Dave , Cosmic If I am right I no matter which one of us gets to the others side first then I will say " I told you so" too bad if you are right you can't do the same.
Since there is no "other" side I won't be seeing anyone anywhere. How can I ever go anywhere I don't believe exists? If there is freedom of choice then I choose that there isn't anything after we die that we become involved with other and disintegration and finally becoming a atomic structure that will perhaps one day be a part of a new star, planet of other celestial thing.
