22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl

[Dewayne2]

Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, *spammed link* )

[spuriousmonkey]

What kind of sex? A bit of oral? doggy style? Anal? Or just rubbing.

[Oniw17]

I don't see why you would be angry.

[spuriousmonkey]

maybe he insists on projecting his moral values on the rest of the world.

[s0meguy]

I wouldn't even bat an eyelash if a 30 year old were to fuck a 16 year old given mutual consent.

I'm pretty sure that it's legal here too.

[Deathfromabove]

Well there's nothing you fathers can do about it. There will always be older men lusting after young girls aged 14-17. Just hope your daugthers have enough sense to not fall into these men's dirty plans.

[Orleander]

I know I wouldn't like it AT ALL! For some reason some people never see past the biological function of it. They don't look at the maturity level of it. I know in MI, its illegal. The age of consent is 16, but the other person cannot be 5 or more years older than that 16 yr old. He's 22, he's in jail.

[cosmictraveler]

If the man were to have explained the facts of life to his 16 year old daughter and raised her by being honest about life and the way people are, then he shouldn't have any problems with her. If he didn't raise her with proper guidance then I would think she maybe taken advantage of because of her naiveté.

[Orleander]

If the man were to have explained the facts of life to his 16 year old daughter and raised her by being honest about life and the way people are, then he shouldn't have any problems with her. If he didn't raise her with proper guidance then I would think she maybe taken advantage of because of her naiveté.

agreed. Most girls who date much older men are looking for a daddy.

[spuriousmonkey]

agreed. Most girls who date much older men are looking for a daddy.

Not really. Women have different biological demands from a partner then men. They already have a daddy. They are merely looking for a partner that fits within their biological desires/constraints.

Older men are better for raising children because of their experience. They have proven themselves. Women need to be as young as possible so they can give as many children as possible.

Deep biological wishes.

[shorty_37]

agreed. Most girls who date much older men are looking for a daddy.

Not when I was a teenager. It was just cool.
They always had a job which meant some money.
They drove a cool car.....etc

[Orleander]

Not when I was a teenager. It was just cool.
They always had a job which meant some money.
They drove a cool car.....etc

when I was in high school, those girls had crappy homes and were easy targets for those guys. That money and a car made it easier for them.

[spuriousmonkey]

Surely you are not suggesting that women are stupid.

[shorty_37]

Well I had a job at 15 after school and made good money.
I had a thing for "rocker" guys back then. It makes me laugh now.
I was a rocker chic myself, with the leather jacket and the feathered back hair lol.

[shorty_37]

I wouldn't even bat an eyelash if a 30 year old were to fuck a 16 year old given mutual consent.

I'm pretty sure that it's legal here too.

You are a pig!

I think you would bat more then an eyelash if it was your 16 yr old daughter.

[lucifers angel]

in the uk its totally legel for someone who is 22 to have sex with a girl who is just 16, why would you be angry?

and in fact girls used to have sex at a younger age because they had to make sure they had children, before they died younger!

yes granted 16 is a bit young but its legel. i know if i had a 16yr old daughter i wouldn't try adn stop her becasue she would do it anyway, but i would advice her on contraception (if i hadnt already done it sooner) what would you prefer, them doing it with you knowing and safe, or not knowing and doing it outside someplace?

[mikenostic]

Well I had a job at 15 after school and made good money.
I had a thing for "rocker" guys back then. It makes me laugh now.
I was a rocker chic myself, with the leather jacket and the feathered back hair lol.

Picturing that mentally, made me chuckle.

What kind of job did you have at 15? You can't officially/legally be employed here in the U.S. until you are 16.

[shorty_37]

My mom got me a job where she worked, the main Postal Distribution Plant.
I went there afterschool and worked from 4:00-11pm everynight. I made
13.50 and hour back then, which was damn good.

And don't forget the tight acid wash jeans lol

After that phase I turned into a full blown preppy!! lol
Cut my hair, wore penny loafers and Rauph Lauren
striped shirts and polo shirts ( I wouldn't be caught dead dressed like that now)

[s0meguy]

You are a pig!

You are [censored]!

I think you would bat more then an eyelash if it was your 16 yr old daughter.

No, because I will never have one. And even if I did, I wouldn't care. It's her body.

[Enmos]

I feel some infractions coming up...
It's may be understandable that you are worried or maybe even upset about it, but angry ? I don't see why you should be angry.