Yes I have no point in beat around the Bush no pun intended just come out and say it works great and it leave no room what so ever in their mind that perhaps maybe there might be a chance.

what happens with the guys who can't take no for an answer That you like??
usually thats the one you end up marrying...

Exactly, and how does a guy know which category he falls into? Silly women.

if you like him, why on earth would you tell him no????

When that was TalkandJive's line she was called a 'slut'

by men or other women? I think women are harsher judges of a woman's sexuality than men.

By chicks of course. I agree with you. Women are harsher.

i call everyone a slut, hahhaa.. and I call my best friend a ho. haha.. then again they all know I be joking.. but i have to say we are kinda bad at it.. but we also look at a man taking home a new woman everynight a slut also.. and men are way worse then girls when it comes to that

No, silly children. I know a lot of men say they want a woman who doesn't play games, but when they get that woman, they are put off by how self assured and confident she is.
One of those 'be careful what you wish for' kind of things

I don't care if a person has lots of random sex, as long as its safe sex and the other person is not being lied to.

I wouldn't have a woman any other way.

When a man proves to be incapable of handlig such a woman, dump him. Far too many women try and pretend to be what they are not to please their men (and, yes, the same thing goes for men). Why would anyone want someone who is incompatible with them? I just don't get it!

Trust me, I know exactly how you feel. I think it's even worse in the gay community, at least for me.

Get this...

I went on a date, ONE date, with this guy. It wasn't a bad date but I sure as hell wasn't going to jump into anything. The next day, he had called me and texted me at least 10-15 times in the 9 hours that I was at work. The next day he called me just as much. I told him to back off. He said he would. He didn't and the phone calls continued another day before I decided that I just wasn't going to pick up the phone. Three more days go by, the phone calls continue. Finally I get a voicemail with him bitching at me like a f*ckin' princess saying "You know, communication is a big part of a relationship and you're going to have to start talking to me if you want this to work."

Ok, who in hell said ANYTHING about a relationship? What? Just because I go on one date with you automatically means I'm your boyfriend!? I think not.

Then a week later I get a text message simply saying, "Explain yourself."

There is nothing to explain other than the fact that you're apparently desperate and obsessive.

But anywho, I know how you feel. People need to get a clue.

wll see, i wanted a relationship with this guy. and things where fine for awhile then he stopped calling, and txting.. so i was like whatever.. I would txt him askin if he was ok and alive.. i gave up, a few weeks pass, hes callin again, and I told him, if u really want me, you gotta let me know ur alive atleast. well, one night we go out on a date, and I end up passing out at his place, get 3hours of sleep because he snored like an old man, and that is when I sorta just gave up on him. lol.. I think that if you fall asleep next to someone, its sapost to be a great sleep you know, not feeling like you are laying next to your parent!

but since i posted this i have yet to hear back from him. maybe he got the hint that I am not in the mood for anything.. yes, most girls are atleast in a I want to cuddle mood, or just let me lay my head in ur lap thing. But I told him I didnt want any of it! hahaaa.. one of my good guy friends understands that girls dont always want to do anything besides have someone just be there.. if you keep us around for just when you NEED us, we wont be there for you.. we have to have you there for us first...

I guess I am just a needy person because I want someone to care about me, not what is under my cloths, and I want someone to listen to my problems once in awhile. that is the best way to my heart, weither it being I am totaly in love with you, or I love you because you are a great person and friend..

I love alot of you tho we have never met because the majority of you care about others, if someone is in need, said people are there. and as cold hearted as I am twords some things, you all give me alittle hope that the world isnt totaly going to hell, just the vast majority of it ahhaha

Men are sluts so how can we judge women?

Didn't I tell you earlier it comes down to immaturity? :P
I guess it depends how guys see traditional gender roles vs equality. Not to mention there's the rest of the womans personality to consider. From my own observations I tend to find that confident and self-assured women tend to be quite slutty and that makes a lot of guys around them uncomfortable.