"It is because I have been around people like you all my life that I never became a shining star." Are you kidding me???!!!
That is too bad. I don't have the energy to pull them. Sorry. You better see a dentist. Then call me.
hmm did you got all wet and stuff when she expressed a desire to eat your clam? is that why you are suddenly making nice with the jap?
Uh. Aren't you above vulnerable? Isn't "vulnerable" something for the weak, for those to be despised and discarded? But why do people think I have evil intentions or play tricks? My incoherence is only a problem to those who first regard the person, and only then the argument. (Which, by the way, shows that people here do judge by the person, and not by the argument, even though so many like to claim otherwise.) Moreover, my perceived incoherence usually stems from people not understanding my position. I have a talent for making awkward situations -- and it is interesting to see how people and myself respond to them. (I admit that I am a bit addicted to making these awkward situations. :bugeye: ) But they are a wonderful learning ground. Being a theoretical philosopher may be all nice and cool and nifty, but is not worth much, in my perspective. I got sick of theoretical intellectual talk, and decided to see some practice. So what I do is that I deliberately create an awkward situation, with an underlying philosophical or ethical or religious issue, use myself as the address of it (for it is only so that I can take responsibility, using a sock-puppet just isn't the real thing), putting myself to the test to see how I can hold my ground. Anyone can hide behind impersonal, "objective" arguments, that is easy. But my approach has been surprisingly cathartic for me: People, who so vehemently disagree with me, discard me, hate me, they pick off the dirt that has been put on my face over the years, the dirt I was told to be my face. You have no idea how happy I actually am, somewhere there, anew. I understand that my actions here may be distasteful to many, and I am sorry it so. But then again, we all strive to be happy, and if people indulge in their distaste for someone or something, then they are just adding to their suffering. Which isn't a wise thing to do.
No, I'm not kidding you. I know this shit all too well. Nothing ruins a character of a person as much self-absorbed, perfection-assuming "friends" and relatives.
Also, I found the source of my problem, it was a misplacement of value and target. I'm not weighed down by it anymore. You could try to be happy for me.
Pardon, Water, but I've just been accused of flashing my pussy. See, this would have been lots of fun if I didn't feel like shit just now so I'm going to log off and go punch the first thing I see with a penis. This includes every last male on this fucking planet, human or not. FUCK YOU ALL
cotton i must say you have been very rude to my gendy please apologize Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
For which particular rudeness? I'm not averse to apologizing; I just want to know which particular abuse I am apologizing for before I do it.
I would be happy for you if I believed it. Your posts and behaviour deny it. You are forever busy playing the victim to the world and the martyr to ever find the source of your problem. No one can make you feel inferior unless you allow them to. You can't live your life blaming your problems on other people putting you down or never given you a chance because they are perfect. No one is perfect, and those that claim to be are most definitely lying. I have my share of neurosis and issues, and I've never claimed to be perfect... that's your impression of me because of your self-esteem and because you like being the victim. It's much easier that way to blame God and other people for the way your life is going than it is to accept responsibility for your actions and your choices in your life. Trust me, I understand and sympathize with being put down all of your life by everyone you love. But the difference is that you can choose to accept that the flaw is in them, and not in you and get past it. I was poor all of my life, and had multiple step-fathers and step-siblings that all treated me like shit. Instead of believing them about my being stupid and useless and flawed, I got out by joining the military and then using the money to go to nursing school and leave that behind me. I choose not to be a victim. That's the one thing you have to do first, because nothing else will work until you do.
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Daaaaaaaang! Y'all need to chill OUT. I think some of you need to get jobs. What was this thread about anyway??? Anyway, water, I liked the poem about the cat (only civil thing on this thread).
You fucking perfectionist. You give me no credit. If I haven't bettered myself by now, then I never will, right? And this belief of yours "allows" you to be the way you are to me, you feel justified now. "It is alright to go at those you don't like or detest." This is how kind you are.
