Love. Yes or No

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by Sauce, Jun 22, 2005.

  1. Sauce We're Living To Die Registered Senior Member

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    Lately I've been doubting the meaning of love. This could just be because I'm to young to understand the meaning. I do consider that love is not easy, though love is great, along the way u will experience pain. But is it possible for someone to tell another that they love them and truely mean? Sometimes I think love is a part of love, and can happen to anyone. And sometimes I doubt it and think it is just another scam from this world. Wow.. i feel wierd since i never talk like this in real life. But anyway, your thoughts?
     
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  3. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Don't you love your parents? Your grandparents? Love comes in many flavors and sometimes it's nice to express the way you feel to those who you really love or like allot. There's different types of love, your sister or brother, your aunt or uncle or even your best friends. It can't hurt telling people that you love them but never expect others to tell you the same for everyone has their own ways,sometimes, of expressing love back to you.

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  5. Sauce We're Living To Die Registered Senior Member

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    This is very true. Though I was considering love for their wife or husband, girlfriend or boyfriend something of that. I love my family, but uncles and aunts and stuff like that I really dont see them. I love my grandma and grandpa, and am not ashamed to tell my best friend I love him. I was thinking along the lines of loving someone as your wife, or just another girl you will break up with in a month
     
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  7. wesmorris Nerd Overlord - we(s):1 of N Valued Senior Member

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    IMO, love is something like: "a profound appreciation for something or someone, along with a profound feeling of connectedness to that something or someone".

    It's meaning is obviously subjective.
     
  8. Sauce We're Living To Die Registered Senior Member

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    Just out of curiousity, did u look that up?
     
  9. Yamayama Registered Senior Member

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    Yes - I've done it.

    I certainly don't think it's a scam. Plus the word 'scam' implies planning by a conscious entity - did you consider this? (...maybe I'm just being over-analytical - don't mind me if that's the case)

    I think that - to an extent - this is a result of certain customs in society. I don't think it need be as painful as it is.

    Perhaps it would be healthier if people talked more openly about their feelings more often (..I'm just thinking out loud)?

    They're just my initial thoughts (...subject to revision).
     
  10. Sauce We're Living To Die Registered Senior Member

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    Everybody on this site is really smart, i feel like a little 5 yr old talking to adults. Oh well, its good to challenge yourself.... i think?

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  11. cato less hate, more science Registered Senior Member

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    I have always avoided dismantling love, I have dismantled and examined religion and found it to be a bunch of crap. love is something I don't want to destroy by knowing too much about it and how it works.
     
  12. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    The parylasis of anylisis.

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  13. spidergoat pubic diorama Valued Senior Member

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    I agree, Cato, there is love, but love as a cultural value is a scam.
     
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  15. Sauce We're Living To Die Registered Senior Member

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    I'm getting that love is something that happens. If you try 2 force it well... it probably won't happen. But ya, I think like, other then family, friends, all that stuff, I've only loved one girl
     
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  17. ArpusDogma Mere Sinndoor Registered Senior Member

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    its like a force linking atoms between each other benefitting each other. When some bonds break, atoms can be broken or restrenghtened also since its covalency is not specific.
     
  18. Baron Max Registered Senior Member

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    Love is how your dog feels about you ...and humans can't even come close to that! ...although they can lie and SAY that they can. But talk's cheap, ain't it?

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  19. Sauce We're Living To Die Registered Senior Member

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    thats true, no matter how much crap ur dog puts up with you, when u come home, it acts like ur king
     
  20. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    That is why you should give your dog all the love it deserves and do for it what it likes.
     
  21. cato less hate, more science Registered Senior Member

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    here is a penny for your thoughts. *gives him a penny*
    and for my 2 cents, I don't worry about love, if I feel it, then I feel it, if I don't, then I don't.
     
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  23. cato less hate, more science Registered Senior Member

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    yeah, cats are better because they are not so needy. but some people like the needyness of dogs.
     
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