Do beautiful women only care about handsome looks and money?

Discussion in 'Free Thoughts' started by pluto2, Apr 30, 2011.

  1. pluto2 Banned Valued Senior Member

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    I have never been able to attract beautiful/hot-looking ladies. Beautiful women never even approach or talk to me. I believe it is because of my looks.

    So I always wonder: Do beautiful women only care about men who look handsome and have a lot of money?
     
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  3. Asguard Kiss my dark side Valued Senior Member

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    Do you?
     
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  5. WillNever Valued Senior Member

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    Usually, yes. It's called the "matching hypothesis." It states that people often seek partners who are similar to them in attractiveness.

    For that reason, ugly people find ugly partners and beautiful people find beautiful partners.
     
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  7. Bebelina kospla.com Valued Senior Member

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    I don't see what money has to do with looks, but yes, as a beautiful woman myself, I am usually only attracted to beautiful and hot looking men.

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  8. cosmictraveler Be kind to yourself always. Valued Senior Member

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    Unfortunately in many societies today it is true that women only want the top of the heap when they can get them. That is why many never marry but become high priced call girls to get the money they want from very exclusive clients who usually are well off and also have good looks, not in all cases but many. They will also just find well paying jobs themselves and not even need a husband but just date around with attractive men who will wine and dine them. That's life not much you can do about it except become wealthy and then you'll attract many hotties to you.
     
  9. Lori_7 Go to church? I am the church! Registered Senior Member

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    Shallow and superficial isn't beautiful is it? This OP is ironic.
     
  10. Lori_7 Go to church? I am the church! Registered Senior Member

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    Why aren't you handsome and why don't you have money?

    Unless the woman is relationship challenged, she'll be attracted to a confident capable man. Are you that man?
     
  11. tablariddim forexU2 Valued Senior Member

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    I think that beautiful women are attracted to Personality, Money, Looks...in that order.
     
  12. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    No , money sometimes can be debatable . Lots of people sell out and that is not gender oriented. In fact I will tell you a little secret buddy . A lot of beautiful women are as shy as get out . Yeah Way!! Some won't even face that they are beautiful . When they hear you say it they think you are just trying to get in there pants . My advice is to get to know someone as your friend and think of women as people first instead of your ornament. Yeah beautiful women will like you and that my friend = like mindedness and that my friend is what love is really about
     
  13. NMSquirrel OCD ADHD THC IMO UR12 Valued Senior Member

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    you can be confident and capable and ugly..
    i have known many an ugly man who were perfectly good man sluts..
    they had many hot girlfriends, but none last past the next(and alcohol was involved)..

    i think money and looks only count when they want to marry you..
     
  14. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    Hi Mom , good advice there , you the one . You got a birthday coming up . Little misses 44. That is the number of a smoking gun you know
     
  15. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    I heard a rumor you were beautiful, and a singer no doubt . Do I believe rumors ? Sometimes . They need verification , but only if the inclination is aroused to do so. You seem to have a "usually" in your statement I wanted to highlight that for the dirt ugly snaggle toothed hill billies out there that have no other dream besides getting buried in a mine shaft . Thanx my dear your a peach!
    Kisses
     
  16. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    You don't know George Caradainus do you. Funny thing ! He is a big Casino owner in Reno . Don't send any Goons GOerge . One of the many people I happen to know Will. Stumpy husky round headed Greek guy that made a fortune in real estate development , casino ownership , Apartments and town houses . He is a womanizer . His wife was the most beautiful woman you can lay eyes on . Devoted like you have never seen . He liked playing with other women though. When ever he would get cornered he would slip his way out by adamant denial and it worked for decaded. My dad asked him one time about him getting attached to one of his conquest . He said never Happen and it didn't until It did . It was a Pit Boss at one of his casinos. She ratted Him off . He got caught red handed and the Pit boss is busy playing with other guys . The point is ugly can look good if it is the right ugly .

    Don't do it George
     
  17. SciWriter Valued Senior Member

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    Me-Ki-Gal is hot, Bebelina. He even got money out of a prostitute!
     
  18. WillNever Valued Senior Member

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    Exceptions do not invalidate the rule. That is why they are called "exceptions." You should look up the matching hypothesis, studied primarily by social psychologists.
     
  19. tablariddim forexU2 Valued Senior Member

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    The most beautiful women I've seen are always with just plain ugly men.
     
  20. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Only time I have ever seen that is if the ugly man has money or power
     
  21. Datura surrender to nothing Registered Senior Member

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    Why is the conclusion being drawn that you don't get approached or spoken to by women due to your looks being substandard? And furthermore, why throw money into the reason behind these alleged instances of being overlooked?
     
  22. Orleander OH JOY!!!! Valued Senior Member

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    Because it easier to think you are being rejected because they are gold diggers, and not because of your own personality
     
  23. Me-Ki-Gal Banned Banned

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    Don't be filling her mind with rumors Sci. I am old and wrinkly from being sun beaten and I can't do a thing with my curly big hair. Shit that girl at walmart while my oil was getting change asked were that guy with the big hair went . I poked my head out and said Me and my big hair are right here . She turned 3 shades of red and said " My boy friend has big hair"
    What am I to do , My vanity.
     

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