don't you want to make sure you are actually a couple before telling your mother anything?

 

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I said that we almost kissed. Not to mention that I hugged her from behind and... well... I'm not going to describe everything...

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I will obviously tell my mom only if the girl happens to be my girlfriend... which looks highly likely, by the "looks" of it...

 

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Isn't it about time that you took on life without mom?

 

Oh it's you again. I think you should consider changing your name to "HelpSeeker" since the only thing you know to do is ask people for opinions. Well here are my thoughts on your dilemma (if it really could be considered one).

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Well maybe she just doesn't want to go out with you.

I don't see how you could almost be going out when all you have done is hugged the girl. She hasn't told you she likes you, or vice versa. Why the hell would you tell your mom about a relationship that doesn't even exist? Also, you must check and see if that 29 year old girl is willing to have any sort of relationship with someone 10 years younger.

Ok the first pathetic entry was fine, I replied and hopefully you found a small amount of insight but this is just insane. You are 19 years old, a big boy... or big enough to make your own decisions. My suggestion is relax and do what YOU feel is right instead of coming on here asking for suggestions or asking if you should tell Mommy. Second, She is not your girlfriend. Third, it depends on the type of person. Some people don't see age as a huge deal but it all depends. Lastly, It may be scary for HER but it's not HER relationship.. it's yours. I think you should grow up. 19 going on 12...

Just a suggestion
- S t e p h -

 

Mom is one of my best friends. Not many people treat me as well as my family and a few friends do...

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I don't always ask for help. I'm just wondering.

Do you know anything about our relationship...?

First of all, it wasn't just a hug. There has been a lot going on for months. I told you about one day.
Second, the relationship already exists. I just didn't ask her out. She knows I'm interested on her, and I know she is interested on me. It's just a step forward.
As for dating someone 10 years younger... she certainly does...
And I would think most older girls would love that...

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I'm making my own decisions. I'm just humble enough to ponder how wise I'm, instead of bragging how much I'm wise and insightful, like most people do...

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What are you assuming? That I'm asking permission to go out with a girl? This is ridiculous. You don't know me. You have no idea what kind of relationship I have with my mom or with anyone else. Grow up. Stop assuming all those things.

Maybe not... yet...

Are you a mom? Do you know that mothers worry about their kids? If you tell your mother you are going out with someone way older then you, you might get her worried. I just don't want to worry my mother, ok?

I think you should grow up and only post relevant things without assuming 95% of the situation. :bugeye:

I don't even know anymore why I ask. Maybe I should just follow my mind and get out of those forums. People like you are pathetic. Thinking that you are right and everybodyelse is wrong. This is too bad....:/

 

Truthseeker seems to be something of a stalker. The girl hugged him and gave a lame excuse for not going out with him, now he thinks she's his girlfriend. She'd better not ever actually accept an invitation, he'd consider the pair engaged.

Oh this one's good. She hugged him once, he thinks she flirts with him, she even gave him a lame excuse when he asked her out.
Why they're practically married!

Ha ha, oh this one's good.
Truthseeker, Truthseeker, have you ever wondered why you invite abuse?

 

Don't tell your mom till you impregnate her, then right after you tell your mom ask for some money.

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Is your growth truely this stunted? Aren't you the same one who said people go to clubs and dance in order to meet someone to marry?

I'm sorry, but this is just sad. You need to go find some normal 19 year olds and go on a road trip or something. I realize you are in the Branham cult, but this is no reason to completely avoid your life and stunt your growth to the point of embarassment.

 

there are sights where people get together to talk about girls. this isn't one of them. try google under the search term "porn".

 

This boy needs a demonstration, not visual aids.

 

You'll find this will be one of the reasons you will get so much ridicule in this thread. Reasses your relationship because one of you is jumping the gun by far...guess who?

 

I met this girl at the supermarket. When she gave me my change, she touched my hand and... well... I'm not going to describe everything.

I think I'm going to go back and buy some gum, so I get the most change back as possible. It's only one step n our relationship.

 

Guys, I have to be honest. There is a woman in my life... and I think I love her. We've known eachother for a long time, we have hugged and kissed on occasion- she is always there for me. I think it's time to take it up a notch.

I have one concern though. Do you think my father will mind if I steal his wife? No really guys, give me some advice here.

 

Remember the best way to dispose of a body is with an industrial wood chipper (unless your lucky enough to own a pig farm) try and point the outlet over a lake or other large body of open water. If you can mount the chipper on a boat so much the better.
Oh and don't clean the blades, replace them.

Unless your mum is a serial killer too I wouldn't tell her.
Hope this helps.
Dee Cee

 

I'm just going to assume that your dad is rich and remarried to a much younger woman.

Didn't you learn anything in pre-school? It isn't nice to steal... ask if he will share.

 

guys, i need some advice.

u c, theres this girl who must like me 4 real. i mean, every time she gets up in front of that weather map and tells me if its gonna rain or not, she smiles at me in the cutest way...

and once... she waved her hands this one way... and well i don't need to explain... if u know what i mean.


and i dont care if shes 2 old for moms taste! shes...

i think im in love 4 real, guys

 

What tangled webs you guys have gotten yourselves into

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Good luck.
Get this, the other day this girl sat next to me on the bus when there was another seat available. The other seat had vomit on it but it was pretty much dried up so.. you know... need I say more?
Anyway should I tell dad or just keep it a secret?
She looked about 78 and she might have been a man, I don't know she had a grey beard and khaki slacks.
My dad is kind of prejudice against elderly men, one time he caught me reading senior dream magazine and he was really disappointed when he noticed I had an erection.
See what I'm saying? The guy's a biggot

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This is going to be tough, but I need to break the news to him. Fingers crossed.

 

Does anybody else feel this urge when reading a typical thread by TruthSeeker?

Go find a good, long, strong tubesock. Fill it with a few hundred nickels. Make a knot at the end to contain said nickels. Hunt down TS and bludgeon the shit out of him with a sock full of nickels. Repeat.

Afterwards, relax and enjoy a smoke and a beer.

That would be very cathartic for me.

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