Need help finding a perfect woman

lol, just seemed right since Need help finding a perfect gift was posted, hehe.

 

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get off the internet and go meet some people

 

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Back to the old Sderenzi.....

At least this time, you're asking a question that has plagued both men and women for ages LOL.

You pretty much have to go out on dates, and fail a bunch of times until you find one that works. Either that, or you get lucky and find on one of the first tries.

 

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Are you serious you need some help?

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Try this & good luck!

http://www.emajja.com/emajjanew/index.php?page=3&id=40&aid=304&subchannelId=24

General Dating Rules For Men

You are a guy who knows how to date, you are a guy who hasn't dated in years, you are a guy who has never been successful with women. Whatever your situation there are some common dating rules to follow when venturing into the dating jungle. These rules are simply to protect your emotional state and to ensure even handed success. Women are trained from day one in the art of dating warfare. They have a physical and emotional arsenal that you may never hope to match. But don't be outgunned, be prepared my friends as the dating battle isn't over yet buddy.

1. Look your best. Get some decent clothes and shoes. Women always look at your shoes even if the last time you checked your Nike's out was 1996. Get clothes that fit you, suit you and are contemporary. Don't just buy one outfit, sort out your entire wardrobe. If you can't take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of her? Oh yes and buy a good well tailored suit, there is no excuse not to.

2. Get your hygiene and styling sorted out. Down to the barbers and sort out your hair, get a decent style if possible. If you don't have much hair still get down to the salon and either get your head shaved or something you can handle. Then it is off to the shops with you for good quality cologne and a grooming kit. Yes that means some expense. Men are so often criticized for smelling bad. Get into a regular showering routine and smell good always. Women appreciate it.

3. Sort out your job if you have one. Women want a man who has some ambition in life. Any job is better than none, but knuckle down and sort out some direction in your life. Change job if need be but at least try and look like you you have something of a career. If you have a manual job, at least have some plans to work for yourself. If you already do, then you are on the right track but know what you are about work wise and have some idea of your future because they will be asking questions about your prospects even if they pretend it isn't important. It is.

4. Get your knowledge levels up. Make sure you are up to date with current affairs, watch the news and read quality papers. Women do not appreciate stupidity and laziness is no excuse either. Current affairs are important in showing you know all about the world outside. If you travel a lot then this will help tremendously, if you don't have plans to travel, get some. Being able and willing to sort out vacations is essential in the grand scheme of things.

5. Do not extol the virtues of drinking in the bar 5 nights a week. This will never win any fair princess's heart. If you love your booze sort yourself out as there are other things in life too. Taking your lady for a drink is fine, but give them the impression that you live in there will get you absolutely nowhere - fast.

6. If you love your sport then fine. If sport is a religion you may have a problem but everything by degrees guys. If you are serious about dating then ramming the subject of soccer, ball games or football down your date's throat will put them off in record time. Sport to the uninitiated is completely boring and shows not only sheep mentality to a woman but lack of thought, creativity or inspiration. Millions of girls love sport too and that is fine but don't make your passion into a one-sided one.

9. Never expect sex on a first date. If all you are after is sex you have come to the wrong place for reading material. If you are looking for the girl of your dreams there is nothing more sexy than a patient man. You are easily capable of waiting for the right woman so do it instead of thinking with your balls.

10. Sort out your educational knowledge of manners, courtesy and chivalry. A woman likes being treated well, particularly with respect. Lose the coarse language, the swear words, the rudeness and the laziness. Know how to eat in a top restaurant, know about fashion and jewelry and in particular flowers. Know how to hold a door open for a woman, let her go first and help her with her seat. Listen to what she says but have opinions of your own too. Show her respect and manners at every step and you should not go wrong.

11. Start listening and stop talking. Keep your date interested but don't turn into a one man entertainer. She will bore of you quickly because she wants to talk about herself too. Listen to things she tells you about her and remember them. Women love to chat so you need to learn to listen to her. Remembering things she told you will impress her by the bucketful. Fact.

12. Give up smoking now.

13. Lean to dance even if you have two left flat feet. Women love to dance and dancing is a physical contact sport (or can be). It is also romantic and sexy. You can be the world's worst dancer, I don't care. But if you stay seated when she is on that dance floor you may as well not exist. If you can join Salsa and dancing classes all the better. You don't need to be Travolta but you should have an idea of the basics of rhythm. Get started today.

 

Go somewhere you enjoy doing things at. Like museums, parks, libraries, restrauants, colleges, meetings, sports events and so on. Just get out there and look! You have asked this question before here and as yet you still haven't done anything that was suggested, why not??:shrug:

If your looking for perfection , you will never find it. What you should be doing is enjoying your life as best you can and if you run into someone that attracts you then start up a relationship with them. You shouldn't be trying to find something but instead just take life as it comes.

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I gave up searching for the perfect woman - and settled for a bunch of average ones instead

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The only perfect woman I know comes with a puncture repair kit, but that does detract from her perfection.

 

Dark, look here: http://www.muslims4marriage.com/

 

Your Youtube software channel is a good idea, but to attract women you'll have to start another channel under another name, where you sit in an armchair by the fireplace and talk to the camera.

You can call it 'Nice Guys Dont Finish' as before...or just simply 'My Troubles with Women'.

Women seem to love the beautiful loser type, as long as he's creative and funny about it.

 

SO true!

 

what women say they want from a man, and what women are actually attracted to in a man are two entirely different things. In fact most women don't even realise this themselves.

So when a woman says she wants a nice guy who will treat her well and listen to her, what she really means - whether she knows it or not - is she wants a strong single minded, assertive, take no shit kind of guy, and if he also happens to treat her well and listen to her then thats just a bonus.

that's why women so often go out with complete jerks - becuase he exhibits all of the characteristics that she finds attractive on an unconscious level, and attraction is a powerful force - powerful enough for a woman to abandon her "list" of things she thinks are important on a conscious level, and ignore all of the jerk behaviour.

So I find that acting a little cocky, assertive, and arrogant when I'm on the pull works wonders.

next lesson - the girl game..........

 

Hmm, if the yawning chasm between the conscious and subconscious is wider in women than it is in men...this means that women can never be truly honest with themselves!

 

Ngh. That's really, really bad advice. I'm a girl by the way.

 

Explain...dont tease!

 

In terms of physical attraction yes - men are much more straightforward - I wouldn't necessarily extend that to the whole of a womans psyche though

 

Its the whole female insecurity thing - some women - even if they are going to say no - will be offended/ get paranoid if you don't at least have a crack at getting them in the sack on the first date - they are so used to guys doing it that they think there's something wrong with them (or worst case scenario - YOU) if you don't.

That said there are good ways to go about it and bad

 

You first need your own nest, then a well paying job, then a good car perhaps after you achieve that you might locate a nice female to be with.

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HA!! He would be better off staying single.

 

All this is really just a polite way of saying...she wants CASH, and lots of it!

 

Or...she might be offended by the notion that sex is all hes interested in.

Which might very well be the case.