a societal observation and a question for females.

some women aswell has men, don't like looking into eyes, perhaps they think its creepy, now me, (being female) like looking into the eyes of a man, i think the eyes tell when your lieing, and when your truthful, and when your sincere

 

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ok ok purple thingy magigy

in response to your post

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=kcF9fWvX5VU&feature=related

do you accept my proposal??

 

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Can you describe what a "sleazy" look would look like???

 

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why don't you post a pic of yourself and let the females of the board tell you if they would want you looking at them?

 

You obviously aren't a woman if you need a description. So I don't know if you can understand a description. But I'll try. Usually it involves looking in your eyes for a minute and the look moving south within a second... A grin that can't really be described as anything but offensive... It's the kind of look someone who's starving would give a piece of meat in a market (I have previously mentioned female friends helping me with this one.) Basically it's a sense of violation that can't really be described. And there is a very big difference between appreciation and "this look". Appreciation might or might not be appreciated depending on individual women. But this look is definitely not appreciated by most women.

 

I wont keep it here for long!

Edit: You missed it!

 

I think I understand. I used to have a gay friend, and he would take me to a lot of gay bars... So yeah, I've been given that look myself. It is gross. But do you consider it sleazy if you make eye contact with a guy and he just smiles nicely, says Hi, and then looks away?

 

Haha, skaught. You ought to know that once you put something on the Internet, it's there permanently.

 

This is true. But this pic is already all over the net. Its on my myspace.

 

Do you (as females) notice when men are looking at you?

Yes

If so, do you interpret it as a sign of aggression, attraction, or something else?

Attraction or something else. Never aggression unless he begins following me around or something.

 

hahahaha yeah the stalking bit seems to get nasty!

 

LOL....You are my total opposite.

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Do I notice a man looking at me? Yes, most men are quite obvious.

I usually look away, but inside I get a bit of an ego boost.

 

Unfortunately I don't think I'd even notice such a look because, as I said, I just don't SEE any more. But no, I wouldn't consider it sleazy.

 

HA!!! I would have never guessed. I am so used to looking at your Avatar thinking you are weirdo.

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I am a weirdo

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But you wouldn't have guessed what???

 

If a woman is teh hawt like she should be, then she wont mind you leering at her. But most of them are too self-conscious, so they presume you're staring at them because you don't like what you see.

The cool ones know why you're looking, make eye contact and give you the brief smile and then go back to whatever they were doing. That's when you should get the urge to scud the table and see what happens.

 

You look better then the image I had

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i was just thinking that

 

Oh I know what they are looking at, esp when their eyes wander lower then my face.

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Thanks Shorty!

So, the question is, If you saw me walking, and I looked at you and smiled, would you make eye contact and smile back? Or would you find me creepy?