what are you doing that's annoying him? i can't find a post that even asks why he's saying this to you. they're all saying find someone else, but so far what's to say you're not the person doing the wrong thing?
I suggest you quickly learn how to straighten up! If you don't want to loose your boyfriend, you should learn how to cater to his needs. You should probably realize that there are many people out there that are far better than you, and he's probably with you to do you a favor. Make sure you return the favor by being obedient. If you can't handle the pressure, then you should let him go and find someone better.
Skaught, You're full of it. I am who I am, and there is no one better. Being as you are, a prick and jerk is not properly responding to my Opening Post. You think I'm not being obedient to my boyfriend. You think he thinks I'm inferior to him or something, that there's actually better people out there. You're full of it. I seriously can't think of anyone as motivated as I am..... say this bullshit is just hurting my feelings. You asshole.
Well if you really were motivated, you would direct that energy to trying to think of a way to be a better girlfriend... just a thought
if your boyfriends is pissing you off than piss off him too...its quite nasty...but with both of you pissing on each other, it will equal out. Please Register or Log in to view the hidden image!
It may seem like I am full of shit. I'm challenging you. Trying to get you to understand how your boyfriend probably thinks. So MAYBE, you should dump that asshole and find someone better yourself!
You've totally warped my perspective of how I think he thinks about me. When I talk to him again (he's taken a vacation), hes gonna have an argument from hell.
Good. Then I have accopmplished my goal. Don't put up with his shit! Sounds like you have high enough self esteem to know that YOU can do better. He obviously can't.
omg this is so stupid. there's three possibilities: your boyfriend expects you to change and is a prick - dump him or fix things you're doing something wrong, ur bf is right - stop playing up you're doing something wrong and he's a prick - stop playing up, stop him being a prick figure which one and act accordingly.
If he's been bothering you about it for quite a while about "straightening up", then it's a big issue for him, and it will not go away. It also means that you won't "straighten up", because you'd already have done that if you were capable or willing. So what will happen is a long term relationship where he keeps being upset by you not meeting his standards, and you taking abuse, or just being reminded that you aren't "good enough", and eventually he will realize, after several attempts to accept you, that he can't, and will get up and leave you. People never f'n change. Or, I should say, the large majority of people never do. I only know of one person that ever changed - he was a junky loser living on the streets, and now he's a clean successful salesman getting married to a schoolteacher. All other people never ever EVER changed. So cut your losses and find someone else - for both of your sakes.
this is fairly common. the question one can ask here is: is the person attemting to change you for the better? NOT necessarily better for THEM but better for you.
