I have a friend that met a russian girl over the internet. He is convinced it is not a scam. At any rate he has no money to take. They share daily emails and seem to hit it off pretty good. They have exchanged many pics.

She says she is taking a vacation in a couple weeks. She would like to come to the US and visit him.

Should he say OK? She says she doesnt want any money...What should he do? He would like to see her but doesnt want to be scammed or used or something..

(BTW, I am married this is really a friend and not me :D )

Why not tell your friend to have her stay at a hotel where he lives. Then when she gets in to town he could call the hotel to pick her up and take her out. That way he doesn't have to let on to where he lives and they could have a nice time together. Perhaps when he meets her he will take her back to his home, which I doubt, but that's his life. Aren't there enough women in America for the men that live here already? I wouldn't be trying to get relations with others from another country for there's no way to check out who they really are or if they are married already.

Hotel for sure. Ill ask if hes doing that i hope so. As for enough women, i know what you mean. but she is pretty hot ive seen pics.

I have a friend that met a russian girl over the internet. He is convinced it is not a scam. At any rate he has no money to take. They share daily emails and seem to hit it off pretty good. They have exchanged many pics.


More detail. Tell us how long they have corresponed. What they have in common. Why your friend has interest in a long distance woman instead woman in his geo area, your friends dating history (ie is he desperate or dates a lot or inbetween?), your friends reasons for meeting her, her reasons for meeting him, has she ever left Russia before to meet a man overseas, what was the medium of exchange ( yahoo instant messenger virtual dating site, russian virtual dating site, chat room {which may show common interest}) ect ect.

The skeptics view

Too many unknowns to think this is a good idea.

Here's something to consider: Depending on how much information your friend has given to this mystery woman, he could be responsible for her entry i.e. *mystery woman to immigration official* 'I'm here visiting family friend, his name is_______ his birthday is _______, he lives _______, he works ______, we best friends from old country, he take care of me while visiting...'

Just a thought..... :confused:

Go for it, if she is not asking for money, she could be sincere. What could she do? I like that russian accent. Russian men are pigs, and they don't have to pay any child support, if I were a russian girl, I'd be looking on the internet, too.

I have a friend that met a russian girl over the internet. He is convinced it is not a scam. At any rate he has no money to take. They share daily emails and seem to hit it off pretty good. They have exchanged many pics.

She says she is taking a vacation in a couple weeks. She would like to come to the US and visit him.

Should he say OK? She says she doesnt want any money...What should he do? He would like to see her but doesnt want to be scammed or used or something..

(BTW, I am married this is really a friend and not me :D )

ur married, dude how old r u.

go a head and meet this chick ive met about 10 of ppl i found on the net, no probs yet, they are al just the same as online