Suspected shoplifter dies after being detained at California Walmart

Discussion in 'Ethics, Morality, & Justice' started by KilljoyKlown, Jun 5, 2012.

  1. seagypsy Banned Banned

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    Are you suggesting that they INTENDED to kill the guy? If not, maybe you would want to rephrase the above comment because the impression it gives as stated, suggests that you believe they INTENDED to kill the guy.


    This also sounds like you are saying that not only did the guards INTEND to kill the guy, but that Neverfly has said they should have. I have not seen where Neverfly said they SHOULD have killed the guy. Also you have stated this as a fact, I don't think you know Neverfly or anyone on this forum well enough to lay claim to what you know about them. So this is an unfair unwarranted character attack.

    This is very valid. This is also relevant to the OP. There is good reason to question why they went against policy and attacked the guy. If that is what actually happened. Newspapers are notorious for sensationalizing and exaggerating actual events in order to sell papers.

    this is a very rare but matter-of-fact report. Not many papers just state fact anymore. An innocent person does not usually resist when approached by guards. Now unless these guards attacked without telling who they were or why they were stopping him, I can't see why an innocent person would start fighting. The article does not give clear revelation as to how exactly they approached the guy. This should be questioned. Was it reasonable for him to perceive that he was being unjustly attacked? If not, then why would he resist?

    I have been stopped by security at walmart because I had a big purse. I didn't like being stopped but I didn't start throwing punches either. I let them look in my purse and showed receipts for my purchases. Innocent people do not generally resist or run. The resisting gave them reasonable cause to try to stop him. I do not know if their method of stopping him was legal or company policy, but there is still no evidence that they intended to kill the guy. And it is not reasonable to assume that even rough detaining would kill someone under normal circumstances.

    This is the question of the day.


    I don't think Neverfly has ever suggested that the suspect should be denied medical care. I would challenge you to show where he said it.

    He has only said the person who the suspect harmed should not be held responsible for any injury to the suspect, even if those injuries result in death.
    EDIT: Actually, after rechecking, I don't think he even said this. It is just the impression I have gotten from what he has said so far.


    Huh? Non Sequitur?


    I didn't see anything in the report that said they had beaten him to the ground. It is quite common for police and security guards to be trained in how to subdue a suspect without beating. It often only takes a firm grip and the ability to take away their balance, by pinning an arm behind the back and sweeping a foot out from under them. I have been a security guard in the past and I know the training. I worked for Pinkerton. Now whether or not THESE particular guards were trained in such a way, we do not know. And that is one of the things that needs to be found out.

    True and it does make you wonder how much time had passed from the moment they got him subdued to the time the police arrived. Had they had time to even assess his condition before the police arrived? Were the police called ahead of his actual detainment? Were the guards under any assumptions that the paramedics were already on the way? This article simply is not telling the whole story. It is giving just enough to feed into the kneejerk angry reactions people so readily give when they have only a few details and a wild imagination. I would hate to see anyone on this thread on a jury. Willing to pass judgement without knowing the facts... its a sad state we are living in.

    Again, this really is THE question.


    and the guards are not proven to be murders. so why treat them as such. are you doing the same thing [you believe]the guards did?----edit "you believe" added for clarity.

    Are we the judge and jury of the guards? Innocent until proven guilty. Remember?


    I have forgotten to pay for something before. If you stop when they ask you to stop, they don't tackle. If it was a simple oversight, why didn't the guy just stop and address it? I stopped and not only did I not get tackled, they took my word for it that it was an accident and allowed me to go in and pay. I had missed a package of toilet paper on the bottom of my cart but paid for everything else.


    We don't know how they were actually trained. Walmart is good at covering their ass. And if they can put all the heat on the individual guards they will. Besides, if you PROPERLY detain someone, there is no reason to assume one would die from it. IF they did things properly, the only reason he would have died is if there is some per-existing condition that contributed to it. The guards cannot be held responsible for what they could not have known.

    So the questions are, Did they detain him properly and legally? What actually caused him to die? Did they violate company policy? Was the company policy clearly taught to the guards in question?

    This is based on a lot of assumptions. Do we know how long there was between detaining and the time the police arrived? The article leaves you to believe the police arrived around the same time they had just got him restrained. Poor reporting if you ask me when they leave important details. They may have assumed the paramedics would arrive with the police. Anytime I have called the police and reported an altercation, both the police and the paramedics arrive. It is usually up to the 911 operator who gets dispatched.


    I have had to call the police on my own son who was 15 at the time and less than 110 lbs. He was so riled up that it took 4 very large police officers to wrestle him to the floor. He was not harmed in anyway. 3 against 1 does not guarantee a beat down if the 3 were following proper training in how to subdue a suspect.

    You seem to be suggesting that not only did the guards intend to kill the man or at least inflict enough injury on him that he could die, but that they intended to deny him medical care virtually guaranteeing it. On top of that you are extending that horrible character attack to a forum member who has never once said the guy should have been left to die. He has only suggested the guards should not be held responsible for his death and that he has no sympathy for the suspect if in fact he was guilty. If someone does something stupid that gets themselves killed, how can I feel sympathy for them. Should I feel sympathy for a burn victim if they voluntarily stuck their arm in fire? Should I feel sympathy for a drunk driver who gets himself killed when he wraps his truck around a tree? Should I feel sympathy for a man who gets mauled by a bear when he knowingly and willingly walks in the bears den and starts poking it?

    Not having sympathy does not mean that the one without sympathy feels the victim of his own stupidity shouldn't get medical care. You don't need sympathy to offer medical care to the stupid. It only means we don't feel sad for them.



    and at this time we do not know the exact reason for the medical distress or how long the guards had from the moment the suspect was subdued to the moment the police arrived. Details are needed before any reasonable judgement can be made. Too many assumptions are being made at this time and too many hasty conclusions are being reached. And we are tearing each others eyes out over stuff we know little about.


    You are allowing your feelings in another thread to affect your behavior in this one. Don't lose your cool, Bells. This is an unnecessary and unproductive personal attack and assertion about someone's character. Your opinion of him is not relevant to the OP.
     
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  3. Bells Staff Member

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    The man is dead, isn't he?

    He was suspected of shoplifting.

    The notion of innocent until proven guilty is a foreign concept for you?

    Right..

    Are you going to keep telling us what a monster you are, etc?

    I asked you some simple questions. You are the one who is over-emotional and angry.

    Do not project.

    Of course not. And yet here you are debating this subject.

    Why are you here then?

    I mean you have spent considerable time and effort defending 3 security guards who restrained someone on the ground until he went into medical distress and later died. You appear to make it your problem because you seem to believe:

    You have already determined the deceased as a "thief, robber, crock", not to mention attempted to compare him to a rapist and a cannibal.

    All this, on the simple suspicion that he was a shoplifter.

    Really?

    You want to go there?

    You put the words in your own mouth.

    If you don't like how they sound to your ears, the solution is simple, shut up.

    They restrained him until he died.

    They were under an obligation, from their employer, to "disengage" if their actions were going to put the lives of others and themselves at risk. They restrained him, when he was obviously clearly visibly in medical distress (since the police could tell immediately upon arrival that something was wrong, it would have to have been visible). As for never having said anything of the kind, read what you wrote and the context in which you put it in and then talk to me about "intellectual dishonesty" and "distorting the facts". If you can't remember, here, I'll even link what I was responding to:

    So please, can it.

    Says the man who brings up cannibals and rapists in this discussion...

    He resisted them and they began fighting. They were able to get him down on the ground and that’s when the Covina police officers arrived.”

    Officers found Picazo in need of medical help and called paramedics.


    [Source]


    Do you think they tickled him to the ground?

    Really. This from the man who argued for over half a dozen pages that it was logical for the black kid to go and speak to the stranger following him in a car and on foot and then tried to blame the kid for being shot because you believed, against all evidence to the contrary, that the shooter was wearing a uniform and driving a marked car.

    We have been here before Neverfly.

    He was suspected of committing a crime.

    Secondly, the security guards are supposedly trained to "disengage" and it is company policy that they disengage if their actions are putting others in danger. They failed to do so and instead, they restrained him on the ground while he was in such extreme medical distress that he died shortly after.

    Thirdly, self defense does not mean that it is right to kill someone right off the bat. He was being restrained by 3 people. He was in medical distress. At that point, he was no longer a danger to anyone else. Even if stand your ground rules applied in this case, which it does not, he had ceased to be a danger to the 3 security guards involved once they had him on the ground and especially once he had gone into medical distress.

    So you may want to rethink your argument some more.
     
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  5. Balerion Banned Banned

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    For someone who is so personally insulting to other posters so often, you sure do complain a lot when you think others are making personal comments about you.

    I'm talking to Neverfly, for the record.
     
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  7. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    This does not mean that they "inflicted the death penalty."

    Zimmerman? You treated him in that thread as guilty until proven innocent.
    Uhh... No, not really. You consider a few posts, literally a few, to be considerable time and effort?
    Intellectual dishonesty, Bells...

    He got caught. I mean, what do you want? A notarized confession?
    And again- Zimmerman thread? Where was your "Innocent until proven guilty," then? In that case, you're all for guilty until proven innocent.

    Absolutely.
    Let's go there:
    Examples of Bells exaggerating and putting words in peoples mouths:
    That's not what happened.
    Nope, never said, nor hinted at nor implied it. This is based on your faulty assumption and exaggeration that people denied him medical help. They held him til police- who were on the way- arrived. This is intellectual dishonesty. Would you like another third party review over that?
    They did not go and inflict the death penalty. For all you know, he overexerted himself from attacking guards and went into cardiac arrest. You're assuming. YOU DON'T KNOW, BELLS.
    I never said anything of the kind. That's Straw Man. Intellectual Dishonesty. Hyper- accusatory. It's just the tactics you use, It's very tiresome, Bells.
    WRONG.
    They restrained him until Police Arrived. He was ALIVE.
    The police called paramedics.
    He was still alive.
    He was taken to hospital.
    Still alive.
    Died in hospital. Stop assuming.

    I'm sure that will get them fired. But here's the deal

    YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. Assumptions, Bells.
    You don't know that he gave them No Chance to leave the fight. You do not know.

    It doesn't say "Beaten to the ground" now does it?

    Well I was mistaken as to his authority.

    But this guy in this case:
    He actually WAS Violent. He actually DID strike first. And you STILL TAKE HIS SIDE.
    Wow.

    You don't know how criminals caught in the act are restrained, do you? You think once they are on the ground, you only need to ask them nicely to stay put?
    And "Killed right off the bat?" Assumptions, over exaggeration and straw man.


    At this point- Not enough story is out. Too many assumptions are being made. The most I've said is: I have little pity for the man. Bells, I won't get dragged into a flamewar with you. I Have stated my case. You can post again and flame some more- it seems you can't help yourself; doesn't mean I'm obligated to deal with your emotions.
     
  8. seagypsy Banned Banned

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    Not true. He died in the hospital. Not on the scene.

    If you don't agree with someone, you tell them to "can it"?


    So because you don't like something he said, it automatically makes his argument invalid? How about telling why it is invalid? Rather than mocking him.

    This statement that YOU keep re-posting clearly says that the police arrived at the same time that they successfully got him to the ground. If the police arrived at that moment, how could they have had time to assess his condition, let alone call paramedics?

    Do you think beating is the only way to get someone to the ground? I wrestle my kids all the time and pin them. But they are never beaten in the process. Usually I am the only one with injury because I allow them to fight back harder than I fight them. I still win, but still they are allowed to fight back as long as they do not hit in the face and do not bite. But I still get them down, even my teenagers. Proper security training does teach you how to get a violent suspect to the ground without beating them. The question is whether or not they were properly trained to do so and if they followed that training. Also whether or not they followed company policy and whether or not they were properly trained and made aware of company policy. There is a possibility that the physical conflict was unavoidable, but since we don't know the details we really should not be speculating or assuming things.


    Is it really appropriate to bring up issues that are supposed to be, according to moderator posts, settled? Especially since it is from another thread and a different situation?

    Sometimes disengaging can be more dangerous. It could be that they were thinking of the safety of bystanders. If this guy was violent, they have to consider the possibility that he may attack other shoppers. If they did not detain the guy and he attacked other shoppers then we would be arguing that they did not do their job in protecting the other customers. They had to make a quick decision. The choices were ugly either way, they decided to protect the innocent over the violent suspect.

    But then you don't seem to be allowing innocent until proven guilty for the guards.

    They did not KILL him. They were participants in a situation that, unfortunately, led to his death. You are implying that the guards INTENDED to kill the guy. There is no evidence to suggest they INTENDED for the guy to die.


    You may want to rethink your assumptions a little more.
     
  9. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    Am, I? Really, JDawg?
    How about we create a New Thread. And everyone we've ever insulted can come and post the quotes with link to thread and compare whether I "So often insult other posters" and while at it - take a look at your record of doing it. They can post your insults and derogatory comments and mine. Let's compare.

    Wuddya say?
     
  10. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    Bells.
    As previously pointed out by myself and other members: Not enough has been reported or is known. Too much about the circumstances is unknown.
    Your posts strike me as over-reacting, presumptuous and an attempt to incite a flame war. I will not debate you on this topic until More is Known About The Case.

    As it is now- there are very few posts. Now is the time, if there are any questions about behavior- to have that behavior looked at as there is plenty to look at without there being fifteen pages to wade through. I've stated only a personal opinion. I've stated that may change as the facts of the case come out.

    The flamewar ends Now.
     
  11. Bells Staff Member

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    Well according to Neverfly, "that is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks".. when I said: "Considering he passed away later at the hospital, the security staff should come under some scrutiny as to why they did not get him medical help sooner instead of ignoring his medical distress and continuing to restrain him."..

    I was responding to him and his point..

    Then I would suggest you brush up on your reading and comprehension and go back over what I wrote and what I was responding to.

    His comment was that he does not pity the deceased man because to him, he is a criminal. Hence why I said that he obviously does not respect the laws which state that everyone deserves their day in court and also the laws and regulations the security guards are governed by in the manner in which they carry out their duties.

    If you see what you are claiming I said in that, then yes, I do think you need to brush up on your reading and comprehension.

    So you think they had good reason to restrain the man until he died?

    Because what they did was to get physical with him when he resisted their attempts to restrain him and a fight broke out. When the police arrived, he was being restrained by the 3 guards on the ground and in visible medical distress. He died shortly after in hospital.

    Their employer was clear. They are trained and required to disengage immediately if someone is in danger form their actions. They failed to do so and someone is now dead. There is no good reason for their going against policy. I'm sorry, but some clothes and a bottle of shower gel that he was suspected of stealing is not valid reason to restrain someone until they die.

    And recently, we saw an innocent teenager killed because he ran, resisted and then fought back. You may want to rethink that statement.

    Innocent people fight back all the time.

    But you also appear to be disregarding 'innocent until proven guilty'. Neverfly's argument is based on his automatic guilt, when there is no proof that he was guilty.

    Maybe you should ask Mr "I am a Monster" Neverfly what he thinks of that?

    Since he seems to believe that "this is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks".

    I see..

    Maybe you didn't check well enough.

    Again, you might want to tell that to Neverfly after he compared a suspected shoplifter to a rapist and a cannibal.

    Interesting.

    So how do you think they restrained him to the ground?


    The family was told by the hospital that Picazo had bumps and scrapes on his face as well as some bruising, Picazo's brother, Frank Picazo said.

    [Source]


    Do you think they tickled him to the ground?

    Even Walmart cannot respond as to why their employers had not called the paramedics because it was apparently obvious enough that the man was in distress that when the police arrived, they called for the paramedics.

    Wal-Mart Stores spokeswoman Dianna Gee says the security personnel have been suspended pending the outcome of an investigation that will include surveillance video and an autopsy to determine the cause of death. It is not clear why security did not call paramedics.

    [source]

    That's what you got from my comment to Neverfly?

    Since you went out so far, do you feel sympathy for a man who is restrained by trained security guards who ignore his obvious medical distress and that man later dies in hospital because he is suspected of shoplifting?

    Or do you believe as Neverfly does, and thing "that is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks"?

    And yet I do not see you castigating Neverfly for assuming he is guilty of being a 'thief, robber and crook'?

    And you are again reading more into what I have actually written to Neverfly.

    ___________________________________________________________

    Neverfly

    Again, the man is dead and "that is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks"...

    Nope, had you read the thread from the start, you'd have seen that I was pushing for the case to go to trial.

    There is a difference.

    Do you even know what that means?

    He was confronted in the carpark by the security guards. No one has established that he had stolen anything at all.

    But you established his guilt and determined him guilty without any proof whatsoever.

    AS for Zimmerman, refer to above.

    And your own words:

    When even the article states that they suspected him of shoplifting.

    They restrained a man who then went into obvious medical distress and did not call the paramedics - even Walmart are saying it is not clear why they had failed to call the paramedics or disengage as they were trained and required to do...

    That's not what you said?

    You see, your argument in this thread constitutes intellectual dishonesty.

    I'll give you time to figure it out..

    And you do not know that he is guilty, yet you labelled him as a 'thief, robber and crook', compared him to a rapist and a cannibal.

    Do you suffer form short term memory loss?

    Because you seem to forget the things you write on this site and then get angry when you are queried about them.

    What we do know is that he was restrained by security guards who failed to call the paramedics when he went into medical distress and he later died in hospital.

    What we do know is that the security guards disregarded their training and the policies of their employer to disengage when it is clear that someone is at risk.

    Yep.

    And they got into a fight with him, restrained him, he went into medical distress, they ignored that, the police arrived, called the paramedics and he died in hospital a short time later. The hospital advised the family that he had bruises, abrasions and bumps on him..

    So is this "what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks"?

    You know, I have seen security restrain people and yes, they do have to ensure that person's safety and wellbeing. I have seen security guards found guilty of murder after they "restrained" someone and that someone died later on in hospital.

    And yet, you are so sure that the man was guilty, so much so that you likened him to a rapist and a cannibal?

    The family was told by the hospital that Picazo had bumps and scrapes on his face as well as some bruising, Picazo's brother, Frank Picazo said.

    [Source]


    Again, do you think he was tickled to the ground?

    Nope.

    Here is the first statement I made in this thread, to which you responded with "that is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks":

    I understand how some things might be hard for you to comprehend..

    Again, once they would have clearly seen he was in medical distress, their first priority should have been to call the paramedics as per their training and their employer's standard of practice..

    But hey, "that is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks", right?



    So anyone who disagrees with you and questions you on your comments is engaged in a flamewar with you?

    Interesting...

    Over-reacting and presumptuous.. You are the one who compared a man suspected of shoplifting to a rapist and a cannibal.. Then started going on about how you were in combat and the whole "I am a Monster" stuff.. Really Neverfly, get a hold of yourself.
     
  12. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    Are you guys going by something not reported? because what i read didnt even list a cause of death. The article just said when the cops got there the guy apeared to need medical aid and that he died before he reached the hospital. My reading of that suggests not that he was beaten to death but rather that he died of respitory failure or heart failure though that is simply my gut intint nothing more. Now could he have been beaten to death? sure, could the guards be responcible for respitory or cardiac failure? Definitly (the knee in the back of a face down prisioner has killed lots of prisioners including in SA acording to the implications of our lecturer who was also the head of the Ambulance service) but as i said a coronial inquest (or US equivilant) is needed before we will know the full cirumstances, contributing factors and the cause of death.
     
  13. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    Nope. Just you a.t.m., due to the tactics you employed.
    Til more facts come to light, see you around the forum.
     
  14. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    Yeah we're all, self included, putting the cart before the horse.
    I kinda think the thread should take a break until we get more news on it...
     
  15. Bells Staff Member

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    Tactics is what you call questioning your comparing a suspected shoplifter to a rapist and a cannibal?

    Righteo...
     
  16. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    No.
    It's what I refer to misrepresenting what I've actually said. I posted those occasions clearly in post number 44.
    Since, keeping "this event" to FEW posts is best, this will be my last response on this. Post number 53. Offhand, I'll guess it started around post 35. I'm not sure. In that area. Would have to flip back one page and look.
    This doesn't mean I won't pop into the thread and post opinions or updates or whatever, just not going to do the Angry Fight thing again. It's just plain Unnecessary.
     
  17. seagypsy Banned Banned

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    So not agreeing with someone is justification for insinuating something that there has been no evidence of? To clear for the record, Do you believe the guards INTENDED to kill the suspect?


    I will redirect you to this statement shortly.

    Are you saying that we should pity criminals? Maybe assuming the guy was a criminal is jumping to conclusions, but he was stating his opinion of criminals. The article is written in such a way to suggest he was a criminal. Not saying it was right or that Neverfly was right, but he interpreted things differently than you did. You seem to have interpreted that the guards intentionally withheld medical care from the suspect. Is your assumption any more right than Neverfly's. They are both assumptions and have caused you both to jump to conclusions. Neverfly has at least stated that if circumstances are revealed to suggest the contrary then his views will change. But I don't see how he can be faulted for holding a general lack of pity for criminals.

    How does a lack of pity for criminals indicate a disrespect for the law? You do not have to have pity for someone to believe in justice. I have defended people I don't like many times. My son got the crap beat out of him for calling a bunch of girls on the playground lesbians. I did not have pity for him but I still cleaned his wounds. And after addressing his wounds I made him apologize to the girls and told him I hope he learned his lesson. You simply cannot do stupid things and expect to not get hurt.

    yeah this still makes me laugh, I will explain why shortly.


    No, I don't. And they didn't. He was alive when the police arrived and he died in the hospital.

    Yes and according to the article, the police arrived at the same time that they successfully restrained him. It didn't say that they had him restrained and an hour later the police arrived. It says the police arrived just as they got him restrained. You are distorting the reported facts of the case.

    No good reason that you can think of. I can think of a few possibilities and have stated them. But it is all still speculation and more FACTS are needed.

    Again, they didn't restrain him til he died. He died in the hospital, not on the scene. Continuing to misstate the facts will not make your distortion true.




    I am not familiar with the details of that case. I prefer to look at one case at a time. The events of the martin case have nothing to do with the case in the OP.

    You are right, but there seems to be evidence of guilt. I'm not saying its solid and I am not saying Neverfly is right to assume guilt if in fact he is. But you are as wrong as he is by insinuating that the guards intended to deny the guy medical attention. I don't blame you, the reporter wrote in such a way to incite these feelings in people. If readers do not get emotionally involved in a case they don't continue read follow up stories. But as educated people we shouldn't allow ourselves to be suckered into over reacting and needless outrage when we don't know the facts.


    Injury and/or death at the hands of those in authority is a common end to many thieves, robbers, and crook's lives. I think it is reasonable summation. Why would so many fairy tales end with the villain meeting a violent end if it were not a common end. Fairy tales being a tool to teach wisdom to children for a very long time. I recall police officers coming to our schools and reinforcing the idea to us even.

    The same way I have seen most suspects restrained. I have seen it done many many times, having for a long time lived in a very depressed neighborhood watching my neighbors get arrested for various stupid acts of their own, some resisting, and none being beaten.

    I am not saying the guards were right or wrong. I am only saying there is a possibility that their actions were justified. It is as likely that they were justified as it is that they were not justified. I am reserving judgement considering there is very little information available at this time.

    By the way, you quoted me. What you quoted was ME SUPPORTING YOUR ARGUMENT. Maybe you need to brush up on your reading and comprehension skills. Stop assuming that because I disagree with you on one thing that I automatically disagree with you on EVERYTHING.

    Bumps and scrapes are not indicative of a fatal beating. I have been beaten many times and have pictures of the bruise scrapes and blood to prove it, but look, I'm still alive. Considering how many living assault victims there are, it would seem to me that it would take quite an extreme beating to kill the guy. Even Reginald Denny and Rodney King survived far worse than what this guy was likely to have gone through.
    I end up with scrapes, bumps, and bruising when I wrestle with my kids, but they are not beating me. You are really stretching the facts.


    Absolutely not, but I don't think they beat him either.


    They can't respond because they don't know. They are being responsible in the sense that it is irresponsible to promote assumptions and publicly speculate. If they respond without knowing the facts they can be held liable for the remarks they make. They are covering their asses. Kinda like when you are involved in an accident, the insurance company will tell you to never admit fault or they will not pay your claim.

    Am I required to judge people the way you do?

    yes but the situation you are describing is not the situation in the OP.

    I do believe that crooks thieves and robbers often meet a tragic end. And no I do not feel sympathy for them. I would feel sympathy for the character you are creating. I do not believe the person you are defending fits the description of the man in the OP. I do not have a judgement on the dead man in the OP.


    Actually I castigated everyone for jumping to conclusions. I did not address him by name, would you like me to? Does that matter to you? Are you in a competition?

    @Neverfly- stop assuming the suspect was guilty of shoplifting

    Feel better, Bells?



    No actually I have told you how your words come across and asked you to confirm if it is what you meant. I asked for clarification.

    The rest your post is directed at Neverfly who has stated at this point that he "will not participate in your flame war". And at this point I have to agree with him. You seem too emotionally charged to objectively discuss the OP.
     
  18. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    Ok.

    Interestingly, the article Bells posted seems to very much hint and nudge the reader to thinking that shoplifting is a trumped up charge...
    Look at this:
    And this...
    It's almost as if one article displays him as a shoplifter and the other article that Bells linked to puts a definite spin that it's very questionable that he'd steal. What's with that?
    Yes, PLEASE. The longer it goes on, the worse and more confusing it gets.
     
  19. Balerion Banned Banned

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    What's funny about Seagypsys's moaning is that Neverfly is the one who starts these flamewars and does the most damage in them. He also complains about them the most, so I guess he's managed to rope at least one person into his pity party, but the fact is that he's the worst offender. I'm not Bells' biggest fan, but she's done nothing wrong here. All this handwringing by Neverfly is just for show. It's trolling.
     
  20. Neverfly Banned Banned

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    Actually, your bait isn't going to work, JDawg. Any reader can see, read and follow, how controversy started.

    Now, please stay on topic.
     
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    Yes, that's right, any reader can see how the controversy started.

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  22. Bells Staff Member

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    Can you please show me where, exactly, did I say that they had intended to kill the suspect?

    At no time did I make such a claim.

    Do I believe they intended to kill him? No.

    He was stating that because he was a criminal, according to him, he deserved no pity, in fact, he went so far as to say that "that is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks". I begged to differ. I am allowed to have different opinion to Neverfly. Neverfly seems to believe that it was somehow acceptable (if his manner of arguing in this thread is any indication) because to him, "that is what happens to thieves, robbers and crooks".

    The article was clear.

    He was suspected of shoplifting.

    How exactly does that suggest he was already a criminal?

    You do realise it is illegal to deny suspects medical care, don't you?

    If I was to take your argument at face value, then the security guards did not have to pity him to call the paramedics. They should have done it because it was the right thing to do, and also because they are trained to disengage as soon as someone is at risk. They had a responsibility as security guards to ensure their suspect was safe as well as restrained. If your appeal to emotion by bringing your son into the equation is to be taken seriously, then even without pity, they were still required to do the right thing regardless of how stupid the suspect had been.

    I shall rephrase it.

    Do you think it was acceptable that they restrained him and ignored his medical distress and failed to call the paramedics (even Walmart advised they had not called the paramedics and did not know why they had not)?

    The quote was:

    "He resisted them and they began fighting. They were able to get him down on the ground and that’s when the Covina police officers arrived.”

    To me that says they got him down on the ground and it was after that that the police arrived. And the 'they began fighting' indicates they also fought back instead of merely restraining him.

    And yet, even their employer disagrees with you and their policies are clear.

    That much of "fact" we do know.

    He was suspected of shoplifting. That is all.

    Each time you leave the store, and if you forgot to pay something, you are suspected of shoplifting. Do you think it would be acceptable that you are instantly assumed to be guilty?

    You are equating the death of a man to a fairy tale?

    Touche..

    As I said in my first post in this thread. The moment he went into medical distress, they should have done the right thing and as their employer and training dictates and disengaged. They failed to do so.

    Wow..

    And I have seen people killed with one blow to the head. No bruising or marks.

    How many bruises you don't have is not indicative that it didn't kill you either.

    As the police advised, they started to fight...

    And yet, they stated their policy was that their security staff are trained to disengage as soon as others and others are at risk..

    So questioning and debating him is judging him?

    I didn't realise he was such a snowflake that no one was allowed to question him or disagree with his assessment...

    Are you saying they did not get into a fight, whereupon they restrained him, he went into medical distress, police arrived and noticed he was in medical distress, called the paramedics where he then died shortly later in hospital?

    The character I am creating? You mean the man suspected of shoplifting?

    That is a character I am creating?

    Righteo..

    Right..

    Who, exactly, do you think you're talking to?

    And I believe I answered them. Multiple times.

    Seagypsy, can you please stop trying to insinuate that I am somehow emotionally compromised?

    I do not know you and you do not know me. So please, cease and desist. You are not only being insulting, but also very rude.

    Thank you.

    If debating Neverfly makes one automatically emotionally charged, then this whole forum would be emotionally charged. I would suggest you stop parroting him and cease and desist with that particular accusation.
     
  23. Bells Staff Member

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    I know.

    It's kind of funny.

    And sweet..

    What makes this whole thread funny is that he starts it all, usually does, and then complains when he gets the responses he deserves.. Responses that question and query his arguments.. But apparently that is flaming in Neverfly's mind.

    I guess we should just nod and back away slowly without making eye contact.

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