The-five-date-rule.

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  1. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Have you heard of it? It's common among guys from other countries living in Sweden. Since they don't generally want to marry or settle down with a Swedish woman, since according to their cultural beliefs all Swedish women are whores, but they still want to have sex with them, so they have invented the five-date-rule. Which basically is that you can have sex with a Swedish woman five times, then you must break up and move on to the next, otherwise it gets too serious and she might get ideas about a relationship, or even worse, you might develop genuine feelings of love yourself.

    I don't have anything against this per se, but if that's the system they are following the women they are dating should be informed at the first date, that this is the deal, don't you think? Or perhaps the breaking of hearts gives extra points.

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  3. spidergoat pubic diorama Valued Senior Member

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    So you can only date a Swedish woman for one hour?
     
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  5. Chopsocky Registered Member

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    That should probably tell you more about the types of men that are following that rule than anything else.
     
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  7. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Is that your maximum time limit for sexual intercourse?

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    I think the rule applies to the number of dates, not the actual number of times you have sex, but there could be local variations.
     
  8. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Yes, dirty, selfcentered jerks, but hey, we all have our preferences.

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  9. Chopsocky Registered Member

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    Well if that's what you want to call them...I was thinking more along the lines of "afraid of commitment".

    I'm a bloke by the way! Personally, I think people should be free to do whatever they want with whoever they want, and it's a shame that there are people who choose to apply labels to others in such a way as to appear moralistic. This "five date rule" is an example really, as you say there are men who think all Swedish women are sluts and apply this rule to give themselves the moral high ground in their own mind.

    Meh, I say see who you want and screw the "rules" and games and stuff!

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  10. adoucette Caca Occurs Valued Senior Member

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    Simple solution, don't sleep with them till at least the 6th date and those kind of losers will have already moved on.

    Any man who won't wait that long is more into your anatomy than they are into you.

    Even when you start working at a new company you have to wait at least 30 days for your benefits to start.

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  11. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    Spidey ,,Spidey What is up with that pic. You got Me Mythra eyes going there bub. It is kind of freaking Me .
     
  12. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    No spidey does it five times in an hour . The first time is for about 30 seconds and then they start to taper off dramatically after that
     
  13. Hesperado Don't immanentize the eschaton Registered Senior Member

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    In Islamic culture, there is the phenomenon of the "temporary marriage" -- basically, under its various forms, a man can contract a "marriage" for as short as a few days, a few hours, or even 15 minutes.

    In Shia Islam, it's called Sigheh. In Sunni Islam, it's called Muta "marriage". Sunni men also have recourse to the Urfi "marriage" which apparently requires a signed document, but the annulment can be made by simply burning the paper. Also, there is the Misyar "marriage" (or "traveler's marrage") where men while traveling get "married" for any length of time they want for a little "nikah-nikah".

    I.e., Islamic culture and law institutionalizes and sanctifies prostitution. And, knowing the Islamic track record for their shabby treatment of women, it's likely the women get the short end of the stick, so to speak.
     
  14. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    A lot of the girls I have dated jump the bones the first night . Then we might go on a date if the relationship lasts . I don't know . Me thinks it has something to do with the way I talk an blush at the same time . Sexual arousal seems to happen . I remember one time this girl keep flipping Me the bird . I though , what the fuck . Why she flipping Me the bird , I never did anything to her . Well it turned out she was just trying to signal Me she wanted to fuck . One nighter . I passed . It was so tempting as she was so fucking hot ! Hot1 Hot ! sizzle . It would have been good I am sure
     
  15. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Thank you for the information Hesperado. Some people use religion to justify anything it seems.
     
  16. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Hahaha, that was funny.

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  17. Mr MacGillivray Banned Banned

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    I guess my answer totally depends on whether Swedish women are commonly whores or not.
     
  18. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    Well, that can be debatable, but first you must define "whore", "Swedish" and "women" and "commonly".
     
  19. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Vlech. Fuck that. I'd rather enjoy the sex THEN move on.
     
  20. Chopsocky Registered Member

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    Come to think of it, The Five Date Rule sounds like a rubbish romcom film, possibly starring Vince Vaughan.
     
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  22. Anti-Flag Pun intended Registered Senior Member

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    Never heard of it. But there will always be people that do stupid shit like that. Like the "two state rule". I'm pretty sure they could find plenty of women happy to engage in sex without commitment. If only people could grow up enough to be honest about what they seek then we wouldn't need to invent such nonsense and could save so much time and feelings. :shrug:
     
  23. scheherazade Northern Horse Whisperer Valued Senior Member

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    Hmmmmm.........no comment.

     

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