Dude....all you have to do is have CONFIDENCE......women love a confident man. Here is a little pick up line that may seem rediculious but works for me....... Go up to her and say "Excuse me, i couldnt leave this place, let alone go on living my life, without you knowing how beautiful you i think you are"......say it then leave for the door......two things can happen......She can either take it badly and say somthing stupid like "ah, ok"(that means she is not worth it)..... The best she can do is stop you and ask your name......from there you are in like flinn......talking to girls isnt hard once you get over the initial fear.......tell yourself this....I am confident, Be myself, and What have i got to loose? Good LuckPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image! -Guyute
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just go for it dude. dont give her any of the bullshit. just be straight up. tell her you notice her every time you come in and you cant help but feel compelled to tell her that. then before she can make a remark, ask her if she'd like to meet up with you after work or something. if she says she cant, because of reason A. or B. which doesnt involve boyfriend C. or D., borrow her pen, write your name and number down, and tell her if she ever gets some free time or if she just wants someone to talk to, that she can call you. if she calls, she calls. if not...well, don't take it too personally. if she doesnt call within like 2-3 weeks, i'd probably never go back to that store again. or id stalk her.
No, just paint your phone number on your chest, and strip. Start singing; a good voice is a bonus here. And I'm talking EVERYTHING. Everything must come off.
Ways to pick up chicks ... Usually, one of the best methods for picking up girls is to simply wrap your arms around their midsection, pivot on your back foot, and lift with your legs. Lifting with your back could cause serious injury. Another way is to have the girl lock her arms at her sides, with her forearms at a 90° angle. Next, place your handspalms-side up under her elbows and gently lift. If she's standing perfectly rigid, chances are quite good that you'll be able to pick her up. A rather unorthodox means is to simply walk up to her and toss her over one of your shoulders and walk off. You accomplish picking her up but at the added cost of her being miffed with you. I guess the main thing is to just be yourself. There must be tens of ways to pick girls up. Good luck!
miseryhead, Confidence without cockiness is a good strategy. Also, take a look in the mirror before making your move. Are you ugly? If not, look again just to make sure. In the case of being ugly, don't continue with this operation. Just forget it, it will never happen. Ugly people with confidence is just disgusting. However if you are not too bad looking, continue with the next step. Stalking is not necessarily wrong to do. It can be a usefull way to gather critical information about your target. The first thing to consider during a stalking mission is camoflouge. Wear a hat down low on your head. Blend into your surroundings by wearing the same style as every other lemming in the store. Follow your target home. Get to know her hangouts and who her friends are. Get to know everything you can about her without getting too close. Don't approach her at her job. That's a mistake. Chances are she's stressed out about her boss in her ass or all the stupid customers. You want her full attention. You want to make the most of your first encounter. Use the information that you've gathered about her personality to pick the most appropriate place to confront her, in the most appropriate manner possible.
Perhaps if she's attracted to this guy, him randomly asking her out at work might be a relief for her. Maybe it will make her day and she'll call him as soon as she gets home! Or not...
casually place a print out of this thread with your number written on it, on the counter with your money as you're paying.
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Giving her a printout of this thread is not a bad idea actually. You should try this. You have my vote.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
uh, from a girl's point of view, that would not be a good idea. smoking is becoming a real turnoff. i think it's more from the bad breath than the health risks, though.
Test her reaction when you talk to her. If she smiles alot, (meaning more than usual) then she might think your pretty hot to (mind you, I've never laid eyes on you so I don't know) THen just ask her, "hey, would you like to go have lunch with me?" BUt make sure you catch her before her lunch hour. I mean RIGHT before, so your not hanging around waiting for her like some weirdo for two hours. In fact, I'd see her two times. First time: ask her "when do you guys (meaning the employees) get off for lunch" SEcond time: "would you like to go have lunch with me?" Try it.Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
miseryhead before you ask her out make sure she sees you open your wallet and take money from a large wadd of cash when you pay for the item it helps if you do a quick sift through the notes looking for a small one to use as she is waiting do not take the money out of your wallet but dont make any effort to hide it if you dont have enough money to do that then just let it slip that you were bored so you decided to go and buy something means the same thing this will increase your chances drasticly if she thinks you can afford to take her to some realy expensive place for a lunch or dinner she is more inclined to say yes to you asking her out whether she has a boyfriend or not the only reason women dont like being asked about if they have a boyfriend already is because they start dating one before they leave the other this is common behaviour they usualy draw the line from when they start having regular sex with the other guy guys are not supposed to know that by the way so dont go shouting about it to all your female friends they will start to pick holes in you just to get you back which is not that difficult to do so with the average guy ofcourse Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! the other reason is because women often consider another women to be less in social status to be single so often lie about having a BF and if she is worried that you might know some of her friends then you might unwittingly catch her out in her lie with another person aside from all that if you actualy have figured out she is a nice person then asking her out will be an ego boost for her as long as you dont look like your heart has been crushed if she says no you should look for a difference in the way she treats or talks to you from the other customers that will be your best guide! just think about when you were on the other side of the counter keep it as lighthearted as possible/MOST IMPORTANT the moneything is stereotype sarcasim im not giving you any romantic ideas! they are top secret Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! good luck groove on Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
:bugeye: You think so? Why not just ask her if she's into dungeons and dragonsPlease Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Hehn. Giving her this thread would be the stupidest thing you could do. Whatever you do, act confident.