I didn't think there was a wrong way to be socially isolated and depressed, but apparently there is. Leave it to me to even screw that up.
iuno wut is is then. seems u got the personality. maybe you arent attractive. even if you aren't, just be confident. Girls like a guy that can hold themselves up high. TRY TO GET HER DRUNK. are your girls very religious? theres one hella hot girl i know but is extremely religious and follows strict rules. all she wanted to do was hang out and tag along but i'm like PEACE. find more girls eventually you'll land one.
Well there's paying for it, but why do that when there's so many slutty broads out there? Just gotta look in the right places, hell they tend to come along on their own anyways. Which is why I don't understand this guys trouble getting laid, most people can do it without even trying. :shrug:
Well, we're out there. Christ, I couldn't get lucky if I were in a women's prison with a handful of pardons. Other than the fact that I've gotten lucky a couple of times, the film The Forty Year Old Virgin is pretty near my life story. Be glad it is so easy for you, because not everyone is so fortunate. I roll my eyes at the difficulties people have with fixing their computers, but I have to remind myself that just because it's effortless for me, doesn't mean that it's easy for everyone.
If all you want is to get laid then I will advise 3 simple things: 1. Lower your standards. 2. Find a slut. 3. If the above still isn't helping, then pay for it. Now admittedly you might not want to be getting laid by people who fit into the above, but don't confuse that with difficulty getting laid, it's still pretty easy. Now if you're talking about getting laid by someone who's actually hot, or getting romantically involved with someone you actually like then that's a whole other ballgame, and I understand exactly how difficult that one is. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
Women are attracted to confidence and strength in good-acting guys more than when those qualities belong to assholes.
There should be no excuse to not be a nice person. You are insane. What is wrong with emotions? Maybe things never worked out for you because you can't ever feel anything. And while you are caring about a woman on top of your dick, the girl is concerned about so much more than that. I am nothing like your post. Nothing at all. I share my feelings just so the other person can relate to me, make them feel more comfortable. My intentions aren't selfish whatsoever. Not everyone is filled with ulterior motives... And for the most part, I think guys are the one's to blame. They never know what they want because they want it all. If you were a nice guy, you wouldn't be so damn worried about getting laid, idiot. Fuck games. You are completely wrong.
Well having returned to this thread I can see there is no conclusive answer wtf I am, hahaha I'm niether NICE nor BAD, christ.
Eventually, a guy and female want to get laid, its natural human nature. But really though some females are really misleading and messed up. DarksidzZ was gettting emotional with these girls and obviously did it right since the girls didnt want him to leave. The females liked his attention because he payed so much to it like most guys dont. Yet, he doesnt get laid. I'm sorry its easy for females to say, "we think about our dick," but i'm sure females are the same. Your saying darksidzZ is wrong because he'd like to get laid which is something that interest him. Yet, the female is right because all she wants to talk about herself, which interests her. darksidzz doesnt have to stay and listen since hes getting nothing out of it. he wants something.(get laid) and so does she.(someone to listen to her life tales) the goals may be different but they are looking for what THEY WANT. Now you cant hate on darksidzz for that. because honeslty, females dont see the other side. think of it, say you know this hot guy u like to do(trust me i been around females that have said they do that guy from my own ears), and you talk to him and get to know him really well and like him. Then you ask him out, hes like, "nah i only see you as a good friend" would you still talk to him and listen to his rants still?? i have personally done that to females. But i respect her wants, and they dont talk to me anymore. And I respect that.
I can't believe this f***ing thread is still going on. Is it really that hard to figure out how to entice a girl into bed? They like strength, confidence, honesty, intelligence, compassion, good looks... and it doesn't hurt to be wealthy. How hard is this to figure out? If you are lacking in one or more of the above, make up for it with your strengths, don't dwell on your weaknesses. Trust me, chickies like to get laid too... Preferably often and well... Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image! You're making it way too complicated dude! (and others in similar situations)
I'm sure that any point I am going to make here has been made before. But I can't be bothered reading through every retarded response in the thread just to check. Sorry. What some of you people need to remember is that you all move in different social circles, and it's all too easy to make the mistake of thinking you understand the world because you understand the particular little slice of it that you find yourselves within. Your lifestyle, the friends you have, the places you go, the particular brand of excitement that you seek, it all dictates to a very real extent the types of people you will spend most of your time associating with. But there are very different worlds out there, and very different people. The typical "nice guy" who has lots of female friends but never gets laid says absolutely nothing concrete about any success a person will have with women by being "nice". The "nice guys" you are referring to are obviously just lacking in the interesting department. I can tell you from personal experience that if you are intriguing enough, and if you have enough self control to avoid salivating over every woman you come into contact with, if you're the intelligent, confident, slightly disinterested male in the group and at least OK to look at, women will tend to make a point of trying to get to know you, and they'll do it as they wade through the crowd of overtly interested guys in the way. If you weren't faking it up until that point, you have a fighting chance with absolutely any woman. If you're the right kind of person, your honesty, integrity and respect, your "niceness", is going to have the right girl pursuing you all the way. I didn't realize this because I'm a manipulative smart ass who is just trying to get laid. I learned this during a time in my life where I was completely over women. I didn't want to have anything to do with them romantically, ever again. I didn't literally mean ever of course, it was just how I was feeling at the time having just broken up with a girl who had driven me quite mad. I was always nice, my usual occasionally brilliantly subtly witty self, with an air of depth and mystery about me (because I literally am deep and mysterious to some people), but I wasn't at all engaged in the typical flirtatious exchanges that generally occur between attractive females and interested males. In fact at that time I often found myself noticing and reflecting upon the absurdity of it all, and was sometimes commenting to myself how ridiculous some of the exchanges actually were. Going right back to high school, because the memory has just popped into my mind, even then I can remember many experiences that completely contradict the assertion that nice guys don't get laid. First, there was the time when my best friends girlfriend started calling me to discuss all the problems she was having with him. Seriously, honestly, I always had his back and every piece of advice I gave her was genuinely designed to keep them together. In the end however, she came onto me in a pretty major way one time and wouldn't stop carrying on about how "understanding" and "decent" I was. I am still proud to say today that I dealt with that situation in a way that left my self-respect and relationship with my friend intact. In the interests of being honest here however, it is not just my integrity that I owe my faithfulness to my friend to. Sex, at the time, kind of freaked me out. There were a lot of situations where I did something to avoid it. In terms of how sexually attracted I am to women, I am just like any other guy. I was just a little frigid for a little longer than a lot of other guys, so I missed out a few times. The most retrospectively hilarious example is the time I got talking to this chick at a party who became convinced that I was gay because at the time I was genuinely interested in this awesome conversation we were having and wasn't coming on to her. I remember her telling me that she didn't feel threatened by me like she did with most other guys. After a few more drinks she literally dragged me out to the back room and wouldn't back off. We fooled around a bit but I just wasn't ready to go the whole way. I'm sure you can imagine the rumors that were circulating amongst our friends for a while. Anyway, I'm not a seriously hot guy. I am pretty average looking. Some of the really hot chicks out there are way out of my league. I doubt they would look twice at me. But that doesn't bother me. I've had enough genuine interest from attractive women over the years to keep me happy. Haven't found just the right one yet, but there's certainly hope. She doesn't have to be majorly hot. If you take a decent looking woman, even an average girl-next-door type girl, and add a strong character, an independent spirit, a generous dose of intelligence and a reasonable helping of emotional maturity, I am hooked. The physical attraction absolutely needs to be there, I have to be honest about that, but it is definitely possible for a woman to be much sexier than her more aesthetically perfect competition if she has the right personality. Again, in response to the absurdity of the claim which spawned this discussion, every single sexual partner I have had in my life, from my later teenager years right into my thirties, I have had because a chick got interested in me because I seemed like a decent, intriguing guy. They all say something like that. But being a decent guy is not something you should pretend to be in order to get laid. Being a decent person is one of truly worthwhile goals that everyone should work towards in life. I am still working towards it myself. The point here is that you shouldn't think for a second that you have to sacrifice this goal for the sake of having a bit of fun with the opposite sex. That is just complete and utter bullshit as I am sure most of you automatically either suspect or know from experience.
Very well put. i suppose darksidzZ is trying/thinking way too hard. I find i get more numbers/chicks attracted to me when I dont try at all. weird huh? thats because I'm not trying to do anything but be myself. That way, you will never lose.
I like these last 2 responses, they are very insightful. I thank you both. I guess I am trying/thinking to hard, I've decided I won't pursue this topic further for now, I need to get my head out of the sand and find a way of passing time other than worrying about my lack of love. I think the social circles thing is a very reasonable concept, I just haven't found one that fits me yet Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
