Are you for or against spanking kids ?.

Discussion in 'Human Science' started by mike47, Aug 15, 2009.

  1. cluelusshusbund + Public Dilemma + Valued Senior Member

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    If they didnt get anyhang out of the time out i dout its totaly you'r fault... i emagine the brake-down in consistency of disiplin started wit ther parents... but i have no idea why you mite thank it woud be necesary for you to set thar an stare at 'em while ther in time out... lol.!!!

    You'r in a near imposible situaton as far as the over all consisterncy in the childrens disiplin because you only have them part time... but if you an the others in charge at the day care center woud truly be consistent wit time outs insted of usin "mind games" i thank you an the children woud benifit.!!!
     
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  3. Betrayer0fHope MY COHERENCE! IT'S GOING AWAYY Registered Senior Member

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    Wow I remember this guy differently.

    Anyway, no. They're children, and have removed rights, but should have additional protection.

    Additionally, if a kid only learns to behave because he's afraid of getting his ass kicked, when people can't he's just gonna fuck around and be a general assfuck. I've talked to my teacher's before, and they all say that these children are undisciplined and their parents are the ones that say he's never done anything bad at home, only because he's not afraid of the teacher.
     
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  5. CutsieMarie89 Zen Registered Senior Member

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    If I had checked on them more often I could have kept sleeper awake and reminded forgetful why he was sitting there. After years of being stepped on by kids and their parents. I run a much tighter ship now. I don't put up with crap from the kids in my section anymore. And I let junior fall asleep, which was mostly my fault for getting so frazzled and unorganized, so I didn't get angry with him. But I normally would never put up with that.
    I don't care what their parents let them do at home. When they're with me they play by my rules and they better not forget it either. I don't like being mean, but I refuse to deal with their crap. Ever since I've let protocol go by the way side when I feel it's ineffective and tailored my punishments to the child, I found that we're all much happier. I spend less time yelling and handing out time outs and more time playing and having fun with the kids.
     
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  7. cluelusshusbund + Public Dilemma + Valued Senior Member

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    oK.. i suspected all along you didnt understan how to do time-outs.!!!

    I dont envy the imposible situaton you'r in.!!!

    Well im sure you try not to... but thers only so much you can do wit other peoples kids.!!!

    Well thats a new 1 for me... force a child to stay awake so they can esperience the full measure of ther "punishment"

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    But in concluson about that i say this:::

    Havin to deal wit you'r bosses an parents an the kids of those parents... you prolly have 1 of the mos mentaly-drainin an stressful jobs ther is.!!!

    Yes thers all sorts of ways to raize kids... an the disiplin can be handled thru settin an atmosphere of mutual respect... or if you'r not mentaly an psychicaly capable of that... time-outs are very effective but they can be time comsumin at firs an mos people prolly never learn the proper teckneique to begin wit an give up on it... an for those who woud like to spank but ant allowed to thers always intimidaton/fear thru mind-games... all the way to the crappest parents of all who are certan that beatin hell out of 'em is the way to go.... lol... but im so glad my parents was able to utalize the mutual respect route... an that i dont have any horror stories about how i was riaized like so many peopole do... an even when they dyed it was oK... ther was no unresolved issues... jus lots of fond menories.!!!
     
  8. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Clueless, why the fuck do you intentionally butcher your spelling? It's so offputting to look at.
     
  9. Challenger78 Valued Senior Member

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    Psychologically ? Against. It always comes back to bite you in the ass, sooner or later.
    Practically, I can see the benefits. But if one must resort to violence, then one has lost the psychological edge.
     
  10. mike47 Banned Banned

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    Not all parents are psychologists or psychiatrists for sure .
     
  11. cluelusshusbund + Public Dilemma + Valued Senior Member

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    I never have spelled good... sinse i got out of school im jus used to spellin my own way.!!!

    PS
    Do you want to be my frind.???
     
  12. PsychoticEpisode It is very dry in here today Valued Senior Member

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    Ultimately, all kids come from parents.

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    I'm sure you would agree that some people should never be allowed to have, let alone raise a kid.

    Do you think criminals are born criminals? Psychopaths are born psychopaths? That Octomom, the single mom with 14 kids, what are the chances those kids all become saints? Which brings to mind another question.... does too many siblings mean there's not enough love to go around and as a result some kids go to the dark side?
     
  13. mike47 Banned Banned

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    Kids are humans and therefore they have brains . At a certain age they realize what is right and what is wrong in any given society . Every kid is different as every adult is different too . Putting all the responsibility on parents and forgetting or neglecting the kids' responsibility is just another wash washy wash.....does help no one .
     
  14. PsychoticEpisode It is very dry in here today Valued Senior Member

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    The first society imprinted on a kid's mind is the family unit. If Dad smacks mom around all the time then the child may be led to believe this is okay. Physical abusers and paedophiles often blame their parents for their actions as an adult.
     
  15. mike47 Banned Banned

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    Abusers and pedophiles are sick people and they blame anyone but themselves....of course...!.
     
  16. breeze Registered Member

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    Surely.
     
  17. lucifers angel same shit, differant day!! Registered Senior Member

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  18. cluelusshusbund + Public Dilemma + Valued Senior Member

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    Give an esample of what coud cause a kid who was givin a brilliant upbrangin wit wonderful parents to turn out "bad".???
     
  19. Syzygys As a mother, I am telling you Valued Senior Member

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    Menendez brothers, greediness....
     
  20. cluelusshusbund + Public Dilemma + Valued Senior Member

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    oK... but what causes a person to be greedy.???
     
  21. (Q) Encephaloid Martini Valued Senior Member

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    Kids just suddenly and magically realize?

    No, it just shows how very little you know about it.
     
  22. mike47 Banned Banned

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    That is true.
    Many sad examples like this one .

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  23. visceral_instinct Monkey see, monkey denigrate Valued Senior Member

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    Yeah, why not?

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