Life, the Universe, and Everything-the Ultimate Free Thoughts Thread

Sounds like a bytchin summer dude, me I'm gonna swim every other day, bike everday, and hangout everday (I'm a fittness freak in the summer.). That and I'm gonna train for next years season (wrestling). Teach a dude martial arts. Watch a movie everday about (Movie freak, summer movies are usual good too). And I'm going to see David Bowie, Moby and Busta Rhymes in Mass.

And Pollux, I don't know anything about friday, I think you are mistaken. Besides I have comedy show.

Since this is free thoughts, on a lighter note: What is your favorite Monty Python Skit.

I really can't deside, I kinda like the homicidal barber but I don't know, anyone else?

 

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The skit in which one of them goes into an office where he pays for an argument, and argues with John Cleese.

 

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Oh another good one is the Double Peaks of Kilimanjaro expedition, the dead parrots good, and the dirty fork.

 

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I'd have to agree with adam on this one. I don't even know what's playing at the criterion and you have your little comedy show so I might wind up going alone or maybe with others....

 

Hi everyone,

I've finally got my hands on Monty Python and the Holy Grail and am looking forward to watching it again. It's been years since I last saw it, so I know it's going to cheer me up.

I've just spent a couple of hours reading this thread. Most of the time I've been shaking my head in frustration because I think I can give some of you advice, as I've 'been-there-done-that' in a lot of situations. I've also had experiences shared with me, so I've gathered a little bit of knowledge.

I remember what it's like when you're in your early teens; how you learn a bit more in your twenties; how you wish you knew what you know in your thirties what you didn't know in your teens; and how many different changes in the way you look at relationships when you start your forties.

I can look back and tell you honestly, from a female perspective, what's possibly going on in the heads of the loved ones you are all hoping to get to know and love you. I won't give you any bullshit, but I would ask you to be very honest with me. If any of you want genuine answers to questions I'm offering to give my opinion and try to help - privately - by means of private messaging.

Cactus, I've been where you are at now psychologically, and would love to try to get you through this part of your life.

I wish you all would put your ages in your profiles - if you end up writing to me I'll explain why it's important. I have a little bit of wisdom because I'm older, I'm a thinker and I observe people and what makes them tick. Most of all, I've had enough relationships to know what I want, but that's only been obtained through experience.

So that's it. If you would like an honest, objective answer to a question of what's going on in the mind of the one you love, then I'm willing to share what I know with you. My opinions will only be my own perspective, but I can assure you I'll tell the truth.

So, write me if you like. I'm happy to listen. Everyone has an opinion and I'm willing to contemplate your problems. No bullshit. Okay?

That's all I have to say.
Teri.

 

At the moment I'm girlfriend-less and I have my eyes on a few ladies, I'm not sure that I need the advice but one of them seems to be right where she should be in terms of in-my-leagueness. I guess I just don't have the real urge to ask her, I'm actually really okay now that the focus has shifted to Cactus. Plus I only have a few weeks of school left so it doesn't seem too likely that I'm going to do anything.

So here's my question. This new girl who I have my eyes on, who does seem to like me, who is very smart, and very pretty, has one single flaw: she is one of the best friends of the girl I talked about throughout this thread before (who I'm still good friends with), and I'm worried that she might say something negative. Is it worth the risk to ask this girl if I'm really not eager for a [first] girlfriend in the first place? Welcome back, Teri 2.

Cactus we talk about Memorial Day weekend in spanish heheeh.

 

I think I'll be eating demon pizza every day this summer.

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Demon pizza is evil, Lesion!

Favorite Monty Python skit - the one with the monks that hit themselves? I forget which it is called.

Polly, why bother finding a girlfriend anyway? Being 'involved' sucks....

*Shrugs*

I don't understand men! Never will.

*Wanders away to mope*

 

In high school you need all the women skills you can get to prepare for college. You should go for it. You need to learn from your experience. It is stupid to look the one while you are in high school. People will change. In high school you just need someone to have a good time with.

Risk?

Remember you always miss all your chances that you don't take.

 

Some good points there, joeman. But Xev is right too, you're like the good conscience and the bad one telling me what to do in my head (the people there-THEY SPEAK TO ME aaaaaaa!

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). I guess I'll have to decide on my own....

 

Dude just date her. No commitment. What will happen is later you will dump her or she will dump you. If you have never had a girlfriend before, you will mature somewhat after you have one. You mature from new experience. Let me tell you one thing you probably don't know. The most attractive guys are always those who are already taken. If you want to make yourself more attractive to women you need to start dating. You will learn how to handle things like how to deal with hot chick x while you are still involved with girl y. How to deal with their parents. (you will find out they will never like you no matter what you do) What type of girl you like or you don't like. How to handle breaking up and rebound. Where the hell is the damn G spot you have trouble finding. You know that kind of stuff. Dating is actually like a game. A lot of people don't really like playing the dating game but you will find out you don't have a choice but to play. Dating game actually sucks. You might be very lucky to find someone who doesn't want to play game but the probability of that is very small. The sooner you get in the game the better.

 

I gotta give respect to joe here. You have to take EVERY oppurtunity to learn more and, well, get lucky. I find the more women I talk to and be open with the more able I am to talk to them. High school is a prep for university as far as I can see. I've had the honour of being with a few older women (at about grade 12 I stop considering them girls) and they definetly expect something a little extra, or different, I don't know how to explain it. Ahhh, the benefits of looking 19......


"Polly, why bother finding a girlfriend anyway? Being 'involved' sucks....

*Shrugs*

I don't understand men! Never will."

Being 'involved' does not suck if it's with the right person. If you genuinly like a person than being 'involved' can be quite enjoyable. If you don't, then the 'involvement' pays back in sexual acts! A win-win situation! Well....not always.
By the way, more women search for the 'involvement' than men! At LEAST at our age!

 

"I gotta give respect to joe here. You have to take EVERY oppurtunity to learn more and, well, get lucky."

Whatever happened to the honorable institution of 'friends with benefits'?

"By the way, more women search for the 'involvement' than men! At LEAST at our age!"

I've noticed it in men, too. Last boyfriend was like that.

Joe:
" Dating is actually like a game. A lot of people don't really like playing the dating game but you will find out you don't have a choice but to play. "

As a confirmed geek, I never really played. Besides, it's too damned confusing.

 

That is very difficult. From my personal experience, most of the time when someone try to be a "friend" of someone of opposite sex, the person actually has a different agenda. If that happens to you, the person either likes you or try to get close your friend or sibling. Genuine friends are not impossible. I make a few female friends over the internet. People I will never meet in real life

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That happens to everyone, but that doesn't mean you should give up. The dating game is very different for different races/cultures. The Caucasian version is the most difficult to play. People always try to play dumb/innocent in the beginning with very little communication. That make things confusing.

 

Demon pizza may be evil, but aren't we all evil too? And Xev, men don't exactly understand women either, so no big difference.

 

I've got to give it some thought, I never see her alone. Maybe I could invite her along to a movie we're all going to see on friday. Don't know if I even picked the right girl, because another smart, pretty, nice, all around solid lady-friend said hi to me as we passed in the hallway. Damnit, have to think about it (croicky I'm just so popular)...

 

Or maybe she's just a polite person? Ever think of that one?

 

i think you start to understand things best when you stop trying so hard... and if you're not trying to understand for the sake of a bad pourpose. like men want sex too much... and women are way too sneaky and evil.

 

Well, it's been awhile since I've seen this thread. Hmmm...

Have I matured? I'd rather not know.

 

Don't worry Pollux you haven't. I have however, or at least I think you could call it that.