Is Abortion Murder?

Discussion in 'Ethics, Morality, & Justice' started by Bowser, Aug 22, 2015.

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I Believe Abortion Is...

  1. Murder

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  2. A Woman's Choice

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    73.5%
  3. A Crude Form of Birth Control

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    17.6%
  4. Unfortunate but Often Necessary

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    52.9%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Bells Staff Member

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    It is not just that you invented it.

    You took it and ran, and then built it up to what it is not and does not exist in the realms of reality. And you are doing it again with the aborted foetus to Disneyland analogy...

    Are you going for shock value here or something?

    Because let me tell you, your pro-abortion stance has shocked us. And I am certain that I speak for all of us, well except tali89.. that there is no need to build on the turducken.

    It says that she has rights over her body throughout her pregnancy.

    Now apply that to a real life scenario and tell me which doctor is going to abort a baby as it is coming out of her during birth, or while she is in labour.

    His comment is based on reality.

    Your taking it and twisting it into a perverted nightmare does not reality make.

    Which begs the question.. Why would you urge your daughter to abort?

    What if she finds out when she is 20 weeks along? Which does happen. Would you still urge her to abort?

    The irony is that you are pro-abortion, literally pro-abortion, and you are upset that someone is pro-choice and believes it is up to the mother to choose and that her personhood remains paramount.

    Did you ever actually take time to read what he actually wrote?

    You know, before your turducken bender?

    At no time did he say it is eligible for "termination" up until it is nearly born. Far from it. His points were quite clear. They existed in the real world, where women were not waiting until week 38 to decide to have an abortion, or waiting until they are in labour to decide they no longer wanted to have a baby. What he said is that while the baby is inutero, it is the mother's business, because it is inside her body and not his. Now, apply real world to this.. I know.. I know this might be tricky for you, but do try.. But in the real world, women aren't in labour and deciding to abort. That decision is usually made well before even coming close to term and doctors do not perform terminations close to a due date. Many links were provided to you back then, from memory, with doctors who actually perform late term abortions explaining this. And yet you still persist in a gross exaggeration and misrepresentation of what he actually said.

    And here we go..

    Your turducken argument.

    Seriously dude? How in the hell can you still be delving into absolute murderous perversion, even after all this time since the last time you went there?

    You took a perfectly normal argument that existed in real life - in that the woman has jurisdiction over her body and her personhood cannot be diminished or ignored and turned it into that. Seek help.

    Yes. How dare we ever expose the repugnance of your proposition of taking a newborn baby, reattaching its umbilical cord and then stuffing it back up her vagina so that she can abort it...

    His policy clearly states, that her personhood and what goes on inside her body is her business and not his or anyone else's. You know, based on reality.

    You took that and turned her into a turkey ready to be stuffed with a chicken.
     
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  3. Bells Staff Member

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    Actually, it clearly does.

    The "dry foot policy" you are obsessed with is about not granting personhood while it exists inside the woman's body because once you do, then it diminishes the woman's personhood. So until it is born, it is not a "person" and while it exists inside the mother, it is in her jurisdiction and it is her business and no one else's within the bounds of reality and that as an American male, he has to trust that she will make the right decision and right choice.. He even said that in the bounds of reality, women don't wait until they are about to give birth to adopt..

    And you took that and turned it into a murderous and perverted scenario that rendered her to the role of a turducken.

    Firstly, it is against this site's rules to change people's names and insult them by way of their names.

    Secondly, you clearly said that if your daughter told you she was pregnant, you would urge her to abort.

    The point is that that isn't advice you should be giving to anyone. That is a decision she has to make, without feeling pressured either way. You might know her intentions regarding motherhood, but you do not know how she would react if she did in fact find herself pregnant. She might very well change and want to keep it. From a personal perspective, as a woman who was not supposed to be able to have children and did not want to have children, the moment my doctor told me I was pregnant and I made her redo the test multiple times "because it is broken, I cannot have children", my opinion on having children changed instantly. Whatever I had said previously about not actually wanting children, and I seriously did not want children, went by way of the Dodo. And it was instant.

    The fact that you see it as your role as her father to urge her to abort is disturbing.

    Yes:

    Pay particular attention to my saying to take her to speak to a doctor for an unbiased and private advice on her options for her reproductive choices.. Note the word choices.. So that she can feel free to discuss it with someone who is not a parent who may or may not judge her or her choices.. Again.. "her choices"..

    That is what I said..

    That does not include or even hint at urging her to abort if she is pregnant.

    There is input, by way of laying out all her choices and telling her she should do what is right for her.

    And then there is urging a young woman that she should abort a child she might actually want to have.

    What if she wants it and you urge her enough to change her mind and she aborts because you urged her to do it? Could you live with yourself for having urged her to do it? As a parent, I couldn't. Ever.

    I have a very open relationship with my sons, and the biggest thing is that their father and I have always been the type of parents to lay out all the options and allow them to make the decision with the knowledge we would support them no matter what. That goes for everything. We give the pro's and con's and let them decide.

    Wow..

    So you'd treat it like assignment or work project that had to be in on time to meet the deadline.....

    And if she said she wants to have it? You would urge her to get rid of it?

    Or would you tell her that whatever she decides to do, you would be there for her regardless?

    And *gasp* let her decide for herself?

    And if she tells you she wants to keep it.. Is that when you start urging her to abort?
     
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  5. Oystein Registered Senior Member

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    Knowledge corresponds to a symbolic representation of excellence. The invisible is rooted in self-righteous facts.
     
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  7. Dr_Toad It's green! Valued Senior Member

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    Wow. I will treasure that as the most precious gabble of empty words I have ever read.

    Your profundity puts me to sleep, dude.
     
  8. Oystein Registered Senior Member

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    Right before you fall asleep just remember that it is a sign of things to come. We must strengthen ourselves and unify others. Imagine a condensing of what could be.
     
  9. Secular Sanity Registered Senior Member

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    I agree. There are plenty of physical or mental conditions where a pregnancy could endanger a woman’s health.

    I’m an atheist. The Catholic Church is not going to influence my position on abortion, but they do allow funeral rites for children whose parents had intended to have them baptized, but who died before baptism. Code of Canon Law, canon 1183 §2

    http://www.intratext.com/IXT/ENG0017/_P4A.HTM

    A developing embryo? That doesn’t really answer my question, though, does it? I didn’t ask about a developing embryo. I asked about a fetus? At 11 weeks, it is no longer an embryo. It is a fetus.

    So, I’ll ask you again.

    Is anyone here against late term abortion or does everyone feel that a woman should be able to have an abortion during any stage of her pregnancy? Zero restrictions, is that how it should be?

    So, from what I gather, no one here feels that abortion is morally tantamount to murder, even late term abortion, is that correct? Is there any time that any of you might consider it murder?
     
  10. iceaura Valued Senior Member

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    All pregnancies damage a woman's health and physical wellbeing, to some degree. They endanger a woman's life.

    That's completely irrelevant.

    False choice - Neither one. And that type of "question" has become a pattern with you - three or four in a row now. A tactic, apparently. One familiar here from a certain faction.

    But let's pretend you are posting in good faith for a sec: That wasn't the issue - this is in your post, the one I was replying to and the matter at hand for your "is anyone here etc" deflection: "“Notwithstanding their claim to be neutral on the moral status of the fetus, liberals cannot defend the right to abortion without implicitly denying that the fetus is a person. For consider: if the Catholic doctrine were correct—if the fetus were morally equivalent to a child— ".

    I merely pointed out, in response to your post, that the Catholic Church harbors behaviors and supposed doctrines completely inconsistent with each other, much as the other slanderers of "liberals" do. They have no such "doctrines" in reality. They do not, for example, treat 12 week developing embryos or fetuses or whatever as morally equivalent to children, in any arena except abortion. And that the entire nasty little muddle of innuendo against "liberals" that follows is bullshit - liberals do not necessarily claim to be morally neutral on the status of "the fetus", liberals can and do sometimes defend the right to abortion without denying that the fetus is a person, everyone - not just "liberals" - denies personhood status to fetuses in many if not most circumstances, and so forth and so on.
     
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  11. billvon Valued Senior Member

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    They can't have babies any more than men can. They are as invested (or not as invested, take your pick) as men are.
     
  12. Truck Captain Stumpy The Right Honourable Reverend Truck Captain Valued Senior Member

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    uhhhhhmmmmmmmm ... gastrointestinal distress?
    you really may have summed it up in a nice tidy package, right there, IMHO!

    if i may interject for a moment: it is actually "political" ...
    IMHO, both parties are equally bad in this respect because neither party is truthful or reliable
    in fact, it is probably the worst part about the whole process: choosing the lesser of evils

    Bells
    WOW!... but, this is also the same man who proclaimed that being gay was a choice because prisons turn people gay, though...
    so, you can see that he is delusional and can't actually comprehend reality around him
    my question is: Who the $%^# told this guy he was a good choice for presidential material?
    a doctor who doesn't understand basic anatomy? reality?
    WTF??!!

    Bowser
    No, you are NOT... you are arguing for just your personal version of life. you don't care one whit about "life", only that your perspective on the subject is considered viable while completely refusing to acknowledge that Women also have the RIGHT to life... and that they should be able to make choices about their bodies, especially when there is a threat to them!
    Your argument is unrealistic and you have brought absolutely no valid reason or argument to establish that any grouping of cellular tissue should be considered more important than any other grouping of cells!
    This is just one of the failures of your argument: that you would arbitrarily destroy life that is equivalent in all respects to the stage development of the fetus (at the stages that are acceptable to abortion per the law), but somehow this is OK for you to do, but not for the woman who wants/needs/asks for an abortion?
    WHY?

    your whole argument for life is blatantly and arbitrarily prejudiced

    i disagree... what it appears like to me is that there are some fundamental religious acolytes preaching about the sanctity of life (all the while refusing to accept the sanctity of life and arbitrarily killing and destroying life that is every bit equivalent to a fetus)
    this is not "disagreement around the topic" so much as it is a means to proselytize about a subject while ignoring any evidence to the contrary, IMHO

    I am with James R on this one...
    plus, you really don't comprehend anything about life, biology, murder or a few other subjects, as demonstrated by your posts and "interpretations" therein
    (like "murder" - you do know there is a specific meaning used when dealing with the law, right?)

    you still have never brought any justification (or even a logical reason) for your arbitrary definition of a viable life, and why you state that only a human fetus can be considered such! You still haven't discussed why you think that the potential of one cell grouping should be considered more important than another!

    I would also like to also see you address James R's questions, which i will re-quote below:
     
  13. Truck Captain Stumpy The Right Honourable Reverend Truck Captain Valued Senior Member

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    tali89
    based upon who's interpretations of the situation? hers? or the urging parties?

    this is the crux of the argument from the others... the Pro-Choice should be left to the person making the choice! there shouldn't be anyone trying to 'urge" anyone else into making a decision based upon their own agenda, arbitrary ideals or situations that have no bearing on said person.

    like Bells said
    it is their decision to live with. i would only offer advice if prompted for it, and i would attempt to not give my advice if possible

    no
    suggest? yes, but only if they are minors (to the condom only - that is just common sense)

    no
    suggest? yes, but only if they are minors
    [edit: i answered this in the above manner because i do not make decisions for my wife. she is an adult, a nurse, and knows her body better than i do. it is her decision and i only offer advice if i am asked unless she truly doesn't realise that there is a problem and it is affecting her. and that is how i see it, period... i even try to be that way with my grandkids as teenagers - they will never learn responsibility and how to make decisions if no one lets them make decisions and holds them responsible for their actions]

    as adults, it is their own prerogative to make decisions, just like it is their responsibility to live with the consequences. I do not have to live with their choices unless they are being supported by me. that is why i say "suggest"... and only to minors!
    to tell the truth, i would completely refuse to discuss it unless they specifically asked for my advice. it is not my business if they are adults. i am not the moral police, nor am i some religious fanatic trying to condemn them for their behaviour. i do not control them... i can only offer education on the subject, or personal opinion which is not truly reflective of their circumstances.

    yes, because children never do what their parents say in an effort to appease them... [hyperbole and satirical]
    parents tend to try to influence children to do what they want or think is best because parents most often think that they have some superior ability to examine the reality around them and make better decisions based upon the information they have ... the problem with that is: they usually do NOT have all the information they need, or should have
     
  14. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    wellwisher:

    That's a very slippery slope you're on. Do you think that there should be some kind of public vote every time a woman wants an abortion, seeing as the taxpayer is somehow involved according to you? Can you see how such a thing would have the effect of removing or reducing a woman's rights over her own body?

    I can't tell exactly what you're arguing for here. It sounds a bit like you're saying that a woman with an unwanted pregnancy should have "little say" in the matter of abortion, and you are suggesting that the father should have the most say. Is that what you're saying?

    Again, it's impossible to know what you're actually talking about here. What exactly is the "liberal arts definition of life"? Please cite that definition and its source.

    Again, it's impossible to know what you're on about. You're not making sense. Are you talking about atheism or atheists? What is it about atheism and abortion that you think is based exclusively on science? And what are you talking about when you say they "do the opposite"? Opposite to what? You're saying that they argue the life began as cells, and then they argue the opposite? Or what?

    Maybe you'd better start thinking before you post.

    Which religion? Where can I find the modern science definition in the bible, for example?

    What deception are you talking about? What atheist spin? Spin about what? What liberal theatre? You're making no sense. Please don't drink and post. You should either explain what you're trying to say, or apologise to everybody for wasting their time.

    What liberal arts spin are you referring to? Who is guilty of the spin? Where can I find examples of the spin online?

    What "unnatural behaviour" are you referring to? What is unnatural about it? How would it fester in the future?

    What is an abortion industry? How does it make money off liberal arts theatre and the like? Please explain.

    What side effects are you referring to? Side effects of what?

    What kind of law suit are you talking about? Who would be suing whom, and for what? How are you making your legal assessment?
     
  15. tali89 Registered Senior Member

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    If they were doing so for their own benefit, rather than that of the woman and her potential child. Even then I'd argue that such behavior would be ethically gray, since the woman can still make up her own mind, persuasion or no.

    Maybe in left-winger lala land, but in the real world 'anti-choice' means actually reducing the number of choices available to a person. Unless you feel that by me attempting to persuade you of my point of view, I'm infringing on your choice to believe what you want? Oh wait, I think I'm starting to understand why liberals are so keen on censorship and constructing echo chambers...

    It's called an analogy. You've admitted that you would urge your adult son to take advantage of certain birth control measures if he decided to be promiscuous, so why on earth wouldn't you do the same for your daughter? Do I detect an undercurrent of misogyny here?

    So you'd urge your husband to go to the doctor in order to prevent harm to him, but you wouldn't urge your daughter to undergo a medical procedure that could help prevent harm to her? I don't think I need to state how hypocritical your outrage towards Capracus is.
     
  16. tali89 Registered Senior Member

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    Having input and opinions from other people does not negate the fact that the individual still has a choice. Better yet, such input allows the individual to make a more informed decision, which I would argue empowers the individual.

    If my daughter was considering giving birth to a child, and she was in a failing relationship/emotionally incapable of raising a child/currently studying/broke, then you bet I would urge her not to continue with the pregnancy. I'd also urge my son to use birth control (or get a vasectomy) if he wanted to have sex with multiple women. I'd urge my partner or parent to undergo a medical procedure that would save their life. I'd urge my friend to go see a therapist if they seemed mentally unwell. As a loved one/friend, I feel it is morally incumbent on myself to explain why it is in their best interests to undertake a certain life choice. Ultimately the decision still rests with them, though.

    Edit: By the way, I find it the height of irony that the right-winger is the one who would attempt to persuade his daughter to terminate an unwanted pregnancy to prevent her decreasing her quality of life, while the left-wingers on this thread are all appalled at the very notion. This is just another example of how liberalism is a pathological cancer of the mind that ruins future generations.
     
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  17. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    Setting out the possible choices that a person might make, and explaining the likely implications and outcomes of the various choices is a neutral position (provided it is done comprehensively and without bias).

    Advising a person to make one choice rather than another choice is an attempt to influence that person. Depending on the value that person places on the advice and the advisor, advising can exert some pressure on the person making the decision.

    Urging a person to make one choice rather than another is stronger than mere advice. To "urge" means to "force or impel in an indicated direction", or to "push for something". Urging means exerting pressure on the decision maker to make the decision that the urger wants, rather than merely giving advice or providing information.

    Clearly, tali89 thinks that it is fine to "urge" a woman to have an abortion - i.e. to forcefully insist that they should decide to have one, or at the very least to push them towards making that decision. In other words, it's fine to pressure a woman into making a decision that may not ultimately be her free choice, but rather a choice made under some sense of coercion. A woman being "urged" in this way may feel like she owes it to the urger (e.g. her father) to make the decision that he wants. She may make the decision out of loyalty to the urger - or a sense of being pressured in other ways - rather than making it as a truly free choice.

    I can't be sure at this point exactly how Capracus is using the term "urge", or whether he is the same kind of extremist that tali89 is. Capracus's posts can't be read in such a way to believe that he is talking about merely providing information. But it could be that he is giving "advice" and not realising that such advice might exert pressure on the advisee. Or, he could be seeking to exert deliberate pressure on his daughter.

    I would suggest that Capracus might not necessarily want to employ tali89 as his go-between regarding this point of contention. tali89 is a poor advocate.
     
  18. tali89 Registered Senior Member

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    • Please do make derogatory comments about groups of people based on stereotypes without providing appropriate evidence.
    Coercion implies threats or duress. Arguing in favor of a particular course of action involves neither of these. Your attempt to use emotionally charged words to misrepresent my point of view is noted though. Furthermore, you've helped answer a question that's always occupied my mind, which is why liberal parents tend to raise degenerates. Now I know why: The failure to provide guidance and life experience. Then again, how much life experience can one have when you are cloistered away in a left-wing echo chamber?
     
  19. James R Just this guy, you know? Staff Member

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    tali89:

    Correct. For example, the implied threat that "I won't love you/trust you/think as well of you if you don't do what I want" or even "I may retreat from you and deny you certain kinds of help or support in future if you don't do what I want".

    Good. Now you're getting it!

    Which words are you objecting to, in particular?

    That sounds a bit like you're stereotyping without evidence, tali89. Please provide appropriate evidence or withdraw your claim.

    A reminder from our site posting guidelines.
     
  20. Bells Staff Member

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    And in a relationship where the person doing the urging has a level of influence on her?

    I would say it goes beyond a gray area and falls smack bang into the pro-abortion camp and falls directly into every single stereotype conservatives have about people who are pro-choice. And it is absolutely appalling that anyone could even do that.

    And you still did not answer the question..

    A father "urging" his daughter to abort a pregnancy she might wish to bring to term is akin to his reducing the number of choices available to her. Depending on what kind of relationship they have, if he has a lot of influence on her, he could effectively be persuading her to do something she does not want to do and she might simply do it because she wants to please her father.

    Do you think this is acceptable? And do you think this still has "choice" involved if she is doing something she might not want to do if she is having to be urged to do it?

    Do you view abortion as being a form of birth control tali89?

    Do you think slipping on a condom or taking the pill is the same as having an abortion?

    Do you advocate abortion as an abortion control method?

    I also said that I would provide my son with all available options and would urge him to pick the one that is best suited to him. You know, provide him with all options and let him decide which is best for him. As for condoms, yes, that goes whether he was promiscuous or not and that is part of his education. I would and do also urge my children to put on their seatbelts and not ride their bikes down the middle of the highway.

    I am such a terrible parent.

    Yes. I would say he should go and speak to a doctor about it in case it is something bad.

    I wouldn't say 'book yourself in for surgery'.

    No, I would not.

    I would urge her to weigh all her options and to pick what felt right to her, I would suggest she speaks to her doctor about it and I would tell her I would support her whatever she decided to do.

    Because I don't think encouraging or urging someone to do something to their bodies which they may not want to do is a good thing? Sure dude, you keep thinking whatever you want.
     
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  21. tali89 Registered Senior Member

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    I'd like you to show me where anyone advocated that. Actually, never mind, I know that you won't be able to, so you'll resort to putting words into my mouth. I'll just pass this off as you introducing yet another irrelevancy.

    It's good that we agree that urging someone to do something doesn't necessarily involve coercion or duress. So why were you claiming otherwise previously?

    So you managed to respond to my post and agree with my definition of coercion, and yet not know I was protesting your use of that word to describe my position. That's some impressive selective reading you have there.

    James, your harassment of me is wearing a bit thin. I spared your ego in the Sexual Harassment thread (a thread you hijacked to vent your political bias) by allowing you to have the last word. You more than readily took that privilege (twice!), and saw fit to engage in a number of vicious personal attacks and stereotyping of right-wingers. Now you've followed me to this thread in a further attempt to browbeat me. At this point your obsession has gone from being flattering to annoying. I know that I have a low opinion of your backwards political ideology, but there is no need to take the words of some stranger on a forum so personally. I'd suggest you take a break from the forums for a while, so that you can ground yourself and gather some perspective. Stop spending so much time in these echo-chambers, its not doing you much good.
     
  22. Daecon Kiwi fruit Valued Senior Member

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    Your harassment of "liberals" wore a bit thin about 187 posts ago.
     
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  23. tali89 Registered Senior Member

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    You mean people take the opinion of a loved one more seriously? Ye gods, the horror!

    You're being disingenuous. I said that in some select circumstances, I'd urge my daughter to have an abortion. That's a far cry from the emotion charged 'pro-abortion' label.

    How? He's not strapping her down on the abortion table. He's not holding a gun to her head. Simply arguing for an abortion in a convincing manner does not impede on a person's free will, nor does it reduce the number of choices available to them.

    Strictly speaking, birth control is the prevention of conception, rather than the termination of an embryo. I do think that abortion, if performed early enough in pregnancy, is an acceptable means of preventing unwanted births if contraception fails. Interestingly, this means my beliefs in this area are similar to that of liberals, except that they argue from emotion instead of fact.

    Exactly the same? No. Similar in that they involve a person's body, and affect a person's reproductive cycle? Yes. Condoms reduce sensation, pills can have side effects, and abortion is a surgical procedure. Why you think it is unethical to urge people to undergo the 3rd option, and only the 3rd option, makes no sense to me.
     

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