think about sex

**chimpkin** · 10-07-11, 08:52 PM

How often does the thought of having sex idly cross your mind?

**Dywyddyr** · 10-07-11, 08:53 PM

It NEVER idly crosses my mind!

**kx000** · 10-07-11, 08:56 PM

All the time.. it goes.. hey I can have sex with her.. or is this person interested in me sexually? I wish they would stop being sexually interested in me.

**chimpkin** · 10-07-11, 09:00 PM

Originally Posted by Dywyddyr

It NEVER idly crosses my mind!

So it's an active decision then...

**~~Bowser~~** · 10-07-11, 09:49 PM

When I was a young man, it was quite the distraction. I'm quite happy that it doesn't influence my thinking as it once did. There's something to be said about age.

**R1D2** · 05-30-12, 05:28 AM

Don't know why this thread never "took off".
I will say that I am "young" enough that the thought of sex crosses my mind enough.
Sorry this poll is closed, I would have liked casting my vote.

**Buddha12** · 05-30-12, 08:44 AM

“The most unfair thing about life is the way it ends. I mean, life is tough. It takes up a lot of your time. What do you get at the end of it? A Death! What's that, a bonus? I think the life cycle is all backwards. You should die first, get it out of the way. Then you live in an old age home. You get kicked out when you're too young, you get a gold watch, you go to work. You work forty years until you're young enough to enjoy your retirement. You do drugs, alcohol, you party, you get ready for high school. You go to grade school, you become a kid, you play, you have no responsibilities, you become a little baby, you go back into the womb, you spend your last nine months floating...

...and you finish off as an orgasm.”

George Carlin

**scheherazade** · 05-30-12, 09:11 AM

Originally Posted by R1D2

Don't know why this thread never "took off".

I have two theories in that regard.

1) The North American attitude toward sex is that it's not a general discussion topic on a public forum for most people.

The above is rather odd given that the allure or suggestion of sex is one of the most popular advertising devices in North American culture.

2) Those with a healthy interest in sex are probably in pursuit of same and for those who may be less successful, public admission is not a good strategy, IMO.

If you're walking the walk, you won't be wasting time talking, I'm guessing.

**R1D2** · 05-30-12, 09:27 AM

Most people here don't meet later in person. So why not mention something or do the poll (if its open). Some may lie there pants off an we would not know the difference.
In my opinion. Guys think about it more an want it more than most women...

**R1D2** · 05-30-12, 09:29 AM

Sex appeal in the U.S. in my opinion is important too. For some people..

**scheherazade** · 05-30-12, 10:04 AM

People assume there is a greater degree of anonymity in on-line discussions than there actually is. One has no idea of whom may be scrutinizing anything that gets posted on-line.

For anyone in a sensitive position or with career advancement in mind, that is something to consider and they will probably decline to comment on some topics or venues.

Some of the early comments on the this thread certainly made me chuckle though, especially

Dywyddyr It NEVER idly crosses my mind!

**NMSquirrel** · 05-30-12, 12:58 PM

I think i missed the vote also..

How often do i think about sex?

every time i see a nice butt.

IOW..TOO often..

and age doesn't make a difference in thoughts..
thinking about it and doing it are two separate things..

**domesticated om** · 06-01-12, 12:21 AM

My own frequency depends.

The times where I have a good sexual partner who fulfills my needs, then I tend to channel all my energies towards her. It's as if that part of me is 'taken care of' and there is no need for random lust throughout the day.....so the frequency is limited to the times where she is present, and I can actually flesh out my desires with her.

If I DON'T have a satisfactory partner, then I tend to spend a lot of time randomly dwelling on it wishing I did.

**R1D2** · 06-01-12, 09:44 AM

How old does a male need to reach before the desires drop a significant amount or will I crave it like I do now till I'm gone?

**Gremmie** · 06-01-12, 09:46 AM

Originally Posted by R1D2

How old does a male need to reach before the desires drop a significant amount or will I crave it like I do now till I'm gone?

How old are you now?

**KilljoyKlown** · 06-01-12, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by NMSquirrel

I think i missed the vote also..

How often do i think about sex?

every time i see a nice butt.

IOW..TOO often..

and age doesn't make a difference in thoughts..
thinking about it and doing it are two separate things..

A fellow butt man. I knew there was something about you that I liked.

**KilljoyKlown** · 06-01-12, 11:06 AM

Originally Posted by R1D2

How old does a male need to reach before the desires drop a significant amount or will I crave it like I do now till I'm gone?

I'd say those thoughts decrease considerably when you can't get it up anymore, for whatever reason, and those for whatever reasons increase with age.

**KilljoyKlown** · 06-01-12, 11:10 AM

Originally Posted by R1D2

Don't know why this thread never "took off".
I will say that I am "young" enough that the thought of sex crosses my mind enough.
Sorry this poll is closed, I would have liked casting my vote.

I believe when you start a topic with a poll, the default is 30 days then the poll will close. You actually have to remove the time limit to keep it open. Anyway without checking that's what I remember.