Date me please

Discussion in 'About the Members' started by sniffy, Nov 16, 2009.

  1. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    I remember that.
     
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  3. sniffy Banned Banned

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    Hey we're not all rabid you know...it was just that mad fox that upped and bit me as I tried to free it! The ingrate!
     
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  5. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    I said 'largely similar', not 'the same'.
    And the rabid animal rights activist comment is not appreciated.

    Whose shoes? I can't put myself into the shoes of a hypothetical person..

    I did not.
     
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  7. Dywyddyr Penguinaciously duckalicious. Valued Senior Member

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    Hmm, explain this thread then, and the argument between Buffalo Roam and myself.

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  8. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    Are you saying that peoples minds do not work in similar ways?
     
  9. Dywyddyr Penguinaciously duckalicious. Valued Senior Member

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    I'm saying they do (to an extent) but that YOUR view isn't the way they work.
    And in fact your belief that you don't identify with your beliefs is one that you certainly DO identify with yourself.
     
  10. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    I never said I was perfect, did I? Quite the contrary actually.

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  11. one_raven God is a Chinese Whisper Valued Senior Member

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    They are stupid...

    They are ignorant...

    It is easy.
     
  12. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    So I'm deluded that way.. ?

    If that's true there is no way for me to know that.
     
  13. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    I see..
    I object to the stupid part though. I never called them stupid, just not that intelligent in that particular way. Intelligence has a lot of different aspects. A bigot may have superior intelligence in other areas.
     
  14. Dywyddyr Penguinaciously duckalicious. Valued Senior Member

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    Yup.
    But a professional wouldn't word it quite as strongly as that.
    Or with the negative connotations.
    We ALL have false beliefs about ourselves.

    Not until/ unless you find yourself sat talking to a guy whose job it is to uncover these things and lead you up to the realisation, one step at a time.
    Being told outright gives you the opportunity to say "Nah, you must be wrong".

    I know...

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  15. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    I'm not saying you are wrong, just that I cannot see that by myself.
     
  16. sniffy Banned Banned

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    Nobody (no thing!) is perfect. My issue is that it is illogical to say another is racist for prefering one sort of people and then to go on to say that one prefers one sort of people but that isn't racist.

    This is not a conversation about perfection but it may be about a human tendancy towards 'perfectionism' to a certain extent. This might be an issue of control in a world, or universe even, in which there doesn't appear any...
     
  17. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    There really is no difference between saying "I prefer black people" and "I prefer white people" in that context, so that person must have had a double standard.
     
  18. Dywyddyr Penguinaciously duckalicious. Valued Senior Member

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    Told you.

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    Um, motes/ beams/ eyes? Maybe.
     
  19. Dywyddyr Penguinaciously duckalicious. Valued Senior Member

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    Doesn't everyone have double standards (to an extent - [Ooh I like that phrase!])?
    I can get away with X because I know my reasons for doing it, and, on this occasion, they are sufficient excuse.
    You shouldn't do it at all because I don't know what your reasons are. And it doesn't matter how much you try to justify it, what you're doing is wrong.

    Simple.

    Edit: another "help" for double standards is that my reasons are known to me before I do it. Your reasons are known (to me) only, if at all, after the event, so it comes across as attempts at justification rather than valid reasons.
     
  20. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    Probably true, but I wasn't making a point

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  21. Enmos Valued Senior Member

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    You did

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    But I can't utilize it.
     
  22. sniffy Banned Banned

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    Funny how often you see that though isn't it?

    So...

    A black person who hates white people is a racist.
    A white person who hates white people is a racist.
    A white person who hates black people is just expressing a preference.

    I've used the word 'hates' here emotively of course.

    That's how it works. I've seen it over and over again.....
     
  23. ThinkingMansCrumpet Registered Member

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    'ello Sniff, I don't care whether you approve of my background, ethnicity or sexual preference. I don't mind if you approve of me or not.
    I do hope you realise that I haven't read ten pages of ( probable tripe) repartee ( oh for an accent) and as such, I will assume that I can sway you to my side of the bed with a simple proposition:...I'll slurp you sideways, threeways and always. I'll press your buttons,..nay,..suck your buttons ( button) and then I'll pay out your credit card, buy you a ring, a pair of shoes, shit, I'll buy you ten pairs of shoes (hang the expense) and then you'll owe me. At least a date. hat da yer say? Friday nights are good, I've got a bottle or two of South Australian Red and a penchant for adventure. Fuck the preytenders. Fuck me instead. I'm much more interesting.
     

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