its pathetic people.

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by EmptyForceOfChi, Nov 3, 2005.

  1. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    seriously i just want to say something quickly here, people hitting on other people on forums and online is pathetic, ive seen it a few times on this forum and its just looks sad to me, could people stop this please, i cant see why theres a need, keep this place for constructive postings, and your social life/time int he real world for relationships and flirting with others. its not even funny and i dont think its very healthy either atall in my opinion.



    peace.
     
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  3. sargentlard Save the whales motherfucker Valued Senior Member

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    disgruntled that no one hit on you yet?
     
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  5. Facial Valued Senior Member

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    Lol. I didn't get hit on either. It's not really my business to begin with.
     
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  7. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    im serious here, maybe your humour is a way to cover up something that hit a nerve, i dont know but im happily married and cannot see the point of online flirting and shit like this,

    so do you guys agree with flirting online and people asking sexual questions and things of this nature or are there actually some people on here who agree with me that its sad?.


    peace.
     
  8. sargentlard Save the whales motherfucker Valued Senior Member

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    You have your answer as to why you find it sad.

    Most here aren't married and, infact, maybe too cynical to even think about getting maried.


    and many here have a sense of humor which isn't apparent right away.

    Gustav has a long past here so you have to understand the sciforum's group dynamics before you start thinking how pathetic people are here.
     
  9. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    i think too much time on the internet is unhealthy and becomming addicted to it, then making friends online, even having relationships online and flirting is a bad idea, people should socialise in real life have relationships in real life, and have friends in real life, i come from a poor background and have made a success out of my life, many friends, lovely wife. good job, im very healthy and athletic, and i base what i say on my experience, if i spent so much time online then i probably wouldent have what i have now, and i think people who have problems in the real world shouldent come online and try to socialise and other stuff, they should concerntrate on the real world,


    im not dissrespecting anyone directly, im just saying my opinion and i think if you look at it logicaly what im saying is right online friendships and socialising/flirting is unhealthy,


    peace
     
  10. sargentlard Save the whales motherfucker Valued Senior Member

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    Opinion is just that, an opinion. Not a factual statement based on concrete foundations....nor right nor wrong, just more or less sensible than others

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    I agree with you....to certain degree. Though 2 years ago I would have been right up there with you shouting "amen".

    too late and tired to go further...i'll get back to you.
     
  11. water the sea Registered Senior Member

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    Why?
     
  12. GodlessEvil God is dead Registered Senior Member

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    If in addictiveness, it could be very unhealthy.
    For one thing if your workplace has no computers, it means you are online in your own time, and if you spend most of it online for socialising and making friends you are going to be in for a shock when you realise these people are influencing your behaviour OFF of the net, because you are not in a real reality, it is a reality of sorts.

    Ok one way to think of the internet forums is a public toilet wall, due to the toilet wall being open to everyone it invites people to write messages/comments, and you may (or someone else) write a comment back, you never meet any of these people because you wouldn't useally be in the same room at the same time.

    A forum is an advanced public toilet wall, main difference being it is not graffitti, and is not useally wiped off by cleaners, although a moderator is a bit like one of those cleaners in a sense.

    True, most toilet walls just have stupid stuff like "I love cock, call me on 555 665876586" you'll probably need some serious anti-virus if you called that up too LOL
    Joke, but seriously it is probably best to keep it as an occasional past time, as too much of anything can be bad for you.
     
  13. water the sea Registered Senior Member

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    Wonderful!
    Sciforums. The advanced toilet wall.
     
  14. GodlessEvil God is dead Registered Senior Member

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    Well it begs the question doesn't it:
    Would you spend all day sitting on a toilet reading the wall?
     
  15. water the sea Registered Senior Member

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    It's often good to be here. I live out in the country, stuck at home studying, and there isn't much I could do. Plus, we had the holidays, so I had more time ...
     
  16. c20H25N3o Shiny Heart of a Shiny Child Registered Senior Member

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    Rubbish. I have made some great friendships on the net with people I am unlikely to ever meet. The net is a great place to find different people that you would never have had the opportunity to share dialogue in real life.
    Besides what you perceive as flirting isn't flirting, its just people messing about and having fun with a situation.
    Dont you think you are perhaps being a little too serious? How is it unhealthy?

    peace

    c20
     
  17. Avatar smoking revolver Valued Senior Member

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    I agree with c20,
    and I have met many people on the net that I later met offline,
    some are my best friends by now.

    Besides I don't see how internet is any different from conversing offline.
     
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  18. invert_nexus Ze do caixao Valued Senior Member

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    Here I sit all broken-hearted.
    Came to shit and only farted.


    As to the topic. I see internet Cassanovas as ludicrously funny people. But, at the same time, I have come to realize that the best friend I've ever had in my life was found online. I didn't come looking, but I found anyway and I'm fine with that. One meets who one meets where one meets them. If you turn away friendship and/or love because it's someone you've found 'online' rather than 'the real world' then you're a fool. Pure and simple.

    Are you a fool, Chi?
     
  19. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    i still stick with my opinion but i respect all of your opinions aswell.



    peace


    why would i be a fool thats harsh isnt it?
     
  20. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    one of the people here cared about me enough to spend god knows how many hours contacting everyone on here that had ANY of my real infomation, gathering it up, then phoning the police from the other side of the world in order to save my life because i was so depressed with my "real" girlfriend that i had swollowed a whole bottle of sleeping pills.

    Tell me which relationship i should have treasured more my cheating partner who couldnt give a stuff about me while she was baning some friend of hers or the person sitting in his computer chair in the US who took an interest?
     
  21. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    but if you have real friends online and relationships that arent physically real, dosent this mean you would spend alot more time online socialising with them, therefore spending less time concerntrating on the real world, life is short on this earth should people really spend most of there time on a computer when they could be experiencing real life, people, nature, places, cultures and other things.



    peace
     
  22. EmptyForceOfChi Banned Banned

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    how much time per week do people here actually spend on the computer, and how much time per week do people spend with there friends, family, parters, i am only ever on the computer when i am resting and recovering from a very intense workout, or hard day at work, or when im researching something, but i dont come online alone, my wife usually sits beside me while i type on this forum, or my friends usually are here with me, so im still socialising in real life,while im online. (my wife is besides me now on the desk drawing up new design sketches for future clothing designs, and im helping her because im good at art myself.


    peace
     
  23. c20H25N3o Shiny Heart of a Shiny Child Registered Senior Member

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    Chi : Why do you state that socialising on the internet isn't part of real life?

    It has become a part of real life hasn't it? How are we worse off?

    thanks

    c20
     

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